The Secret to Great Sex Is …

Wait. Hold that thought. I’m soooooooo fucking glad it’s Friday! This week almost kicked my ass. As many of you know, I work full-time and I’m completing a part-time MA program. That stuff, the blog, the internet radio show, church, friends, a couple of recent dates, writing projects, family, etc. etc. I enjoy it all, but somehow it was all a bit much this week. I’m exhausted. So, I’m taking it easy this weekend. My only set plans are an interesting rendezvous with Playboy Magazine and a private art exhibition party on Saturday. (I’ll fill you in on all of the details soon.) Thank God, Buddha, the Dali Lama and every other good and holy deity for Fridays.

Anyway, new topic …

Sex. I’m not getting any. But, that doesn’t mean that it’s not on my mind. In preparation for Monday’s episode of Dating Roadkill ( … yeah, I know the site needs to be updated with the new info DONE) … Shit. Where was I? Oh, yeah … Sex. Okay, so, I checked out 20 Amazing Sex Secrets on iVillage. Research, for my show, you know? Monday’s episode of Dating Roadkill is “A Surprise Valentine’s Day Show”. Our guests will be sex columnist Rachel Kramer Bussel and author of The Great Sex Secret Kim Marshall. Join us for a conversation about the best ways to surprise your lover (or, if you’re flying solo like I am … yourself) with great sex this Valentine’s Day! To listen to the live show, visit BlogTalkRadio on Monday at 10:00PM EST.


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Susan February 9, 2007 at 12:12 pm

enthusiasm! and a love of the physical form in all its representations.

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Darwin February 9, 2007 at 3:57 pm

Solo. Actually it’s quite annoying. I seem to have developed a pseudo-crush on a guy that’s already taken. Talk about lack of sex, ugh!

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Susan February 9, 2007 at 5:59 pm

I will also add that every valentine’s day, whether I’m “flying solo” or not, I thank the loved ones – brothers, mom, doggies – and try to do something fun for myself. I figure if I’m not with someone i dig, then I’ll do something I dig. Cooking classes, arthouse films, open late museums – last year I bought some GORGEOUS crazy-expensive hand-dyed cashmere yarn that’s seriously too beautiful to knit up.

I’m dating an “artiste” right now and who knows what he’s thinking, so rather than stress out over all that I’ll probably go see “Edward Albee’s Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf” at the Ahmanson with Kathleen Turner and Bill Irwin.

No worries, and Happy Valentine’s Day all!

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Nat February 10, 2007 at 10:01 am

:( I got rid of my boyfriend 4 days ago.. I didn’t remember the St Valentine’s fever! I’m gonna get him back just for that night! I’m so naughty!

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GrizzBabe February 11, 2007 at 1:00 pm

Did you read the last page of that article? Put an Alka-Seltzer in my hooch? I don’t think so.

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FUNKY BROWN CHICK February 11, 2007 at 8:25 pm

Susan: Yeah, enthusiasm makes a world of difference!

Darwin: Oh, sweetie, I’m flying solo too. But, oddly enough, I feeling okay about that this year. As the big “V-Day” draws nearer, I’ll probably write more about that stuff

Susan: Ooooh! I like that idea. I have to figure out what I’ll do to treat myself this week.

Nat: Ewww! :( Only 4 days ago. That’s gotta be a little rough.

GrizzBabe: Girl, I’ve heard stories of people placing mint, garlic and all other kinds of yummy treats in the canal. Hmmm … I’ve never tried any of that. I’m thinking maybe I should be much more adventurous.

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ErrorBoy February 13, 2007 at 10:08 am

Maybe it’s different for guys, but what’s the big deal with V-day? For me it ranks right up there with X-Mas and diamond rings @ 3x monthly wages… (i.e. you’re being marketed to as to how to feel/act/do)

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