Comments on: Good Girl Gone Bad?

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Tue, 02 Dec 2008 06:54:26 +0000

[...] I am a good girl who happens to be kinky. Or, as one of my exes put it: a very bad girl in a good way or a good girl in a very bad way. [...]

By: stolie

stolie — Sat, 21 Jan 2006 13:19:00 +0000

AWE: 25? I'm not that young. :) Jay: I think you're right to call monogamy a concept/theory given that it fails so many in practice. Darwin: Vanilla? No. Chocolate? Yes. ;) lala: This is true, a lot of men seem to think that. Though, I must admit, I tend to think the same ways about guys. If he's **too** sweet or cutesy, I assume he's probably lousy in bed. goldennib: I tend to agree with you. In life, in general, I kinda of think that you have to envision the future (man, job, house, etc.) that you want and then follow the path in that leads in that direction. Without envisioning it, how do you know which way to go? missbhavens: Awww! Thanks!!!! I like that: I am in my own category!! :) surly girl: So, I guess this means you're a bad girl? :) Tonito Bandito: Oooh, I like your mantra. I should write that on the white board on my fridge. MamaChristy: Yeah, Le Canadian can be an ass from time to time. Sid: Hmmm ... I don't know about the “plenty of candidates” stuff, but I'll write a post about that tomorrow. Mitch: Got it. 6:00pm my time, I'll be sending “good luck wishes” your way. Anhoni Patel: When it comes to boys, we might be cyber twins too!! :) Raymond: Thanks, reverend. :)

By: Raymond

Raymond — Sat, 21 Jan 2006 11:00:00 +0000

God is good.

The rest of us are an approximation.

And that needs to be okay.

By: Anhoni Patel

Anhoni Patel — Sat, 21 Jan 2006 02:31:00 +0000

That’s totally me. I’m a good girl in a bad way. It’s a good girl who occasionaly does bad things but is essentially good inside.

By: Mitch

Mitch — Sat, 21 Jan 2006 00:56:00 +0000

I really can’t disagree with anyone else’s comments.

It’s all about being presentable to the office party as a date/girlfriend.

At the same time, after the party, and behind closed doors, or just out for a night on the town, it means that you know how to have a good time.

My $.02

ps. Thanks for the good luck wishes. Tomorrow @ 3pm (6pm your time)!

By: Sid

Sid — Fri, 20 Jan 2006 18:14:00 +0000

I agree that you get what you want, deep down, and that it is ridiculous that women get boxed into good girl/bad girl categories.

Mam’selle Stolie, I think that if you really are ready for a committed relationship, you won’t have any trouble finding suitable candidates, largely because you’ll a) have plenty of candidates to begin with and b)will quickly discard anyone who doesn’t seem to be interested in a serious relationship.

By: MamaChristy

MamaChristy — Fri, 20 Jan 2006 17:16:00 +0000

I really don’t have anything to add except that I agree with what everyone has said. If you wanna relationship, find a guy who wants that too and don’t spend time on the dudes like Le Canadien who, it appears, is really interesting in a fling… (not to say that he’s looking to fling with you, it’s just that he seems to fit a certian profile…)

By: Tonito Bandito

Tonito Bandito — Fri, 20 Jan 2006 16:55:00 +0000

Be good at everything you do, that’s my mantra. Even if some of those things are considered “bad” sometimes. As long as you do the bad things good, all is well! Mwah!

By: surly girl

surly girl — Fri, 20 Jan 2006 15:57:00 +0000

bad girls rule. fact.

By: missbhavens

missbhavens — Fri, 20 Jan 2006 15:46:00 +0000

I agree with the whole interpretation of what he meant. BUT I’m not pleased with the WAY it was said. It only proves that men have this whole “good/bad” thing in their heads all the time as the two catagories we chicks can fit into.

Stolie, in reality, you are your own catagory.