Comments on: Is There Such a Thing as a Soulmate? http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/ Twanna is a sex, dating and relationships writer in New York City. She's funky. She has brown skin. And, she's a chick. FUNKYBROWNCHICK™ chronicles her life. Sat, 20 Mar 2010 16:01:09 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Anonymous http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/comment-page-1/#comment-4841 Anonymous Mon, 09 Oct 2006 00:50:10 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/#comment-4841 <strong>naked camel toe</strong> rate camel toe free camel toe pics tight pants camel toe naked camel toe

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]]> By: stolie | The Funky Brown Chick http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/comment-page-1/#comment-4379 stolie | The Funky Brown Chick Sat, 02 Sep 2006 15:04:00 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/#comment-4379 Darwin, I think you're 100% correct. And, I think I kind of feel the same way. Part of me is cynical, part is idealistic, yada yada yada. At any rate, it's definitely food for thought ... Darwin, I think you’re 100% correct. And, I think I kind of feel the same way. Part of me is cynical, part is idealistic, yada yada yada.

At any rate, it’s definitely food for thought …

]]> By: Darwin http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/comment-page-1/#comment-4378 Darwin Sat, 02 Sep 2006 03:01:00 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/#comment-4378 Ohh, I really don't know how to answer this. The single cynical me would say that the concept of a soulmate is merely an illusion induced by oxytocin and what-not. The non-single/non-cynical me would say "yes soulmates exist but they're hard to find, and you know it when you find it". The <I>realistic</I> me would probably say that the concept of a soulmate is possible under the correct circumstances but needs to be approached with caution as it is easy to confuse a guy as a soul-mate just because he's half decent and he's new and you're not bored with him yet and he hasn't pissed you off yet (oh dear, is that me getting cynical again?! Explains why I'm still single at any rate!) Ohh, I really don’t know how to answer this.

The single cynical me would say that the concept of a soulmate is merely an illusion induced by oxytocin and what-not.

The non-single/non-cynical me would say “yes soulmates exist but they’re hard to find, and you know it when you find it”.

The realistic me would probably say that the concept of a soulmate is possible under the correct circumstances but needs to be approached with caution as it is easy to confuse a guy as a soul-mate just because he’s half decent and he’s new and you’re not bored with him yet and he hasn’t pissed you off yet (oh dear, is that me getting cynical again?! Explains why I’m still single at any rate!)

]]> By: stolie | The Funky Brown Chick http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/comment-page-1/#comment-4377 stolie | The Funky Brown Chick Fri, 01 Sep 2006 17:33:00 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/#comment-4377 I've been lucky in the past, and I'm sure more luck will com eto me in the future. <I>When</I>? Who knows. :) I’ve been lucky in the past, and I’m sure more luck will com eto me in the future. When? Who knows. :)

]]> By: Pegs http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/comment-page-1/#comment-4376 Pegs Fri, 01 Sep 2006 03:11:00 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/#comment-4376 I'm with Howard on this. There are many soulmates out there for each person. You must count yourself among the lucky if you find even one of them in this big, overpopulated world. I’m with Howard on this. There are many soulmates out there for each person. You must count yourself among the lucky if you find even one of them in this big, overpopulated world.

]]> By: stolie | The Funky Brown Chick http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/comment-page-1/#comment-4375 stolie | The Funky Brown Chick Thu, 31 Aug 2006 19:27:00 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/#comment-4375 And, I'm inclined to agree with you. And, I’m inclined to agree with you.

]]> By: Howard http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/comment-page-1/#comment-4374 Howard Thu, 31 Aug 2006 18:34:00 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/#comment-4374 It's like the stars in the sky. There are just too many for there to NOT be life elsewhere, so in love, there are far too many people for someone to have ONE soulmate. I think you have -- at least -- ten. It’s like the stars in the sky. There are just too many for there to NOT be life elsewhere, so in love, there are far too many people for someone to have ONE soulmate.

I think you have — at least — ten.

]]> By: stolie | The Funky Brown Chick http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/comment-page-1/#comment-4373 stolie | The Funky Brown Chick Thu, 31 Aug 2006 13:26:00 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/#comment-4373 <B>AmyD</B>: It's sounds like you and CL have a good thing going. That's GREAT!!! :) And, I *totally* agree about the timing thing. I've met guys that I totally would have dated if I'd met them at a different time in my life. And, I've had relationships that worked really well because we were both ready for it and it was the right time. <B>Laurie</B>: MamaChristy is very wise!!! So is your mother. :) <B>Nics</B>: Oh, believe me, I have absolutely *no one* in mind. :) <B>momok</B>: No, I sooo didn't know that you're getting married. Congrats to you and your lucky partner!!! <B>Raymond</B>: Hmmm ... sounds like you might need a break from dating. <B>Tonito Bandito</B>: And, *YOU* are mine!!!! :) When/if you're ever in New York, we should SOOO go dancing with all them HAWT MENS! <B>History Chic</B>: If they exist, I think it's only fair that everyone gets one. Maybe it's just that you meet them in the next lifetime instead of this one (like AIDA and what not). But, you know, I'm not saying that I believe in "reincarnation". And, I'm not saying that I don't either. I'm not sure. <B>kypris</B>: I *TOTALLY* know what you mean. I did find someone that I totally connected with. But, eventually, he changed. And, I changed too. Where there was once a "connection", there no longer was. Was he my soulmate? Possibly. But, I'm not that person anymore. And, he's not that guy. So, will I have that kind of connection with other people? I already have and I'm pretty sure that I will again. <B>Jay</B>: Man, you are one funny person!!! :) AmyD: It’s sounds like you and CL have a good thing going. That’s GREAT!!! :) And, I *totally* agree about the timing thing. I’ve met guys that I totally would have dated if I’d met them at a different time in my life. And, I’ve had relationships that worked really well because we were both ready for it and it was the right time.

Laurie: MamaChristy is very wise!!! So is your mother. :)

Nics: Oh, believe me, I have absolutely *no one* in mind. :)

momok: No, I sooo didn’t know that you’re getting married. Congrats to you and your lucky partner!!!

Raymond: Hmmm … sounds like you might need a break from dating.

Tonito Bandito: And, *YOU* are mine!!!! :) When/if you’re ever in New York, we should SOOO go dancing with all them HAWT MENS!

History Chic: If they exist, I think it’s only fair that everyone gets one. Maybe it’s just that you meet them in the next lifetime instead of this one (like AIDA and what not). But, you know, I’m not saying that I believe in “reincarnation”. And, I’m not saying that I don’t either. I’m not sure.

kypris: I *TOTALLY* know what you mean. I did find someone that I totally connected with. But, eventually, he changed. And, I changed too. Where there was once a “connection”, there no longer was. Was he my soulmate? Possibly. But, I’m not that person anymore. And, he’s not that guy. So, will I have that kind of connection with other people? I already have and I’m pretty sure that I will again.

Jay: Man, you are one funny person!!! :)

]]> By: Jay http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/comment-page-1/#comment-4372 Jay Thu, 31 Aug 2006 07:01:00 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/#comment-4372 The person you think is The One now might be a total arsehole in a few years time, or turn out to be a serial killer or he might simply fall in love with someone else next week. I think you'll only ever know who The One is - or was - just before you die, when you can look back on your life and say "Yes, it was THIS person. And not the serial killer." The person you think is The One now might be a total arsehole in a few years time, or turn out to be a serial killer or he might simply fall in love with someone else next week.

I think you’ll only ever know who The One is – or was – just before you die, when you can look back on your life and say “Yes, it was THIS person. And not the serial killer.”

]]> By: kypris http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/comment-page-1/#comment-4371 kypris Thu, 31 Aug 2006 06:59:00 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2006/08/30/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-soulmate/#comment-4371 I think it's entirely possible to have a soulmate... and likely more than one. I mean, it's possible to meet more than one person in your life with whom you connect so entirely; however, I think if you find someone like that then you aren't likely to even be thinking about anyone else (not for a long time, anyway). So I guess what I'm saying is that I believe that people can have at least one soulmate, or even more. I think it’s entirely possible to have a soulmate… and likely more than one. I mean, it’s possible to meet more than one person in your life with whom you connect so entirely; however, I think if you find someone like that then you aren’t likely to even be thinking about anyone else (not for a long time, anyway). So I guess what I’m saying is that I believe that people can have at least one soulmate, or even more.

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