Comments on: Interracial Dating: The Brown Chick Who Sometimes Dates White Dudes

By: Dave

Dave — Sat, 07 May 2011 06:33:21 +0000

Way late to the convo but brown girls rock. Problem is that I stutter and stammer when I meet them so nothing goes too far. Even then, meeting one is really rare up here in Minnesota so I’m double screwed. :-(

By: Sissy Panty Buns

Sissy Panty Buns — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 16:17:23 +0000

I think the phenomenon **LoveEMuffinS referred to occurs with respect to inter-racial dating in more circumstances. While they may themselves be attracted to someone of a different race, many people’s comfort levels aren’t developed enough yet to prevent them from feeling jealous when someone the could imagine dating goes out with someone of a different race. I wept for joy when Barack and Michelle won the election. Being white, I remember the reaction of relief from white men when they found out Barack’s wife, Michelle, was black. It wasn’t that long ago when they called inter-racial dating “sedition” and it was a crime When the boxing champion Jack Johnson dated white women he wound up being banned from boxing in this country. We’ve come a long way, but still have a long way to go. While I have kissed with and been spanked by black women, and the idea of it turns me on, I have never dated a black woman. I’m older now, but I sometimes still wonder what the future holds.

By: **LovEMuffinS

**LovEMuffinS — Wed, 05 Aug 2009 00:42:23 +0000

OH! OH! Another thing… and FUnky bRown I’m really digging your blog, but with all due respect, is it just me, OR do African American women have a problem with the black man dating outside of their race? I’ve been following your blog now and I see you keep it really real so am I going crazy when the times in my past me and the ex-were out and about and black women would throw the darted stares, shrivel their lips like prunes, roll their eyes, and EVEN on some occasions ”accidentally” bump into me? All the listed I could deal with, however, when it became physical and done purposely (come on now! Some of these women couldn’t possibly be bumping me accidentally now could they? AND ONLY WHEN I WAS W/HIM?!) this is when it became a full-fledged problem in our relationship. And there were those black women and men who would also comment on our inter-relationship and commend on us following our hearts (bastard did me wrong anyhow!), but they were far and few in-between that said this to us.

Well we called it a day anyhow after 2.5 yrs., but I still want to know. Is this a real issue for some (not all) black women? Personally, I give 2 shits less if a Mexican man is dating outside of his race and I say more power to the both of them! God speed!

By: **LovEMuffinS

**LovEMuffinS — Wed, 05 Aug 2009 00:33:23 +0000

I’ve only dated Hispanic and Afro-American (GAWWD! I so hate this politcally correct shit) in my life. Why? Because I do believe white men have never found me attractive and to be quite frank there’s only been a handful I can say I found attractive either. I’ve befriended quite a few of them, alas though I’ve never had ANY dates or sexual encounters of a 3rd kind with these white men. However, just a few yrs back while having this conversation with Jake (fine-ass white guy) he leaned over at MOJO’s Lounge and told me it’s because white men were more than likely threatened by me. He went on to tell me I have a very confident demeanor about me and am attractive. He believes this would scare any man off with low self-confidence and espeically his own race of people. I sat there and thought about this for a minute and wonder if this was really the reason, or he was just blowing smoke up my ass. LOL! It sure didn’t keep the other colored fools from stepping to me so why them?

Till this day I don’t know if this may have been the case and now I’ll never know seeing as though I’m engaged to be married *sigh*, but for what it’s worth, I had a ball with all those paisas and bruthas.

By: BlkSmarTee

BlkSmarTee — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 18:20:47 +0000

hmm no offese funky but the whole “i like my milk like i like my men. . .” comment is a big IR turn off. At least to me. if i guy i just meant came at me with a “chocolate” line i’d be like “stfu” …well at least in my head. People like to be appracohed and treated like people, not desserts or beverages. Just flirt with him like he is a guy and drop the white part please!!! lol

By: A.

A. — Sat, 02 May 2009 22:18:21 +0000

Race shouldn’t matter, but I have to say that contrasting skin tones does look nicer in bed when you’re looking down at your legs tangled together.

By: Robert

Robert — Fri, 01 May 2009 19:22:05 +0000

I say to all the beautiful Black Women “try it you may like it.” White guys are sweet, kind and fun. They look good next to your beautiful skin and if you like attention you will get plenty when you eat out in an all or mostly white resturant. I told my brown girlfriend that now that spring was here I could tan-up and look more like her. She said “I love the color of your skin, don’t change a thing.” We look so fine together it people can’t help but watch.
Ms. Brown you need to do a story on why Blackman shoot eye-bullets at me and my beautiful black girlfriend when we are out together. Why is there a double standard…I don’t do this when a white women and a black guy are together.

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By: Hypmommy

Hypmommy — Tue, 17 Feb 2009 04:41:12 +0000

I find men of all sorts attractive. I, too, have dated the United Nations. I look back fondly at all the diversity of my exes because I had such a wide range of experiences with them–different foods, languages, places we would go, etc.

By: Introverted_Skeptic

Introverted_Skeptic — Thu, 29 Jan 2009 20:37:49 +0000

Even though I don’t participate in the dating game, I do find white men (foreign and domestic) to be extremely attractive and I’m a toffee brown female myself. I like a lot of cream in my coffee. LOL. Like they say milk DOES a body good.