Is it true — as the guys in this video claim — that all boys fantasize about older women? “As a kid [...] you naturally are attracted to an older female. You wanna bone your teacher. You wanna bone your best friend’s mother. You wanna bone, you know, the woman across the street … you know what I mean … secretly when her husband‘s at work. You kind of have these natural fantasies.”
Heeeeeeere, little cubbies. Wanna come out and play? As many of you know, my “engagement” to Sweet-Faced, Bearded Kid is off. So, here’s what I’ve been thinking. Is it time for this fit 30-something cougar to find a new , spry, 20-something boytoy? Maybe. Maybe not. In any case, I saw the video above over at current.com.
Remember this photo? I created it for a previous post on urban cougars almost a year ago. Lots of interesting feedback and comments on that one. Now that there are a few new folks on the blog, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Are you a cougar or a cub? Do you tend to date older or younger or exactly within your age range? And, why?
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All boys that I knew as I grew up at some point or another wanted to have an older woman. One teacher that I had in school had ALL the boys in awe of her and I am sure she knew it, at least she acted like she realised it. To this day,I dont know of any other woman who I was more turned on by. In my opinion, these boys that have a fling with their teacher are very lucky indeed. To bad they cant keep their mouth shut about it. As far as dating between adults, age should never be a factor. Women are just now beginning to realise that if men can have women half their age ,then whats wrong with women doing the same??????
I had a sex first time when I was 16. My boyfriend was 14. After him, in age of 17-19 I was in love with 2, 3 years younger boys so I have accustomed to younger boyfriends. Now I’m 42 and my current boyfriend is 19. It’s third serious love in my life. First was when I was 30, I was in reliatonship with six years younger guy, it lasted two years. Second serious love was when I was 35, he was twelve years younger, it lasts one and half year. And now, I’m with my boyfriend since August. Ending, I had thirty-eight sex partners with my life and only one of them was older (I was 29, he was 32.) Sorry for my English, but I`m Pole.
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My husband and I, are 17 years apart in age. I’m 50 years old and he’s 33. Adding to that, that I’m a black woman with a daughter in her early 20′s, and that he’s younger, white, and had never had any children, made things even more taboo for both of our families, but we’ve been happily married now, going on 6 years. I had just ended a 9-year relationship, and really wasn’t thinking of another relationship, when I met my husband Josh, while taking a class together at a community college.
At the time, Josh was taking classes at college, to get his P.O.S.T. certification, to become a law enforcement officer, and I had been taking classes to advance my education, and start my own business. The class we met in, was an elective class, Creative Writing 101. It was our teacher, who first paired us together, so we have her to thank.
We started working together as study buddies, then became the best of friends, and well, one thing lead to another, and before long, we were dating and head over heels in love with each other.
We told my family first, but they all seemed to look upon Josh with disdain, if not outright hate. Plus it made some of them nervous, to learn that he was a former Marine and now a cop. His family seemed to be a bit more worried about the age issue, rather than the racial differences, but they have been more supportive.
Our sex life is wonderful, although, truth be told, I was quite nervous when we made love for the first time. I was being self-conscious about my looks, but he was so reassuring, and after awhile, I forgot about all of our differences, and finally allowed myself to feel all the love we had to share.
So I guess what I’m trying to say is, it can happen, and more importantly, it can work. You just have to give yourselves a chance to experience it.
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I am a 37f divorced & single the last 10yrs, my oldest son is 19 & recently his bestfiend hit on me via a txt. The thing is I have know him since he was 13 & he has been a close part of our family life, practically living here. He has no mother and when he was younger jokenly at times called me “mom”. Our relationship is very close, he has always turned to me for help and advice. Over the last 2 yrs I have seen very little of him though until recently.
I had contacted him one evening in search of my son (his girlfriend broke up w/him and I wanted to make sure he was ok), so i called his friend several times and txted him b/c I was at work & could not myself. Well, he found him, but then suddenly i get this txt asking me ” want me to come over and make you feel better” I was astonished by this remark and not sure how to react, returning his message asking if he was drunk, no he wasn’t. Suddennly though I found myself looking at him differently-.
Nothing happened that night, though references were made & him stating the next day via txt “we never did get it on” just recently it happened again & this time our sexting went alot further, him persueing me, so far I have been the voice of reason, not so much b/c of his age but b/c he’s my son’s friend.
now though, I am growing more hungry for him now & do not know what to do??
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I just turned 50 and have been in an exclusive committed relationship with a man 15.5 yrs my junior for 6 years. We met in Capoiera class, and knew each other and had attractions for about a year before we started dating. We were both in great physical shape, and he knew I was older but thought I was 10 yrs younger at that time.
He is NOT the best lover I’ve had (another man his age was–but that was just a fling, a very HOT fling–), but he is intelligent, caring, and emotionally supportive. However, after being with a man this much younger for so long, I am craving the kind of depth that only someone closer to my age and life experience can provide.
My boyfriend and I are trying to find the easiest way to end our relationship (we will be friends) but we love each other a lot and miss each other when not together. Lots of mixed signals and feelings going on. BTW, I’ve never once considered him my boytoy or cabin boy or cub.
Eileen: Don’t go to bed with him because he’s your son’s friend
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I am a 40+ year old woman, who has just recently had a very intense sexual episode with a 20+ year old man. I must admit it, I did it to see what all the fuss is about. This cougar/cub crap on TV magazines etc,. What a joke. Firstly, it’s the young men who are the hunters, they are always hitting on older women, like me. Secondly, I think the olny women that would find young men sooo hot are the unfortunate ones who never got past the missionary position or who’s ex-partners suffered from erectile dysfunction for years. Really!, apart from a tight body and a pretty face, they in my opinion, have not lived long enough to combine the emotional, spiritual aspects of making love. They’re so understandably overtaken by the physicality of it all that it is impossible for young men and women (for that matter) to know how to put it all together. This takes years of practise. Sorry young fellas, I much prefer an older, more experienced man who can pleasure me without having to use an instruction manual.
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Wow this makes for some interesting reading to say the least! First of all; a lot of the ‘age gaps’ mentioned here are nothing, I mean anything between 5 and 10 years doesn’t count. I’m a 24 year old male and have the most intense crush on my boss who’s 60. Yes that’s right 60. She’s the most elegant, sexy, intelligent, sultry women I’ve ever met. Just the way she carries herself is enigmatic. She’s got an incredible figure, a better figure than girls in their 20′s.
Now that’s an age gap!
When I was 16 I was devirginized by a beautiful, hot sexy lady of 62.
So all through history older men have been younger females, some even too young in my opinion…But consenting adults generate so much controversy? Why would it be ok for a 20 year old woman to date a 30 year old man, but reverse it and its a big deal?Also many of the older men that younger women date look older! The older women usually look younger than their age…Whatever the case, what about people who meet, and chemistry happens, no one was “hunting”it was just a romance that happend, then they find out that the woman is “older”than the man??? I’m happily married to my husband who was 19 when I was 34…We met, had plenty in common, werent on “the hunt”, and fell in love! Oh well there is an “age difference”! does that mean a woman should just dump a man because of that, knowing that some men are “older”and actually looking for younger women, not just meeting them and falling in love by chance???It’s the 21st century….Hopefully many “double standards” are knocked down one at a time!
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I’m 25 years old and slightly, no highly confused. For the longest time I just knew I wanted a guy at least a few years older than me, but the more I date those guys, the more I realized how much baggage they have and how disrespectful and unappreciative they could be. Recently, a 17 year old (soon to be 18 in May) started flirting with me, giving me compliments all of the time and being generally sweet, something I fail to see in the majority of guys my age and older. It was just really cute at first; I thought he was a sweet, cute kid and nothing more. But, recently, I’ve noticed that I get those “crush” feelings when he comes aroung; butterflies, nervousness, etc. My first thougt is that this is absolutely gross and crosses way too many lines and not only is this wrong, this is illegal! I’ve talked to only a couple people about it, just being a crush and nothing more, and they’ve both told me that once he’s 18, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it. I’m so confused though because I’m one who tends to stick to society’s stigma’s, stupidly so, like older women generally shouldn’t date younger men, 8 years younger at that. However, I’ve also notived a proliferation, in the media and in everyday society, of older women dating younger, sometimes much younger men. They’ve been dubbed “Cougars”, which is, as far as I’ve experienced, a quite sexy concept. My confusion arises at another point: I’m not sure if I’d be considered something like a “Cougar” or something more like a sick-o. Help!
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I agree with Mark. These relationships are happening a lot more than people realise. i really wish there could be a survey of all young men (kinda like the Kinsey report) to find out just how many had relationships/sex/fantasies about older women – it’s really not that rare! I mean, just look at all the people using age-gap dating sites like http://www.cougared.com. It’s hardly unusual with thousands of people up for it. I’d say good luck to them!
well Im starting a business with a 32yr old and im 49.
we did start off being very attracted to each other
and for awhile we only kissed..now we have moved onto
oral sex. Im so attracted to him, we have fun and laugh
and share many things in common.
We have tried to keep it friends only because we thought
having to work together it would be best. But the attraction
between us seems to be too strong.
So who knows how it going to go.
Yes. Generally I believe the younger men are the hunters.
The cougar analogy is flawed.
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Oh, my. Is a couple of years difference really that important? I find it all depends on the person, age is more of a state of mind. Granted, I’m a 27 year old woman dating a 23 year old guy-and I’m in school, while he’s settled into his career. I’ve dated older too-and the older guy was way, way more immature! This entire “cougar” thing is rather silly, I think.
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