Cougars and Cubs: Older Women, Younger Men

Is it true — as the guys in this video claim — that all boys fantasize about older women? “As a kid [...] you naturally are attracted to an older female. You wanna bone your teacher. You wanna bone your best friend’s mother. You wanna bone, you know, the woman across the street … you know what I mean … secretly when her husband‘s at work. You kind of have these natural fantasies.”

Heeeeeeere, little cubbies. Wanna come out and play? As many of you know, my “engagement” to Sweet-Faced, Bearded Kid is off. So, here’s what I’ve been thinking. Is it time for this fit 30-something cougar to find a new , spry, 20-something boytoy? Maybe. Maybe not. In any case, I saw the video above over at current.com.

Remember this photo? I created it for a previous post on urban cougars almost a year ago. Lots of interesting feedback and comments on that one. Now that there are a few new folks on the blog, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Are you a cougar or a cub? Do you tend to date older or younger or exactly within your age range? And, why?

Related posts:
The Manly Men of Yelp.com
Urban Cougars and their Young Boytoys

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Sylph November 18, 2010 at 7:53 pm

I have been studying at uni for the last two years, as a mature age student, and in my first week I was picked up by a guy 16 yrs my junior. And it was, well -meh!
BUT – later in the year I met another 22 y-0 (go on, do the math) and we have become great friends and eventually, lovers. The sex is amazing, the company is relaxed and fun. I spend a bit of time at his place, I get along with all his friends, it’s not a serious relationship, which suits us. However, he insists we keep it secret – he’s terrified of what his friends will think. I told him that was mildly insulting, and that I could probably get most of them into bed if I wanted to, but really I don’t mind, I just like to tease him, keep him on his toes.

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Alina November 27, 2010 at 10:33 am

I have always loved men, sexy men. In highschool, I was the girl who had to have the cutest guy, always the jock, sometimes a stoner bad boy type. As I got older I continued to be attracted to younger men. I find myself now in my mid 40′s having sex with 18 to 35 year old men. I still like the bad boy type, or jocks with sexy good looks. Being a wealthy woman (trust fund baby), I can allow myself to enjoy sex without the need for a husband. I prefer to date middle class “Joes”, I LOVE police officers, firemen and Military men. Needless to say, I am a satisfied 40 smethhing capitalizing on the “Cougar” crazed youth of America. Theres nothing like a glass of fine wine and a sexy young officer, in uniform with his shirt half unbottoned and sitting next to you on the sofa….Ahhh, pure ecstacy…especially when that shirt…and everything else begins to come off his amazingly well toned body.  I must invite officer Jeff over this evening.

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ALEX.T May 26, 2011 at 10:06 am

Me i like women who have experience in love and sex .like Alina she seem to be having a romantic sex. i wish if she could get a young guy like me here and enjoys best love . ya she is bueatful in that.

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kate28 November 30, 2010 at 4:10 pm

Alas I too have joined the proverbial club…I will be 46 in January but I look early 30′s and I have just moved in with my boyfriend who is 29.  Yes awesome sex, just looking at his incredible body gets me loopy…haha…I never dreamed I would be dating someone that much younger…but the beauty is we do not look odd together as I look more his age…I do wish I were younger…sometimes looking it is not enough…

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sweetrod4you February 8, 2011 at 9:54 am

I don’t see anything wrong with a younger man marrying an older woman,it’s just natural and as humans,these things do occur as part of our existence!so i need a mature woman for marriage.but if she wants anything besides that?am all hers.

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samuel February 17, 2011 at 7:22 am

I need a real woman that would be committed to me and i also i would be committed to her,a financially dependent single lady is highly appreciated and i prefer old  ladies because have wasted so much time and energy on young girls without getting to  any one i like  so i dont believe there would be a way out for me with young girls in the nearest future so old single ladies are highly appreciated 30-55 mainly….i have got a big hard dick and am a cute black boy from Nigeria you can add me on facebook my email is sammy4all2010@yahoo.com or add me on yahoo messenger for a lovely chat….xoxoxoxo

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Alice February 18, 2011 at 2:27 am

I love younger men. I have dated only men at least 5 years younger and as much as 10 years younger than me for many years. I love the energy and a nice tight bod. Older men just aren’t the same, different mentality. I seem to have more in common with younger guys. They’re actually more fun and are usually more interested in me. I’m flattered. I think younger men like cougars because they have no agenda, don’t usually want to get married and are usually very independent and don’t need a man to take care of them. I meet younger men on this website: —http://www.cougarconnecting.com——-

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cwa(charouz wid attitude) February 24, 2011 at 7:01 am

i wish i had an older women coz these young kids got nothing but tight pussys.they have no respect and no values.i guess they dont make them like be4.i am 22 years an indian male from durban but living in jozi.i dated them put it that way.the booz,wifeyz etc.so i know more than some guys my age.but i see older women who have it all and do thing with more emphasis than young girls.so i dig that.anyway if there is any sexy older women out there looking for some naughty fun with a young homie…holla back my mail is jeromedesmond.john@righttocare.org<<<<peace…

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I’m a handsome lonely cub from Sunny SO Cal Ventura Newbury Park
I’m looking for still a Cougar or some hot Cougar Mother who’s single or divorced grom Sunny SO CAL , likes  to hookup with a younger man ?
 
I’m allways here at home getting ready to move into another appartent
hopefully soon by June, if Albertsons my dads store doesn’t go on strike.
 
So if your a sexy lonely Cougar from Sunny So Cal
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its been 6 months since i had an affair…so looking for any race……love,,,x0x0x

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moses mwanza May 26, 2011 at 9:59 am

Its really enjoyable to make love to an older woman.am 40yrs ,I like 40-56yr old woman who are sexually starved and need a good job between their legs.Am readily available for you wen you come to Kenya/Uganda or Tanzania
 

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 I love Cougars alot & hooping to hookup with one in the future ?

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jack July 1, 2011 at 8:53 pm

hello my name is Jack an I am a 21 year old black male from sunny southern california (  the city of fontana specifically) and this article describes me perfectly I have been very attracted to women my entire life . at 14 years old i had numerous fantasies about my 38 year old  math teacher I basically prayed she would ask me to ” stay after class” every day of the week . since then that desire to have sex with older women has intensified and the age range of the women has grown substantially….as well as my body and certain body parts…..
 
if any woman between the ages of 30 and 70 in the state of california  would like to have an excited 21 year old meet them for dinner and then hopefully more feel free to send an e-mail to mario_pot@yahoo.com or @ my professional e-mail address  jjennings3@ my.devry.edu ( it takes longer for me to respond to this one ) i hope someone out there contacts me ;-).
 
I don’t care about weight, ethnicity, hair color , or height.  i just would like to enjoy the company of a woman who wants me and is looking for the same thing.
 

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Hello, I am a 38 year-old  male and have recently fallen into a wonderful relationship with older women. I can’t tell you her age it’s no polite but just know it’s more than 10  my senior. She is a very attractive woman with a heart to match, and if you met her. You would know exactly what i am talking about. The reason why we are  compatible is we have so much in common and that’s great but the things that we don’t have in common make this relationship so fun. I love to learn and grow from her, and she likes to learn from me. She is wise and witty, fun and most of all romantic and always puts me first. I would say that i am lucky to have met someone of this caliber. We never talk about the age difference because it’s total irrelevant because we connect on so many levels. The reason why I am writing is that I feel everyone should experience and older women at least once in their life it’s extremely rewarding. 
 

 

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am young and able,looking  forward to meet a cougar 38-49,for maximum satisfaction and show offs,am just 29

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I prefer to meet a Cougar 30-42 years old
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