Comments on: Are Good Guys Drawn to Bad Girls?

By: funkybrownchick

funkybrownchick — Thu, 05 Jun 2008 10:12:08 +0000

You’ve said, “I’ve seen it a few times with a few guy friends but the guys are so devastated they make it tough for the next girl.” That’s DEFINITELY the case for a couple of my exes. I actually told one guy, “I wish I met you before she got to you.”

And, yeah, I think nice guys with an edge are good picks. :)

By: Afroamerica Writer

Afroamerica Writer — Wed, 04 Jun 2008 18:07:35 +0000

I don’t know about good guys to bad girls. I’ve seen it a few times with a few guy friends but the guys are so devastated they make it tough for the next girl.

On the flip side, I can understand about the draw to bad boys. But when you get enlightened, you’ll avoid them like a plague. For me, I say, how about a nice guy with an edge?

By: funkybrownchick

funkybrownchick — Thu, 28 Feb 2008 00:41:28 +0000

Errorboy = Badboy :)

By: ErrorBoy

ErrorBoy — Wed, 27 Feb 2008 15:21:46 +0000

Haha, due to my inexperience with the Bibble(sic) I briefly assumed ’stoning’ was related to a sex act at age 16 or at age 40 with the help of some ‘V’. “Hell yeah, I’ve stoned before!” ;-)

I’ve always liked the bad girls, i.e. the superfreaky Rick James kind “you don’t take home to mother”.

Somehow I ended up marrying a “good one” with a bad streak once in a while, and I console myself with the fact that in case of emergency there’s a bad girl on every corner in NY (and not all are pros!).

By: funkybrownchick

funkybrownchick — Wed, 27 Feb 2008 14:00:34 +0000

@ Carolina Pereira: I’m not sure if I’m a good girl or a bad girl. Two years ago — pre-Rihanna — “Le Canadien” described me as a good girl gone bad.

@ Baba Doodlius: The book RAWKS!! Definitely read it. And, interesting that you mention Mrs. D is a good girl gone bad. As I mentioned to Carolina above, one of my exes describes me the same way.

@ Pegs: Couldn’t agree with you more. Except, of course, substitute “longterm boyfriend” for “marriage” in my case.

@ Raymond: I have an interesting past and an interesting future — but the word is used differently for each case.

By: Raymond

Raymond — Wed, 27 Feb 2008 10:02:00 +0000

Yeah I think so. My goal is to find a woman with an interesting future, not an interesting past.

By: Pegs

Pegs — Wed, 27 Feb 2008 00:29:10 +0000

It’s true for me. I had a couple of boyfriends who never would have “made the cut” if I were looking for a husband at the time. Since I was just out to have fun, I could play a little wildly. When I knew I was in the market for keeps, I was much pickier.

By: Baba Doodlius

Baba Doodlius — Tue, 26 Feb 2008 23:41:23 +0000

Mrs. Doodlius is good AND bad, in all the right ways.

OK, sorry about that.

Anyway, I’ve always said that opposites attract but it’s always chemistry that makes you stick. So, that whole “good chases bad” thing is often true, but there has to be more than just that for that type of relationship to last.

Aside: I’ve been meaning to read that “Living Biblically” book for a while now. Anybody read it? Is it good?

By: Carolina Pereira

Carolina Pereira — Tue, 26 Feb 2008 22:54:43 +0000

i hope that’s true cause i’m a good girl and i want a good boy to marry ;)