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		<title>By: Nicole</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2008/05/01/facebook-relationships-reality-tv/comment-page-1/#comment-42246</link>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2008 12:19:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Grace -- When I graduated, I didn&#039;t have a dime.  All I had was college debt.  I knew that I had to pay my bills while abroad, so I took a job teaching ESL in Japan.  Travel with income.  College debt -- under control.  All traveling around that --- I&#039;m such a backpacker.  Some of my co-workers in Nippon :-p told me about Couch Surfing.  It&#039;s a site that connects backpackers to backpackers.  You can sleep on their couches for free when you roll through town.  Pretty cool.  So you can hit up the grocery store (save on food) stash in the borrowed fridge.  Be polite, clean, and keep the stay to a week or less.  Bam!  You&#039;re a traveler.  Traveling and living abroad isn&#039;t only for the rich and debtless, you know.  Traveling is like dating.  Use your head and trust your instincts and you can go anywhere.  I never give advice, and that certainly looks like advice.  :-p

FBC -- I know about those programs, however, I&#039;d like to work in my soon to be respective field and stay for A LONG TIME.  Like 3 - 5 years.  Maybe never return.  My options are looking like corporate sponsorship or marriage.  I&#039;ll worry over it again when I&#039;m out of school again.  I don&#039;t really want to wait tables in London or anything when I could be designing in Milan.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Grace &#8212; When I graduated, I didn&#8217;t have a dime.  All I had was college debt.  I knew that I had to pay my bills while abroad, so I took a job teaching ESL in Japan.  Travel with income.  College debt &#8212; under control.  All traveling around that &#8212; I&#8217;m such a backpacker.  Some of my co-workers in Nippon :-p told me about Couch Surfing.  It&#8217;s a site that connects backpackers to backpackers.  You can sleep on their couches for free when you roll through town.  Pretty cool.  So you can hit up the grocery store (save on food) stash in the borrowed fridge.  Be polite, clean, and keep the stay to a week or less.  Bam!  You&#8217;re a traveler.  Traveling and living abroad isn&#8217;t only for the rich and debtless, you know.  Traveling is like dating.  Use your head and trust your instincts and you can go anywhere.  I never give advice, and that certainly looks like advice.  :-p</p>
<p>FBC &#8212; I know about those programs, however, I&#8217;d like to work in my soon to be respective field and stay for A LONG TIME.  Like 3 &#8211; 5 years.  Maybe never return.  My options are looking like corporate sponsorship or marriage.  I&#8217;ll worry over it again when I&#8217;m out of school again.  I don&#8217;t really want to wait tables in London or anything when I could be designing in Milan.</p>
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		<title>By: funkybrownchick</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2008/05/01/facebook-relationships-reality-tv/comment-page-1/#comment-42177</link>
		<dc:creator>funkybrownchick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2008 02:26:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Nicole: As long as you&#039;re under 35, there are a bunch of &quot;work abroad&quot; and &quot;volunteer abroad&quot; programs and stuff. Check &#039;em out.

@ Grace: I&#039;ve lost sooo many comments (and blog posts!). Now, I copy everything before hitting &quot;submit.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Nicole: As long as you&#8217;re under 35, there are a bunch of &#8220;work abroad&#8221; and &#8220;volunteer abroad&#8221; programs and stuff. Check &#8216;em out.</p>
<p>@ Grace: I&#8217;ve lost sooo many comments (and blog posts!). Now, I copy everything before hitting &#8220;submit.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Grace</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2008/05/01/facebook-relationships-reality-tv/comment-page-1/#comment-42087</link>
		<dc:creator>Grace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 15:30:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Nicole: Going somewhere requires dollars. Which back when I came home from university 4 years ago I didn&#039;t have. I actually had the opposite a huge debt and a non marketable degree (BA Psych! Woohoo!) Now that have some money I probably could go gallivanting around the world. But of course now I&#039;m all rooted here what with work and school (Chef school this time - much more useful). I think I may have missed my window to be a carefree globetrotter. Which is ok. I&#039;ll just try to take lots of exotic vacations to make up for it. 

Or maybe when I finally have enough money I&#039;ll just buy a house in another city, and move far away from Toronto.....just because I can.

@ Funky Brown: You should have seen my comment it was all witty with a &#039;milk in my coffee&#039; allusion and stuff. But after the blog ate it I was like &#039;MAN! I don&#039;t want to type that all again. But it was really good.....Oh foo!&#039; Going forward I&#039;m going to be all paranoid and copy my comments before I press submit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Nicole: Going somewhere requires dollars. Which back when I came home from university 4 years ago I didn&#8217;t have. I actually had the opposite a huge debt and a non marketable degree (BA Psych! Woohoo!) Now that have some money I probably could go gallivanting around the world. But of course now I&#8217;m all rooted here what with work and school (Chef school this time &#8211; much more useful). I think I may have missed my window to be a carefree globetrotter. Which is ok. I&#8217;ll just try to take lots of exotic vacations to make up for it. </p>
<p>Or maybe when I finally have enough money I&#8217;ll just buy a house in another city, and move far away from Toronto&#8230;..just because I can.</p>
<p>@ Funky Brown: You should have seen my comment it was all witty with a &#8216;milk in my coffee&#8217; allusion and stuff. But after the blog ate it I was like &#8216;MAN! I don&#8217;t want to type that all again. But it was really good&#8230;..Oh foo!&#8217; Going forward I&#8217;m going to be all paranoid and copy my comments before I press submit.</p>
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		<title>By: Nicole</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2008/05/01/facebook-relationships-reality-tv/comment-page-1/#comment-42063</link>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 12:15:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, I forgot.

TO GRACE**

I&#039;m 25, too.  There&#039;s no reason not to go anywhere.  Be like Nike, and JUST DO IT, DOLL!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, I forgot.</p>
<p>TO GRACE**</p>
<p>I&#8217;m 25, too.  There&#8217;s no reason not to go anywhere.  Be like Nike, and JUST DO IT, DOLL!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Nicole</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 12:14:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yep.  Japan.  I spent 15 months there after I finished uni.  Facebook has made me a little lazy, though... I&#039;ve been slacking on sending out my quarterly mass email.  I figure, eh, I can see everyone I knew on Facebook so why bother writing a long email.

Anyway, I totally hated living there for reasons that are beyond difficult to describe.  Reading Natsuo Kirino&#039;s Grotesque could shine a little light on it.  I want to move to Europe, but I&#039;m still trying to work out the how-in-sam-hill-am-I-gonna-get-a-visa thing.  In the meantime, I&#039;m cooling my heels in New York and waiting on school to start up again.  Harder than it may appear.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yep.  Japan.  I spent 15 months there after I finished uni.  Facebook has made me a little lazy, though&#8230; I&#8217;ve been slacking on sending out my quarterly mass email.  I figure, eh, I can see everyone I knew on Facebook so why bother writing a long email.</p>
<p>Anyway, I totally hated living there for reasons that are beyond difficult to describe.  Reading Natsuo Kirino&#8217;s Grotesque could shine a little light on it.  I want to move to Europe, but I&#8217;m still trying to work out the how-in-sam-hill-am-I-gonna-get-a-visa thing.  In the meantime, I&#8217;m cooling my heels in New York and waiting on school to start up again.  Harder than it may appear.</p>
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		<title>By: funkybrownchick</title>
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		<dc:creator>funkybrownchick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 11:06:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Desiree: Yeah, I&#039;m waaay more likely to answer e-contact than phones.

@ Pegs: Okay, I soooooo made that mistake, too!!!! :) I was like, &quot;Awwwww, baby, you love the FB? THANKS!&quot; Then I kept reading and I was like, &quot;Oh, yeah, right, FACEBOOK. Yeah, um, I knew that. Oops!&quot;

@ boredreader: You seem tired. Get some sleep, babes! ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Desiree: Yeah, I&#8217;m waaay more likely to answer e-contact than phones.</p>
<p>@ Pegs: Okay, I soooooo made that mistake, too!!!! :) I was like, &#8220;Awwwww, baby, you love the FB? THANKS!&#8221; Then I kept reading and I was like, &#8220;Oh, yeah, right, FACEBOOK. Yeah, um, I knew that. Oops!&#8221;</p>
<p>@ boredreader: You seem tired. Get some sleep, babes! ;)</p>
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		<title>By: boredreader</title>
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		<dc:creator>boredreader</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 09:59:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>YAWN.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>YAWN.</p>
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		<title>By: Pegs</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2008/05/01/facebook-relationships-reality-tv/comment-page-1/#comment-42017</link>
		<dc:creator>Pegs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 07:32:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Haute in LA: I thought FB was Funky Brown until I read further into your comment! Silly me. Guess you can tell I&#039;m NOT on Facebook.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haute in LA: I thought FB was Funky Brown until I read further into your comment! Silly me. Guess you can tell I&#8217;m NOT on Facebook.</p>
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		<title>By: Desiree</title>
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		<dc:creator>Desiree</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 05:11:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That video was hilarious. 

I&#039;d railed against Facebook and other social sites for the longest time, refusing to join. I just wasn&#039;t comfortable with people having that kind of round-the-clock access to me.

But I caved in and I&#039;m glad.

For one thing, I found so many of my high school friends, some of my favorite people in the whole world.

Secondly, I&#039;m horrible when it comes to the phone. I hardly answer my phone, don&#039;t check my messages, don&#039;t return phone calls. But when someone hits me up electronically, I respond to that. I suppose I just find it easier. And so in that respect, not only have I reconnected with old friends, I feel better equipped to hold on to my current ones.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That video was hilarious. </p>
<p>I&#8217;d railed against Facebook and other social sites for the longest time, refusing to join. I just wasn&#8217;t comfortable with people having that kind of round-the-clock access to me.</p>
<p>But I caved in and I&#8217;m glad.</p>
<p>For one thing, I found so many of my high school friends, some of my favorite people in the whole world.</p>
<p>Secondly, I&#8217;m horrible when it comes to the phone. I hardly answer my phone, don&#8217;t check my messages, don&#8217;t return phone calls. But when someone hits me up electronically, I respond to that. I suppose I just find it easier. And so in that respect, not only have I reconnected with old friends, I feel better equipped to hold on to my current ones.</p>
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		<title>By: funkybrownchick</title>
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		<dc:creator>funkybrownchick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 02:21:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Nicole: Oooh, Japan??? Do tell!

@ Grace: Sorry my blog ate your comment. :( And, yeah, I soooo know what you mean about creeping people&#039;s FB pages. :) I&#039;m quite a snoop. :)

@ Baba Doodlius: I went to my high school reunion a short while back, and I was surprised how many people I remembered and how many people remembered me. It was like I felt sucked back into the time warp. It was pretty cool, but I only stayed a hour or so and then I left.

@ Haute in LA: That is sooooo not weak. I would&#039;ve done the same thing! :) Viennese cutie? Sounds like fun. I&#039;ve never done the &quot;spark&quot; stuff. I&#039;m kind of ODed on applications.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Nicole: Oooh, Japan??? Do tell!</p>
<p>@ Grace: Sorry my blog ate your comment. :( And, yeah, I soooo know what you mean about creeping people&#8217;s FB pages. :) I&#8217;m quite a snoop. :)</p>
<p>@ Baba Doodlius: I went to my high school reunion a short while back, and I was surprised how many people I remembered and how many people remembered me. It was like I felt sucked back into the time warp. It was pretty cool, but I only stayed a hour or so and then I left.</p>
<p>@ Haute in LA: That is sooooo not weak. I would&#8217;ve done the same thing! :) Viennese cutie? Sounds like fun. I&#8217;ve never done the &#8220;spark&#8221; stuff. I&#8217;m kind of ODed on applications.</p>
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