Comments on: Should I Write Mr. Blue Back? http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/ Twanna is a sex, dating and relationships writer in New York City. She's funky. She has brown skin. And, she's a chick. FUNKYBROWNCHICK® chronicles her life. Tue, 22 May 2012 12:35:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Lala http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/comment-page-1/#comment-13191 Lala Mon, 30 Apr 2007 10:05:50 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/#comment-13191 or they don't smile because they hate having their picture taken... or they don’t smile because they hate having their picture taken…

]]> By: doodlius http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/comment-page-1/#comment-12981 doodlius Fri, 27 Apr 2007 21:12:26 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/#comment-12981 What the hey, write him back. Maybe he wasn't smiling because he had just finished reading a Cosmo article that said chicks dig brooding bad boys over smilin' schmucks 9 to 1. What the hey, write him back. Maybe he wasn’t smiling because he had just finished reading a Cosmo article that said chicks dig brooding bad boys over smilin’ schmucks 9 to 1.

]]> By: FUNKY BROWN CHICK http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/comment-page-1/#comment-12916 FUNKY BROWN CHICK Fri, 27 Apr 2007 04:12:53 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/#comment-12916 Post his profile? I don't think I'd ever do that. I don't want to *completely* ruin my dating life. The boys are already afraid of the blog enough as it is. :) By the way ... yes, I like men with nice teeth. :) Post his profile? I don’t think I’d ever do that. I don’t want to *completely* ruin my dating life. The boys are already afraid of the blog enough as it is. :)

By the way … yes, I like men with nice teeth. :)

]]> By: ErrorBoy http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/comment-page-1/#comment-12827 ErrorBoy Wed, 25 Apr 2007 14:16:20 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/#comment-12827 Bad teeth? Is he from Europe? IMHO real teeth (*natural teeth*) are a GREAT tool for natural selection... Next time, why not post the link to his profile?!? ;-) Bad teeth? Is he from Europe? IMHO real teeth (*natural teeth*) are a GREAT tool for natural selection…

Next time, why not post the link to his profile?!? ;-)

]]> By: FUNKY BROWN CHICK http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/comment-page-1/#comment-12812 FUNKY BROWN CHICK Wed, 25 Apr 2007 10:24:52 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/#comment-12812 <b>Darwin</b>: One vote for write him back. <b>stefanie</b>: Two. (By the way, I can't believe that there are people who have actually posted their work badge photos!!! Online dating can be quite funny at times.) <b>AmyD</b>: Three votes for write him back. And, I am sooo going to take your advice and ask him why he's not smiling in his pics. <b>Susan</b>: Four votes. And, thanks for the good luck wishes!! <b>Nanna</b>: Yay!!!! I love it when people aren't afraid to buck the trend. Four votes for "call him" and one vote for "don't call him." Good point about the gut feeling, too. My gut feeling tells me: <i>"This guy isn't your type, and he seems a little low energy."</i> He might find me to be a bit, um, overwhelming; I tend to have that affect on really shy guys ... I either click with them instantly because we're opposites, or we're turned off by each other. <b>Felicia</b>: 5 Call Hims and 1 Don't Call Him. And, yeah, I've done online dating off and on. At it's best, it provides a venue for people who wouldn't have met each other in any other method to meet each other. <b>Donna</b>: Yeah. My life is so hectic at the moment that I'm not even available to plan dates with anyone (except friends, of course) until after May 7th. <b>ChiGirl</b>: Oh, no, definitely not smoldering. It's more of a "Deer-in-Headlights" kind of picture. So, yeah ... 5 Call Hims and 1 Don't Call Him. <b>tonito bandito</b>: Good point! Some people aren't good at pics. Maybe he does have better ones. <b>MamaChristy</b>: Yeah, just emailing at this moment, no dates. I don't get an axe murderer vibe ... well ... actually ... now that you mention it ... he *does* say that he likes to read crime novels and he *is* into science fiction. It doesn't scream axe murderer at me, but it does freak me out a little bit. <b>KP</b>: With voting closed, our final tally is: 6 Call Hims and 1 Don't Call Him. Darwin: One vote for write him back.

stefanie: Two. (By the way, I can’t believe that there are people who have actually posted their work badge photos!!! Online dating can be quite funny at times.)

AmyD: Three votes for write him back. And, I am sooo going to take your advice and ask him why he’s not smiling in his pics.

Susan: Four votes. And, thanks for the good luck wishes!!

Nanna: Yay!!!! I love it when people aren’t afraid to buck the trend. Four votes for “call him” and one vote for “don’t call him.” Good point about the gut feeling, too. My gut feeling tells me: “This guy isn’t your type, and he seems a little low energy.” He might find me to be a bit, um, overwhelming; I tend to have that affect on really shy guys … I either click with them instantly because we’re opposites, or we’re turned off by each other.

Felicia: 5 Call Hims and 1 Don’t Call Him. And, yeah, I’ve done online dating off and on. At it’s best, it provides a venue for people who wouldn’t have met each other in any other method to meet each other.

Donna: Yeah. My life is so hectic at the moment that I’m not even available to plan dates with anyone (except friends, of course) until after May 7th.

ChiGirl: Oh, no, definitely not smoldering. It’s more of a “Deer-in-Headlights” kind of picture. So, yeah … 5 Call Hims and 1 Don’t Call Him.

tonito bandito: Good point! Some people aren’t good at pics. Maybe he does have better ones.

MamaChristy: Yeah, just emailing at this moment, no dates. I don’t get an axe murderer vibe … well … actually … now that you mention it … he *does* say that he likes to read crime novels and he *is* into science fiction. It doesn’t scream axe murderer at me, but it does freak me out a little bit.

KP: With voting closed, our final tally is: 6 Call Hims and 1 Don’t Call Him.

]]> By: KP http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/comment-page-1/#comment-12789 KP Wed, 25 Apr 2007 02:05:45 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/#comment-12789 Write him back....It doesn't hurt! Why not?! Write him back….It doesn’t hurt! Why not?!

]]> By: MamaChristy http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/comment-page-1/#comment-12777 MamaChristy Tue, 24 Apr 2007 22:16:18 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/#comment-12777 As long as you don't get an axe murderer vibe and you plan to meet him in public (if you plan to meet him - I think this is just e-mail for now, right?), what's it gonna hurt. I'm with the hansome Tonito, ask for more pics! As long as you don’t get an axe murderer vibe and you plan to meet him in public (if you plan to meet him – I think this is just e-mail for now, right?), what’s it gonna hurt. I’m with the hansome Tonito, ask for more pics!

]]> By: tonito bandito http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/comment-page-1/#comment-12766 tonito bandito Tue, 24 Apr 2007 19:01:13 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/#comment-12766 How about asking for more pictures. Maybe some casual shots to get more of a feel about him. Sometimes people's personalities do come across in pictures. (At least my crazy friends do!) Just a thought! Mwah! How about asking for more pictures. Maybe some casual shots to get more of a feel about him. Sometimes people’s personalities do come across in pictures. (At least my crazy friends do!) Just a thought!

Mwah!

]]> By: ChiGirl http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/comment-page-1/#comment-12764 ChiGirl Tue, 24 Apr 2007 18:28:15 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/#comment-12764 Hmmm... is his picture one of those sexy, smoldering no smile pics? Or possible mug shot type pics? From what you've written so far, I would not write him back. Find someone who smiles and makes you want to smile. Hmmm… is his picture one of those sexy, smoldering no smile pics? Or possible mug shot type pics?

From what you’ve written so far, I would not write him back. Find someone who smiles and makes you want to smile.

]]> By: Donna http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/comment-page-1/#comment-12760 Donna Tue, 24 Apr 2007 16:53:08 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/04/24/should-i-write-this-guy-back/#comment-12760 some guys just don't like to smile in pictures. They think it makes them look cheesy and they're trying to be tough. If you set something up with him, schedule it after your life slows down a bit, that way there's no pressure. That's my 2¢. some guys just don’t like to smile in pictures. They think it makes them look cheesy and they’re trying to be tough. If you set something up with him, schedule it after your life slows down a bit, that way there’s no pressure. That’s my 2¢.

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