Comments on: Do I Scare the Hell Out of Men? http://funkybrownchick.com/2008/05/26/do-i-scare-the-hell-out-of-men/ Twanna is a sex, dating and relationships writer in New York City. She's funky. She has brown skin. And, she's a chick. FUNKYBROWNCHICK® chronicles her life. Sun, 12 Feb 2012 22:56:26 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: funkybrownchick http://funkybrownchick.com/2008/05/26/do-i-scare-the-hell-out-of-men/comment-page-1/#comment-46643 funkybrownchick Sun, 08 Jun 2008 15:18:15 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1271#comment-46643 Thanks for the kind and inspiring words. :) Thanks for the kind and inspiring words. :)

]]> By: Carl Peter Klapper http://funkybrownchick.com/2008/05/26/do-i-scare-the-hell-out-of-men/comment-page-1/#comment-46536 Carl Peter Klapper Sat, 07 Jun 2008 00:22:10 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1271#comment-46536 Hi Twanna, Thought I would read the blog that inspired the blog I left my first comment to you on. The answer is yes, there are some. People are people and they're not all the same. As for those who are intimidated, I can't help but think they are bullies, afraid and desperate for control. But do not assume that every guy who leaves the scene is intimidated. We all have our issues, our "yikes! she's just like the ex" moments, our feelings that the chemistry and the destiny is missing, our old flames we are holding that seem to flare when we might get serious with someone else and, of course, our new flirtations. If it is any consolation, TLOML is not someone I could control even if I wanted to. I find her absolutely fascinating and, though she exudes sexiness and is a drop dead gorgeous, deliciously mixed lady that all the guys salivate over, she doesn't control me either, nor does she want to, either. Whenever I, in my anticipation or appreciation, say or do something that might suggest that I am obsessed or "crazy" in that way, she points it out, says she feels "uncomfortable". It is a long dance, but I have my own reasons for accepting that, for waiting until I have reached certain goals before we are together. Also, I met her without looking for her, our paths crossed along life's pathways. Perhaps it will be the same for you. My advice to you is to stop looking and start listening, stop trying to find a guy and instead hear the "still small voice" of what you should do with your life. In other words, keep on working and you will meet that special someone in due course. Take care, Carl Peter Hi Twanna,

Thought I would read the blog that inspired the blog I left my first comment to you on.

The answer is yes, there are some. People are people and they’re not all the same.

As for those who are intimidated, I can’t help but think they are bullies, afraid and desperate for control. But do not assume that every guy who leaves the scene is intimidated. We all have our issues, our “yikes! she’s just like the ex” moments, our feelings that the chemistry and the destiny is missing, our old flames we are holding that seem to flare when we might get serious with someone else and, of course, our new flirtations.

If it is any consolation, TLOML is not someone I could control even if I wanted to. I find her absolutely fascinating and, though she exudes sexiness and is a drop dead gorgeous, deliciously mixed lady that all the guys salivate over, she doesn’t control me either, nor does she want to, either. Whenever I, in my anticipation or appreciation, say or do something that might suggest that I am obsessed or “crazy” in that way, she points it out, says she feels “uncomfortable”. It is a long dance, but I have my own reasons for accepting that, for waiting until I have reached certain goals before we are together.

Also, I met her without looking for her, our paths crossed along life’s pathways. Perhaps it will be the same for you. My advice to you is to stop looking and start listening, stop trying to find a guy and instead hear the “still small voice” of what you should do with your life. In other words, keep on working and you will meet that special someone in due course.

Take care,
Carl Peter

]]> By: funkybrownchick http://funkybrownchick.com/2008/05/26/do-i-scare-the-hell-out-of-men/comment-page-1/#comment-46361 funkybrownchick Thu, 05 Jun 2008 10:08:45 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1271#comment-46361 Dirty little mind, huh? :) And, yeah, I need to find a strong man. I've asked Sexy Schultzy to hook me up with one of his friends. If anything comes of that, I'll let y'all know. ;) Dirty little mind, huh? :)

And, yeah, I need to find a strong man. I’ve asked Sexy Schultzy to hook me up with one of his friends. If anything comes of that, I’ll let y’all know. ;)

]]> By: Brenz http://funkybrownchick.com/2008/05/26/do-i-scare-the-hell-out-of-men/comment-page-1/#comment-46348 Brenz Thu, 05 Jun 2008 02:24:23 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1271#comment-46348 Er...figuratively speaking of course. Nothing wrong with the literal interpretation of that. Or the reverse. But I'd better stop leading my own thoughts astray. Er…figuratively speaking of course. Nothing wrong with the literal interpretation of that. Or the reverse. But I’d better stop leading my own thoughts astray.

]]> By: Brenz http://funkybrownchick.com/2008/05/26/do-i-scare-the-hell-out-of-men/comment-page-1/#comment-46347 Brenz Thu, 05 Jun 2008 02:22:18 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1271#comment-46347 Strong men like strong women. It's ones with issues that need to be on top, for fear of vulnerability. Strong men like strong women. It’s ones with issues that need to be on top, for fear of vulnerability.

]]> By: funkybrownchick http://funkybrownchick.com/2008/05/26/do-i-scare-the-hell-out-of-men/comment-page-1/#comment-46231 funkybrownchick Tue, 03 Jun 2008 17:50:42 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1271#comment-46231 @ Kali: Interesting, indeed. @ lamesabassman: :) @ sid: YES!!! To the imported and the oppressed!!!! :) And, yeah, stay away from domestic ... it's just not the same. @ Kali: Interesting, indeed.

@ lamesabassman: :)

@ sid: YES!!! To the imported and the oppressed!!!! :) And, yeah, stay away from domestic … it’s just not the same.

]]> By: sid http://funkybrownchick.com/2008/05/26/do-i-scare-the-hell-out-of-men/comment-page-1/#comment-46184 sid Mon, 02 Jun 2008 19:35:53 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1271#comment-46184 Chicago is treating me well. It's like an extended vacation in some ways. As for your continued predilection, I'm glad nothing's changed! Here's to the imported and the oppressed! (I recently tried domestic for the first time in ages. Blech.) ;-P Chicago is treating me well. It’s like an extended vacation in some ways.

As for your continued predilection, I’m glad nothing’s changed!

Here’s to the imported and the oppressed! (I recently tried domestic for the first time in ages. Blech.)

;-P

]]> By: lamesabassman...... http://funkybrownchick.com/2008/05/26/do-i-scare-the-hell-out-of-men/comment-page-1/#comment-45904 lamesabassman...... Thu, 29 May 2008 21:43:43 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1271#comment-45904 at times..... it's kinda a vibe,rather than status..... for the world is based upon smoke and mirrors..... and you would be so pushed to have to interface the few that pass themselves off as an item.. so... your best defense is to be upfront.... and if they can't hang..... to the left,to the left.. but ... ya gotta ask yourself just one question.... " Which of the two will later hurt you more......not knowing where you're going,or knowing that you have been here.... before... ; which of the two will later hurt you more...." lamesabassman......." do ya feel ... lucky .... well, do ya......." at times….. it’s kinda a vibe,rather than status….. for the world is based upon
smoke and mirrors….. and you would be so pushed to have to interface the few
that pass themselves off as an item.. so… your best defense is to be upfront….
and if they can’t hang….. to the left,to the left.. but … ya gotta ask yourself just one question…. ” Which of the two will later hurt you more……not knowing where
you’re going,or knowing that you have been here…. before… ; which of the two
will later hurt you more….”

lamesabassman…….” do ya feel … lucky …. well, do ya…….”

]]> By: Kali http://funkybrownchick.com/2008/05/26/do-i-scare-the-hell-out-of-men/comment-page-1/#comment-45885 Kali Thu, 29 May 2008 17:16:49 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1271#comment-45885 Hmmmm, well I suppose if one's status must be taken into consideration before you associate with them those questions are necessary. Will post about this. Interesting Hmmmm, well I suppose if one’s status must be taken into consideration before you associate with them those questions are necessary. Will post about this. Interesting

]]> By: lamesabassman...... http://funkybrownchick.com/2008/05/26/do-i-scare-the-hell-out-of-men/comment-page-1/#comment-45883 lamesabassman...... Thu, 29 May 2008 16:50:51 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1271#comment-45883 name it .... and claim it..... am as close as your mindline..... and am river deep.... lamesabassman....... keep your eyes .... on the prize..... name it …. and claim it….. am as close as your mindline….. and am river deep….

lamesabassman……. keep your eyes …. on the prize…..

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