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	<title>Comments on: How to Lose Women &amp; Piss Off Possible Dates</title>
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		<title>By: FUNKY BROWN CHICK</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/07/23/how-to-lose-women-piss-off-possible-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-19553</link>
		<dc:creator>FUNKY BROWN CHICK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jul 2007 18:38:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>GOOD suggestions! :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>GOOD suggestions! :-)</p>
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		<title>By: Will</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/07/23/how-to-lose-women-piss-off-possible-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-19543</link>
		<dc:creator>Will</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jul 2007 16:24:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Approach her in a very non-aggressive way. Talk to her, like Andy suggests, and if you can (if you&#039;re the type of person who finds they can do this with relative ease) make her laugh.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Approach her in a very non-aggressive way. Talk to her, like Andy suggests, and if you can (if you&#8217;re the type of person who finds they can do this with relative ease) make her laugh.</p>
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		<title>By: FUNKY BROWN CHICK</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/07/23/how-to-lose-women-piss-off-possible-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-19352</link>
		<dc:creator>FUNKY BROWN CHICK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jul 2007 15:26:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Baba Doodlius&lt;/b&gt;: I&#039;ve actually tried that move myself a couple of times. Guys dig it.

&lt;b&gt;sexpotdonna&lt;/b&gt;: Yeah, it&#039;s pretty hot when folks actually pay attention to (and remember) the words that come out of your mouth.

&lt;b&gt;ErrorBoy&lt;/b&gt;: You *are* a good listener. It&#039;s just that you, you know, only listen to the stuff that you actually want to hear.  ;)

&lt;b&gt;Andy&lt;/b&gt;: You&#039;re a good man, babes. :-)  ... Wait a minute ... Are you the same Andy from the other blog or are you a different Andy?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Baba Doodlius</b>: I&#8217;ve actually tried that move myself a couple of times. Guys dig it.</p>
<p><b>sexpotdonna</b>: Yeah, it&#8217;s pretty hot when folks actually pay attention to (and remember) the words that come out of your mouth.</p>
<p><b>ErrorBoy</b>: You *are* a good listener. It&#8217;s just that you, you know, only listen to the stuff that you actually want to hear.  ;)</p>
<p><b>Andy</b>: You&#8217;re a good man, babes. :-)  &#8230; Wait a minute &#8230; Are you the same Andy from the other blog or are you a different Andy?</p>
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		<title>By: Andy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jul 2007 18:29:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, that&#039;s easy. Show interest--genuine interest--in what she&#039;s talking about. Ask questions. Find common ground.

If you are not truly interested in what she has to say, it&#039;s going to be apparent fairly quickly that you&#039;re just using conversation as a means to stare at her breasts.

Otherwise, at the risk of sounding sanctimonious, I love finding common ground with someone I&#039;ve just met. There&#039;s nothing more fun than talking with someone about a mutual interest you&#039;ve just discovered you share.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, that&#8217;s easy. Show interest&#8211;genuine interest&#8211;in what she&#8217;s talking about. Ask questions. Find common ground.</p>
<p>If you are not truly interested in what she has to say, it&#8217;s going to be apparent fairly quickly that you&#8217;re just using conversation as a means to stare at her breasts.</p>
<p>Otherwise, at the risk of sounding sanctimonious, I love finding common ground with someone I&#8217;ve just met. There&#8217;s nothing more fun than talking with someone about a mutual interest you&#8217;ve just discovered you share.</p>
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		<title>By: ErrorBoy</title>
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		<dc:creator>ErrorBoy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jul 2007 17:41:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmmmm, I hear that whole listening biz works with wives too.  Perhaps worth a try?

Your best bet the other way around... laugh at his jokes and tell him size doesn&#039;t matter (the last one was a trick remark, only works for those who are small and rather stupid or well-endowed *and* secure, perhaps a good filter?)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmmmm, I hear that whole listening biz works with wives too.  Perhaps worth a try?</p>
<p>Your best bet the other way around&#8230; laugh at his jokes and tell him size doesn&#8217;t matter (the last one was a trick remark, only works for those who are small and rather stupid or well-endowed *and* secure, perhaps a good filter?)</p>
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		<title>By: sexpotdonna</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2007/07/23/how-to-lose-women-piss-off-possible-dates/comment-page-1/#comment-19276</link>
		<dc:creator>sexpotdonna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jul 2007 17:04:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yes, I agree with Baba. Also yelling out, &quot;that&#039;s right, honey, show those babies off!&quot; has known to make me want to jump into your car and start making out with you, even though it is parked next to the drive-thru at McDonald&#039;s.

You know who you are, you 2 fucking Atlantic City morons.

[in all seriousness, remembering a conversation we had about a movie/book/restaurant I liked and bringing it up later after you watched the movie/read the book/sampled the dish will let me know you at least listen to me and respect my opinions and recommendations.]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yes, I agree with Baba. Also yelling out, &#8220;that&#8217;s right, honey, show those babies off!&#8221; has known to make me want to jump into your car and start making out with you, even though it is parked next to the drive-thru at McDonald&#8217;s.</p>
<p>You know who you are, you 2 fucking Atlantic City morons.</p>
<p>[in all seriousness, remembering a conversation we had about a movie/book/restaurant I liked and bringing it up later after you watched the movie/read the book/sampled the dish will let me know you at least listen to me and respect my opinions and recommendations.]</p>
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		<title>By: Baba Doodlius</title>
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		<dc:creator>Baba Doodlius</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jul 2007 16:39:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Stare intently at her while breathing heavily through his mouth and rubbing his groin.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stare intently at her while breathing heavily through his mouth and rubbing his groin.</p>
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