Comments on: Men vs. Women: Whose Single Life Sucks More?

By: Bob

Bob — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 12:42:59 +0000

Dave , 100 Internets to you sir , correct !

Misandry is the excepted norm these days ,but strangely it is kept quiet ,so demonization or just being Ignored is the life of a single man .

I for one have given up on online dating ,men get Ignored unless they are in the top 20% on looks and wage; If you do get a date you get the pleasure of a women who could date 10 other guys at a drop of a hat .

The Dating scene is a market of which the value of men due to supply and demand is zero ,LOL , because dating sites want to continue making money ,it is all kept quiet .

Rant over :)

By: dave

dave — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 06:43:19 +0000

Im an average to below average looking guy and Ive been with the same women for 11 years because I know how f*d up women are, my wife is very cute but I knew she loves me for who I am, women are so damn picky , even the average to ugly ones want money and looks, i love it when they reject the average guys and then are 35 years old with no kids saying I can’t find a good guy, its a joke!

By: Jen

Jen — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 20:07:58 +0000

So, I stumbled on this site, because my girl friend and I were having a conversation…about how men have more to choose from then women. So, I decided to google statistics on male population verses female. This caught my attention; which is rare as I am pretty sure that I have Adult ADD. Just kidding…so, I am reading this article.

I agree with Jonathan and how pretty women have it easy…if you want a sugar daddy, or if you want to get laid. I am a fairly attractive female. I catch the eye of males from time to time. I on the other hand am not looking for a sugar daddy, or to just get laid. I am looking for: a life partner, someone I can build history with, someone who enjoys my company, and someone who I can call my best friend. I have been currently single for 6 years now, and the picking for great guys are slim.

I think I am single because my standards are too high. I want a man: who is educated, who doesn’t live at home with their mom or dad, someone that by my age should be settled and has a place, not to mention a car, and has not just a job…preferrably a career.

I just think it is funny how still yet Jonathan is just stating the obvious. Yes, women who look good have an easier time getting laid and landing a sugar daddy. Besides that I am still in search and a needle in a hay stack is very hard to find, but I refuse to give up.

Happily single here in Florida,

Jen

By: Stevie-b

Stevie-b — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 04:03:25 +0000

Interesting point, Bob. I do think single women have more choices than single men.

Wanna see more evidence that single women (at least the younger ones) have it better than the guys? Check this out:

http://www.mutantpalm.org/2008/10/26/americas-bare-branches.html

The guy’s blog links to a map that shows that for Singles in the 20-34 age bracket, *EVERY SINGLE* major metropolitan area in the United States has substantially more single men than women! (Yes, that includes NYC!) Again, younger women have more choices. No wonder I can’t find women my age who are single and looking!

By: bob

bob — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 17:09:36 +0000

Single women have it much much easier. A single man may be single because he cannot find a girlfriend, most wont admit it, but there are many men(yes including me) who have a very difficult time getting women to put down the bitch shield and give them a chance. This is not true for single women. A good looking girl is single because she WANTS TO BE, not for lack of men salivating at a chance to ‘get her.’ Even the most modest looking girl can put on a short skirt, a little makeup and hit the club and be hit on at least 5-6 times.

By: Thetruth

Thetruth — Fri, 07 Nov 2008 00:58:33 +0000

Reality guy is a smart motherfucker- a dying breed in america.

By: Thetruth

Thetruth — Fri, 07 Nov 2008 00:57:01 +0000

I would say the female single life sucks more because you are in competition with each other for the shiny thing to show off to your friends that they can’t get.
Men only play that same game you play- to get pussy.

So I expect you being single is a goddamn nightmare whereas a man being single is a FUCKING RELIEF.

By: Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com

Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 17:46:38 +0000

I agree; it often seems men need women more than vice versa.

By: Stevie-b

Stevie-b — Sat, 06 Sep 2008 20:54:19 +0000

I know most of these comments were made quite some time ago, but I was so intrigued with this thread that I couldn’t pass it up!

Some months ago I was bemoaning my single status to a married female co-worker. I made the remark: “The problem is that men need women a lot more than women need men.” She actually agreed with my statement. Let’s face it: for all the talk about being “independent” and “a lone ranger,” most men need a woman in order to feel validated. I know that doesn’t *HAVE* to be true, but sometimes I think for a lot of us guys, life would be considerably better sharing life with a woman who actually wants to spend time with us. There’s also a bit of a double standard in regards to friendships: women can have their “girlfriends,” but if a guy has male friends he’s emotionally close to, he must be “gay.”

But yeah, I have to echo previous posters: us single guys have it worse. Just look at the suicide and early death rates for single men. :-(

By: Twanna // FUNKY BROWN CHICK

Twanna // FUNKY BROWN CHICK — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 10:13:44 +0000

Thanks for the comment. :)

You said, “All men ranging from 18 to 60 feel they deserve a shot at that hot young girl.” I agree. You also said, “All guys pretty much want the same thing and women are much more diverse in what they want.” I disagree. Men may have been conditioned to believe “beauty” only comes in one particular shape, size, personality, color, etc., but it’s not been my experience that all men have bought into that bullshit. Some? Yes. All? No. Same could be said for women.