I actually married my sexually extroverted friend.

I liken peoples reaction to this….. Some people will see a brown dress and think it looks like shit….others will see a wonderful chocolate mousse.

People will see what they want to see ( usually something that co-signs their agenda and makes them feel better about themselves at your expense)

Take care, and keep your head up….

PS threesomes aren’t really freaky…..unless farm animals are included =P

@ NML: You rock!!!

@ lamesabassman: True. Can’t please everyone.

@ Manuel: You said, “Love yourself first and foremost.” That’s like the Golden Rule of all interpersonal relationships.

@ Anjuan: Thanks for sharing your opinions, and thanks for the support! :)

@ Rochelle: Yes, yes. R. Kelley should DEFINITELY take note.

@Rachel Kramer Bussel, @Lee Coles: I said in my post that these are not necessarily my views. My point was to describe (right or wrong) what a lot of American men think about women who engage in certain behavior. I agree that this type of thinking can be damaging (and even dangerous). However, a woman’s behavior does affect how men respond to her. If you disagree, try this experiment. Have a woman try six months of wearing revealing clothing and having sex with every guy she dates. Then have her try six months of dressing modestly and staying celibate. I guarantee that you will see a difference in the kind of men who are drawn to her as well as how her relationships work out.

@Twanna I want to emphasize that I think you are a nice person, and I wish the best for you. It takes courage to put yourself out there, and I applaud you for it. Also, yes, it’s possible for a person to get an STI from one sexual experience. However, statistically speaking, you are more likely to contract an STI by having sex with multiple partners than if you are monogamous (of course, with an equally monogamous partner). Just like you are more likely to get blown up if you run through a mine field with one hundred mines than if you ran through one with two or three. By the way, I am glad that you have be able to remain disease free. That’s is a testimony, I’m sure, to the effectiveness of using condoms.

Continue being the lovable Funky Brown!

Thats my usual filter on how I view others in life. Wish I could apply that to myself but I digress. You are correct that everyone was adults and willing participants. So be comfortable, whether you choose to play or no longer have such encounters it is up to you.

Love yourself first and foremost…

’cause one person’s ceiling is another’s floor they should’nt hate you
’cause they aint you when you are blessed with more….

lamesabassman….. you cant please everyone.. so it’s best to please yourself….