Comments on: Urban Cougars and Their Young Boytoys

By: rubberpillfairy

rubberpillfairy — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 05:04:40 +0000

I’m 25 years old and slightly, no highly confused. For the longest time I just knew I wanted a guy at least a few years older than me, but the more I date those guys, the more I realized how much baggage they have and how disrespectful and unappreciative they could be. Recently, a 17 year old (soon to be 18 in May) started flirting with me, giving me compliments all of the time and being generally sweet, something I fail to see in the majority of guys my age and older. It was just really cute at first; I thought he was a sweet, cute kid and nothing more. But, recently, I’ve noticed that I get those “crush” feelings when he comes aroung; butterflies, nervousness, etc. My first thougt is that this is absolutely gross and crosses way too many lines and not only is this wrong, this is illegal! I’ve talked to only a couple people about it, just being a crush and nothing more, and they’ve both told me that once he’s 18, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it. I’m so confused though because I’m one who tends to stick to society’s stigma’s, stupidly so, like older women generally shouldn’t date younger men, 8 years younger at that. However, I’ve also notived a proliferation, in the media and in everyday society, of older women dating younger, sometimes much younger men. They’ve been dubbed “Cougars”, which is, as far as I’ve experienced, a quite sexy concept. My confusion arises at another point: I’m not sure if I’d be considered something like a “Cougar” or something more like a sick-o. Help!

By: Brian Holmes

Brian Holmes — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 17:06:19 +0000

I have been a GILF hunter ever since I had a crush on my best friends grandmother in college (i’m 39). My biggest problem has always been getting them to take me seriously as a potential boyfriend.
Many of the GILFS that are publicized are that great looking but there are plenty of women in their 50’s-60’s who are gorgeous without having surgery.
Case in point, this 63 year old GILF: http://www.eros-la.com/files/121550.htm

By: nowacougar

nowacougar — Sun, 13 Sep 2009 21:53:38 +0000

The last two years I have found that I am attracting the “cubs” I am single never married no kids and these guys are hot! I am enjoying it I am 38 and not looking for a relationship this is perfect…..My recent cub calls me almost once a day…even just to say hi….nice I am enjoying it…..no guilt here….

By: chocolate72

chocolate72 — Tue, 28 Jul 2009 18:39:11 +0000

I understand the Cougar, but I am a 37 year black woman who prefers dating white men from late 40’s to early 50’s. As Jennifer (Lonnie Anderson) once said on WKRP… Older men are Mature, Generous and Tire easily. I like a good time, multiple times, but hate to be worn out in one super session.

My quandry though with all this talk of Cougars, MILF’s and GILF’s is there are names for the older woman. What about the Guy? What do you call an older man who dates younger women?

By: Puma73

Puma73 — Tue, 28 Jul 2009 18:19:58 +0000

It seems that the older I get(currently 35) the younger they get. I’ve been getting some attention from younger guys(20’s roughly). They don’t seem to have as many issues. The guy I’m with is 8 years older than I am and he’s like my Father.If I were completely single, I’d definitely date a younger man. A relationship long-term wise would be if we actually had more in common other than sex.

By: pacougar

pacougar — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 19:02:32 +0000

I’m 49 dating/living with a 22 yr old. He pursued me till I gave in. We are having a blast, know its temporary, but we are enjoying each other a day at a time. He is the first younger man I’ve been with – prior to him my choice in men was 10 – 17 yrs older……

By: mery

mery — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 12:11:49 +0000

I really like all the comments, I am dating a 21 years old and I am 33. I was very nervous about it, but know I see it not that bad “ha”.

By: FUNKY BROWN CHICK

FUNKY BROWN CHICK — Thu, 12 Jul 2007 16:12:34 +0000

So do I! :-)

By: renee

renee — Thu, 12 Jul 2007 15:33:03 +0000

I’m almost 40 and I’ve been “seeing” younger guys since I was 30. My latest is a 23 year old. He most definitely has stamina and treats me with respect which I LOVE. I’ve noticed the difference between men my age and the younger guys. The ones my age can seem to hold up.

I only heard about the name for this a couple of days ago when my friend called me a cougar. I had to check it out and find out for myself. I think it’s awesome!

By: FUNKY BROWN CHICK

FUNKY BROWN CHICK — Sat, 23 Jun 2007 14:15:10 +0000

Oh, I **LOVE** that!!! :-)