Total randomness, I know, but, I just stumbled across Maxim magazine’s list of the 25 greatest short dudes of all time in an article cleverly titled “Living Large.” I’ve dated black men, white dudes, Latinos, guys from Europe, etc. etc. But, I’ve never dated anyone shorter than I am. Ever. Don’t get me wrong. I’m not a short people hater. It’s just — all things being equal — I prefer taller men because I’m not very big. Long, strong arms to hug me & skyscraper legs that wrap around my body in bed? Yes, give me more. The closer to 6′ or higher, the better. I guess I’m a single little brown chick looking for a progressive, childfree, single, multi-lingual, attractive, muscular, wickedly smart, foreign dude … who’s also nearly 6′ tall or higher. And, he can’t be an atheist. [Funky Brown Chick laces her fingers together, cracks her knuckles and backs away from her laptop while whistling & mumbling, "No wonder I'm single."] Carry on.
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Yes of course. Anybody can have a short friend. I have lots of friends that are girls and they all like me. But they like me as a friend. When it comes to relationships, short people will be one of the last to chose from. That is why i don’t even bother trying to ask them for a date. Never did, never will.
@ ABX.. hehe I feel your pain. I’m only 5’5 Filipino, 20 years old and I live in here Canada. There are times that my mom’s friend mentioned that I looked 15 years old. lol. but it didn’t let me down. Just build self-confidence and everything will be fine. If you’re looking for a girl to date for then pick Filipina(feminine for Filipino female), most of them are not into height, they’re into good loving attitude V.^^.V Not to mention their pretty short too. :P
P.S. The average height for Filipino man is 5’4. So I’m above average back home, but now here in Canada I’m one of the smallest.lol. But I saw some American guy who’s the same boat as me, and that thing makes me happy.lol. Just be optimistic.
I’m 5’6′ and almost a doctor. I have found that there are misconceptions that are initially set with Women’s desires. Recall that the need for such a “protective agent”, i.e. tall men, is purely biological and is not valid in today’s world. There are so many “threats” that exist today than in our time … tall men can’t just bank on their “verticalness” to protect them. For short men out there, recall that some of these women who play the “survival” card may potentially have a deep embedding of insecurities. Life is a great equalizer and initially if you are having trouble dating or getting women’s attention because they are susceptible to initial perception … then learn the “game” and create opportunities to make yourself more noticable … Talent is the greatest correlation to survivability … not height! … The assumptions of height were disembodied from the survivalist scheme once projectile weapons were created. Find the relation and take advantage of it!!! .. My best!
I commented a couple weeks ago and during that time, I totally switched my game up and have actually had TOO MUCH success with women. I’ve pulled at least 3 numbers every night I’ve gone out, most of them taller by a couple of inches, and have been actually having scheduling problems now that they all want to hang out with me. What’s my secret, fellas?
Confidence. Plain and simple.
I have been going out there and just being happy being me. Giving off the vibe that you could care less about meeting someone will make women WANT to meet you. Going out to clubs and just dancing and inviting women to dance “near” or “by” you but allowing them enough space to feel comfortable is one of my techniques. It shows that I can be fun with strangers without putting any pressure on them. They don’t even feel like I’m trying to pick them up, they end up trying to pick ME up.
Don’t worry short guys! There’s hope for us. Just stay away from online dating altogether because that is a dead end for us. Do it live, and do it fun!
Trivia.
Did you know that tom cruise is only 5’7 :P. be happy guys! :P
Well, even though fat women are able to get thinner but short men CAN NOT get taller, i think there is only one way to get girls is to make a name for yourself. Become successful. Be a celebrity. Be a well recognized man that everybody respects and look up to. Then women will look at that short guy like any tall handsome man. Am i right here? Isn’t that what girl wants?
But unfortualty, it is very hard to achieve that and only very few men are able to be celebrities. If you can’t be that successful, then you have to find a girl who is not as shallow and superficial and those are usually the BEST type of girls. Why would you want to be with a girl who judge you by your appearance in the first place? Remember, not all girls are the same.
@ ABX. just be true to yourself. You don’t need to be something to get their attention.
@ Arvyn
Thanks a lot for the reply. But how is being successful or making a name for yourself make somebody NOT true? It is not that they are trying to be somebody else. It just means that they are working very hard to be very successful.
What is it that a women looks in a man? Especially when he’s short?
I’ve noticed in some of the posts by short men that when they start describing their “good” qualities, superficial things like “good dresser” and income come up. If men, regardless of height, think that their best assets are superficialities like earning 775K per year or being an “good dresser,” then maybe this is where the problem is.
I couldn’t care less how much a man earns, unless he’s a lazy bum who refuses to get a job. But 775K to me is as good as 75K or 17K. If a man tried to impress me with money, he just blew it. And “good dresser” ? Who gives a sh—? As long as the clothes are CLEAN, and don’t look outlandish. I’m fine with plaid shirts, t shirts and jeans.
I’m more interested in the physique beneath the clothes. Clothes don’t make the body. And yes, I’m one of those women who seeks only tall men. But not because of the “survival card” or to feel protected. Why, I’ll kick any man’s a– who tries to assault me. I’m 5-8 and seem not just a 6-2 man, but one with broad shoulders and wonderfully strong, muscular (but not bulked up) arms.
I’ve been blown off by plenty of men because of my personality. I can’t change my personality any more than a short guy can grow taller.
Oh, one more thing. To the short men here who can’t get dates: Are you seeking ONLY younger women? If so, what’s up with that ? You limit yourselves. And if a woman MUST be younger, you’re just as guilty as women wanting only taller men. In fact, someone here said when women want only taller men, they play the “survival game” and must be insecure.
WHen men want only younger women, they play the “protector game!” and they, too, must be insecure!
@Jillita
No. Short men and even tall men don’t care about age. They prefer to date a women who is as old or younger but it is not a necessity.
I don’t understand why you even mentioned ‘age’ in the first place.
Old people date old people. Young people date young people. But does that mean that short men should date short women? Technically yes, but unlike the ‘age’ problem, short women usually DON’T want to date short guys. So ‘age’ is a totally different case and shouldn’t be brought here. Old women don’t have problems dating old men and old men don’t have problems dating old women.
@ABX Watch this. lol.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HEV9q9CHAKw
HAHA!
Thanks a lot Arvyn.
That asian guy had some really good points.
I really hope that most people can actually think the same way he did.
@ ABX. hehe. would you mind if add you on myspace? since we’re both small dude.. lol
Sure buddy. I certainly don’t mind. I always like to make new friends. But too bad i don’t have myspace. I use facebook. If you use facebook, just send me a message through devil_dexter@hotmail.com And that is not my actual e-mail. I am giving out my acutual one on this site to avoid spam if you know what i mean.
hey ABX I already added/message you! :D (Out of topic) – LOL
Wow… I cant believe i spent my time reading most of these posts… but i did… Peoples minds really do get the best of them…
I’m a short man… 5’4… however, to dwell on this matter will only get the better of me, as well as everyone else… the opinions of those who say they want a taller man can certainly be changed… there are a few people who have commented, that have come to this conclusion, but there are those who are just stuck in a narrow way of thinking…
Women want what they like… but you all know the saying “you cant always get what you want”… you can like what you want… so influence them to like you… have something else that women want… its not hard… let the best of you shine through when engaging with a woman… personality is the prize… confidence is the key… and a woman will without a doubt overlook ones appearance if they learn to love something else about you… trust me… im living proof…
i make ok money… im cute (as most short men will hear throughout their life, over and over)… my body is built in the summer and heavy in the winter… regardless… i win women over with my wit… my charm… my persuasion for them to overlook my exterior… every girl (ive lost count) that ive been with has been taller than me… ranging from 5’5 to 6’0… and when they comment on how short i am… i make light of the situation… i tell them i should be hitting a growth spurt anytime now… im 30… but it gets a laugh almost everytime… then change the subject… women in general, well men too, wont be attracted to someone who doesnt like something about themselves, and then dwell on it… so start liking your short stature and start lovin your other attributes…
You can’t categorize the whole world into one pile either… there are so many different types of people in the world… and ultimately, we all want the same things… happiness and love in our life… Your not gonna be friends with everyone you meet… same goes for dating… some people just arent right for eachother… but there are plenty of people in the world that ARE right for eachother… that goes for everybody… if some girl doesnt like you… move on… there is without a doubt, someone out there who will… they may not be posting a comment on this page, but thats only like 50 opinions… out of how many people in the world…
We may not be able to grow anymore… but we can absolutely grow on people…
Now im gonna go kick myself in the head for spending my time on this topic…
good luck shorty’s
nuff said. thanks TC! :D
As a guy whose 5’7 and 20 years old I can agree with the sentiment that the vast majority of women would rather date the very tall serial killer richard ramirez over a thoughtful, handsome, nobel prize winning guy the same height as them or shorter. Not to brag, but I’ve been told once in a while that i am not bad looking (some would even say handsome), I’ve been blessed with nice hair, I work out and have a very toned and strong body, take my masculinity very seriously, am very well-read and can have an indepth conversation about virtually anything, I’m very bold and definately never shy down from standing up for my beliefs, can make a girl laugh (in fact women love to be around me because of this),
and yet… despite all this, no even remotely cute girl can overlook my height: 5’7 which isn’t even THAT short (2 inches below AVERAGE). IT’s almost like I have some kind of horrible disfigurement or deformity, that is how women treat you. I’d like to also point out that these women are all between 4’11 and 5’6. “Youre not my type”, “if you were a little taller i’d totally date you” (a real bummer), ETC. If girls at 4’11 and 5’2 will reject me because of my height, who can I date?
In the end, I’ve given up on any romance atleast until I can make decent money (i work retail right now to pay for school) and get my wife from a foreign country. I also now hang out solely with my male friends which is more fulfilling and fun actually, as my former female friends treated me like one of the gals which is infuriating to me (btw i never put myself in the beta male position but women assume that not being so tall makes you a beta male by default).
About short man’s syndrome, collective experiences with women are what creates this. Maybe if women stopped treating short guys like theyre freaks, handicapped, effeminate, or something to be pitied, we wouldn’t despise you as much. Any guy who has any slightest defect that women generally reject him for will be bitter and hateful to women, not just guys under 5’10.
F.U.!
My two cents again: The guy above is wondering who he can date if short girls won't even date him. How about a very tall woman? Think about this: A very tall woman may not want to date a tall man, because if they get married and have kids, the kids will likely be super super tall, and she may not want this. So to even out the height genes and lessen the odds of having a 6'7″ daughter, she may only be interested in short men.
I am a tall male that prefers very slim women. I've been criticise by women for being so picky about a lady's weight. But after reading this women seem to have more issues about a guy's height, then guys have issues about a woman's weight. Females are such hypocrits and those guys under 6 foot have not control over their height. I'm seeing insults and negative stereo types against short males. If something like that was said about women that were over weight, minority group, any racial group you same women would be saying the person is shalow or even racist. Now if you have your preference for tall guys that's fine but dissing guys under 6ft for something they ABSOLUTELY no control over, isn't fair. Atleast the fat female can loose the weight, all she has to do is get off her lazy fat ass and hit the treadmill. I read one were a female admitted she was only 5ft 2in and wont date anybody unless their atleast 5ft 9in. So being 6 inches taller than the woman isn't good enough. That's the way alot of short women are, no matter how short they are, the dude has to be real tall.
Jilllita Your two cents is not worth anything. What you wrote is rediculous. Most tall women prefer a tall man especially the decent looking tall ladies.. That's the problem I'm seeing for short guys. The short ladies, will not date them and the tall ones wont either, so who are they to date. They can't make themselves taller no matter how much they hit the gym. So is that fair???
5ft 7in is not a midget but the way these ladies talk you would think the person was.
AL made an excellent point about over weight women, and most of them will complain about men not being fair. Women are more unfair toward guys when it comes to height. I can understand if you want somebody taller, but requiring every guy to be atleast 7 inches taller, is a bit stupid.
I would have to agree……..plan and simple….Jillita……possible one day in your life you will find out what your missing, but if not who cares your just lower your chances that you find someone who you can have a lasting relationship with. Your responses are completely one sided, irrational, and irrelevant in this discussion. Most men when it comes to long term relationships aren't really picky at all……we can't afford to be!! We may talk hard but when it comes down to it we just want a good women who is willing to think beyond herself. On the other side of this…..most (not all) women are indeed very picky…..and they don't even have a problem admitting. Sure it's not fair……but honestly it's not going to change. I've found my best luck with only dating educated women whom have achieved professional success in there career. My current gf is 27 and a RN. Granted she is 4 years older than me but I could careless. The only thing that she requires of me is that I love her unconditionally and that we're honest with each other. Also, I should mention that I'm 5'4″ which is 6 inches shorter than her.
Guys the best advice I can give you is take a look at yourself first. Get your life together and explorer your potential. This is key to finding a good, smart, and caring women that you seek. Don't think that your going to find love in a bar or at club.
If your relationship doesn't make both of you better people than it's probably not going to work.
Sorry to open the topic to a broader subject but I think height just like anything else is really only as significant as you make it.
Good luck guys with finding a good women it can be really tough……I know.
Colton wrote, ” like to also point out that these women are all between 4'11 and 5'6. “Youre not my type”, “if you were a little taller i'd totally date you” (a real bummer), ETC. If girls at 4'11 and 5'2 will reject me because of my height, who can I date?”
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Now if you look at it this way, if a woman is only 4' 11″ inches but has a problem with a guy being only 5' 7″ This would be like a woman 5' 7″ having a problem with a guy being 6' 3″
This is the weird shit short guys have to put up with a guy 6' 3″ would never have to put up with.
Wow. What a sad world. Has anybody ever thought about getting to know somebody else as a person?
I must admit. I feel insulted by some of the comments made here. I am a woman, and I am 4′ 10″. When women insult men due to their height, they are also insulting short women. Especially the woman who joked that men who are under 5′ 2″ have a disability. If men under 5′ 2″ are disabled due to their height then so are women under 5′ 2″. Would it still be funny if someone 6′ 2″ made the same joke about people under 5′ 3″?
By the way. I prefer short men. Tall me just make me feel shorter. However, I have dated taller men, and if I met a tall man who I felt a connection with, I would not turn him down because of his height.
@ Shanna
Unfortunately, girls like you who don’t judge guys about the way they look are very few. And of course, height shouldn’t be considered as a disability. People should be judged by the content of their character, not by physical appearance.
And when i think deeply about it, so what if short means handicapped? Does that mean that they don’t deserve the love of anybody cus they are handicapped? Does that mean that blind, deaf, wheelchair people don’t deserve any love cus they are different?
Shanna, I’m so glad you made that point. If short women are dissing short men then they should say the same thing about themselves. What I don’t like by some of the post is they look at just being short in itself as ugly but only if it’s a guy that’s short. Well if you going to feel a certain way atleast be consistent and not be a hypocrit. When I was a teenager I was a lot more confident around short ladys because I ASSUMED that my height would not be an issue. As long as I was taller than the female I was in good shape. To my shock I found out short women as a whole had an even bigger problem with my height. I thought I was just running into bad luck but realize it was the norm. I read on this other web page this lady who’s just 5 ft even said should would NEVER date a guy under 5ft 10in. So being 9 inches taller is not good enough for her.
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts7767741.aspx
The association of “short” with “weak” is unfounded. I am 5ft 6inches, weigh 200lbs, and can bench press about 250lbs. Granted, this doesn’t make me HUGE or in line for the world’s strongest man, but it does make me bigger and stronger than the average man……just shorter….so what is the big deal with that? A person’s body weight and strength has a lot more to do with being a good “protector” than being tall does.
To be honest, though, I have only come across a girl who wouldn’t date me because of my height once, and have dated many girls taller than me….up to 6ft 1.
I totally understand Funk. I don’t have anything against fat chics, but I just don’t want to date em. Especially after their pregnant and still got the flubber going on. That’s just nasty and smells. I like my skinny chics! They smell good and have a nice tight body. Mmm. There’s nothing like a skinny chic walking by smelling good with a nice hot body. And it’s also much easier to have sex with a skinny chic.
I found your blog on google and read a few of your other posts. I just added you to my Google News Reader. Keep up the good work. Look forward to reading more from you in the future.
I’m 5’5″, male, and I realized there’s not enough light in the day to be concerned about a broken mirror.. Fairness has more to do with sympathy than happiness. After all, I found this blog from pure greed alone. Wow, I just remembered that my former classmate from junior/h.s had four limbs, pretty much living from his wheelchair. Let the wind chimes sing.
Hey Im a 5″7 man who loves women but I dont blame you women who whants a short guy we have no reason to be here
To me, dating short guys isn’t worth the hassle. I have dated guys as short as 5’8″, and it is always an issue dealing with coworkers, friends, and family criticizing my choice. Every time I dated a short guy, my friends would try to set me up with someone else. I also got the feeling that people were looking at us when we were out in public. I’m 5’6″ and sometimes wear heels, and would sometimes be the same height or even a little taller than the guy I was with. This made me feel self-conscious. So, no more short men for me, thank you very much. I’m with a 6’1″ guy now, and it’s great!
@jill
So you are basically saying that short men are not worth dating because of all the negative remarks you get from the public? So dating men is like a game to you? You have to date a man who is tall just to look GOOD to the public NOT because the man’s personality or value?
In conclusion, dating to you now is all about choosing a guy who looks good and what your friends and family want. Dating to you is NOT about whether you really like the guy or if the guy has a good personality or of some value. It is all about looks, right?
@jill
That’s sooo sad, no wonder a lot of women have trouble finding Mr. Right. How superficial can a person get. And women have the nerve to claim mostly guys are superficial. Women are just as bad if not worse. And you let your shallow friends and family members dictate who you should and should not date. I can understand if the guy treats you like crap, friends and family trying to fix you up with a guy that’s good and has his act together, but trying to fix you up with somebody else just because the other guy is only two inches taller than you. Don’t you think that’s a little weird? What’s the requirement? The guy has to be 6 inches taller if the woman is around 5′ 6″, A guy has to be 12 inches taller if the woman is only 5 foot? That’s basicly what I’m seeing from these post.
What if guys rejected women over height? A lot of women wouldn’t be dating at all.
But Jill’s post made me realize something else. Even if a short male has no problem attracting women he still will have a problem with the woman’s friends and and family making negative comments and trying real hard to break you two up by putting pressure or her and trying to fix her up with other people. I guess this goes on a lot without the short male realizing what’s going on. He’s living life having a good time with his lady, treating her good and all of a sudden for no reason she breaks up with him. There’s a lot of accepted prejudice against short males in society. The’s a name for predudice toward people of a certain height. and researchers have unanamously concluded it is aimed almost exclusively toward short males. Tall men, Tall women and short women rarely have to deal with this.
My neice is only 4′ 9″ and she was heavily criticise by friends for dating a dude that was only 5′ 1″, that was really bold of her to do that thinking back on it. Her friends were saying all these tall guys are interested and you’re dating short dude. Because she was in highschool at the time I didn’t think much of it, I just thought it was a bunch of silly highschool mess but looking at Jill’s post that goes on way after highschool even if the dude was 5′ 6″ and instead of 5′ 1″
hey jill I study psychology, my recent message was just an experament, but jill to worry about what every one thinks about you, you must be one miserable woman. Not being able to be your own person so another words you have to be with a guy 6’1 to feel like you your own person. Not good sister your soul is in trouble, be yourself and be happy no matter who your with. Not becasue of what your friends and familly say but rather what ”GOD” and your soul is telling you. Comming from a psychological perspective, to worrying about what other people think of you like you do has to take a toll on you and your happyness, “you must experience anxiety is my guess”. It takes to much energy worrying about what other think, you have the “spot light effect”. Not good for you or healthy, your also very surfaced in your thinking . Tall or short men can see right through you, believe me. You should do some soul searching and change your way of thinking thats real, cause you don’t want to pass this way of thinking to you offspring or even have this way of thinking from not only a psychological perspective, but a godly perspective. Me personaly will kick it with anyone any time anyplace to hell what everyone else thinks. im having fun with my friend hear me! no matter what you look like, and thats real. Thats the god in me speaking jill, you and your family need to change your way of thinking, Its not godly nore is it humane. feal me! this message is not to scold you but rather enlighten you. There is no room on this earth for that way of thinking, we all should be looking at eachothers souls to start with, and thats real, you would be much more happier and would be intune with many great people if oyu changed your way of thinking, hear me! I work with disabled people and GOD is good, GOD is good, jill let go and let GOD This is probably some of the best advice you’ll get in your life. I know alot of shallow thinkers, and trust me you don’t want ot be one of them. In order to be great you have to think great. Peace everyone and GODbless you all and I realy mean that.
Well, I see a few short guys have gotten their panties in a bunch. I am perfectly able to think for myself. Let me explain it this way: There are plenty of nice guys out there, some are tall and some are short. Dating a nice tall guy doesn’t cause friction between me and the people in my life. Dating a short guy does. The crap I take for dating the short guy doesn’t make him less attractive to me. My friends’ opinion doesn’t change the way I see him. However, why should I take on the burden of constantly having to defend my decisions when there are EQUALLY good tall guys to date? It makes no sense.
I totally understand what Jill is trying to say.
It is like having two decisions. First one is to date a tall guy who with a good personality and the other one is to date a short guy with a good personality. Which one do you expect her to choose? Obviously the tall guy with good personality. And as she said, there are equally good tall guys to date. ‘Taller’ is considered as better in this world. So why should she go with short which is considered as NOTHING in our world? I don’t really blame her for her decision.
So what does that leave short guys in this world if tall guys are equally good? Live miserably and single for the rest of their lives?
Well, that is why you don’t see lots of short guys with girls.
So short guys have two options:
1. Finding a girl who is NOT shallow which is pretty rare.
2. Making a name for yourself and be successful.
Lil Wayne is the BEST example of how success will make short people look as good as tall people. Firstr of all, Lil Wanye is not physically attractive. He is dumb. He used to do drugs. No social skills. Remember what all those girls said they want a guy who is at least 6′? Well, Lil Wayne is only 5’6″. And now, girls go CRAZY on him. They love him like hell. And that is not the surprising part. They find this ugly short man more sexually attractive than any tall handsome guy. So how could a dumb ugly short guy be that attractive to girls? SUCCESS is the answer. He was able get money, fame and success by singing.
So this brings good news to short guys. There is hope and there is a way to be as good looking as tall men. But it also brings bad news. It is really difficult and almost impossible to gain such fame and success.
So the best way is just to search for those extremely rare breed of girls who don’t care about appearance.
Jill you just contradicted yourself…LOL, You said dating a tall NICE man does not cause friction between you and your shallow friends, so basicly you’re saying dating a short NICE man does cause friction between you and your shallow friends. In other words you make your decission based on the approval of your shallow friends. What if you can’t find a NICE tall man?, I guess you don’t date anybody or get your shallow friends to find somebody for you?
And Jill you are the first female I ever heard admit there are plenty of nice guys out there..lol, It took this subject to get a female to admit to that..lol
And ABX you said short is considered a NOTHING in this world? Who exactly is saying that because they are not saying it publicly, only privately among fellow shallow people. And most guys have no problem with dating short women, so this “NOTHING” comment is aimed at short males.
I’m thinking ABX and Jill are the same person. You got two over the top comments in a row. That’s funny.
Damn I didn’t see the other nutty by ABX…oops
That one is a real winner. I disagree with this notion that short equals ugly, being short does not make somebody ugly. Actually being ugly makes somebody ugly. Based on your logic, Tom Cruise is ugly,Paul Newman and Doug Flutie, Alfonso Robeiro of Fresh Prince of Bell-aire is ugly and..etc, But most women wouldn’t say those guys are ugly. Now I agree lil wayne is ugly and I was saying that long before I knew who he was and how tall he was, because I was looking at his face not his height. Like with a fat woman she could have a pretty face but the body is ugly, and that’s the part that turns guys off. So if the short man had an ugly physique or a beer belly then you would have something. And requiring short males to be famous is a bit rediculous, why don’t you go out and become famous? It’s not like going out and just getting job. Now Snoop Dog is tall but ugly, Buster Douglas is REAL ugly but you ladies wont admit to that…lol, It’s funny how women can be so shallow about something and act as if guys are the ones that are shallow. Woman are a lot worse. My wife has no problem with my height and personally I could care less what the average shallow female has to say. It’s women are always complaining about there are not any good men out there. That’s why I thought it was so funny to hear somebody say thre are plenty of nice guys out there. I have someone so it doesn’t affect me but listening to how stupid a lot of females are makes me appreciate what I have at home. So thank you :-)
@ James
No i am NOT Jill. Read my previous posts here and you will understand that we are two different people. In fact, i am a 19 year male who is only 4’11”.
I have lots of females friends who treat me well and respect me. But if i ask anything beyond that, they will refuse. And by reading all the comments from shallow women here, i wouldn’t even bother trying. And yes, i am a short guy and it is true that short is considered as NOTHING in this world when it comes to dating. Just look at what girls say about short men. Obviously i do not consider myself as NOTHING but in the eyes of girls when it comes to dating, short men are NOTHING compared to tall men and you know that is true. It is a sad fact and we can’t do anything about it.
So tell me James, without being successful how the hell are short men supposed to attract women? We have to be realistic here, James.
First of all jill your disrespectful, short men dont wear panties. Second your self eseem is based on what people say and who your with, you have a false sense of self esteem I bet it goes up and down. 3rd Im a brotha Ive done modeling I a blackbelt in jiu jitsu and have my degree in psychology. 4th your almost a midget your 5’6, and you want some 6’1, get real your a shorty most men 6’1most likely don’t want you, you found one that did. Also I have no problem gatting women especialy ones like you Jill. Your a midget yourself you should be with someone 5’6 wich your probalby only 5’5, I would put everything on that. Your a very funny lil woman with a complex, believe me you fit the description. Your way of thinking is so simple, and easy to direct. get a life and a brain, real men dont wear panties baby. I met beautiful Intelligent tall/short women and thier thinking is far past yours. Why are you even on thist site if you dont care about some your hieght 5’5. your either confused, or a short man 5’6 hurt your feelings. Im almost 5’8 and know I could get you for a fact but you would have nothing to feed my brain, lil woman that feels tall in heels, you have a very false sense of security. Your thinking is so simple that thats what you neet is some simple like yourself. Hey find god and get an education you may think a little deeper about life. peace and hair grease people, Godbless jill.
ABX it’s goona be OK
@ James
No i am NOT Jill. Read my previous posts here and you will understand that we are two different people. In fact, i am a 19 year male who is only 4′11”. I have lots of females friends who treat me well and respect me. But if i ask anything beyond that, they will refuse. And by reading all the comments from shallow women here, i wouldn’t even bother trying. And yes, i am a short guy and it is true that short is considered as NOTHING in this world when it comes to dating. Just look at what girls say about short men. Obviously i do not consider myself as NOTHING but in the eyes of girls when it comes to dating, short men are NOTHING compared to tall men and you know that is true. It is a sad fact and we can’t do anything about it.
So tell me James, without being successful how the hell are short men supposed to attract women? We have to be realistic here, James.
And well said, Joeyyyyyyyy.
Fellas, relax.
Have you ever heard the phrase “Necessity breeds creativity?”
There is one thing the tall guys have that we don’t; necessity. I posted awhile back about how I thought being short was hurting my dating life…. I’ve never been more wrong.
Tall guys ‘get’ the attention, meaning they don’t have to earn it. You just have to know how to SEEM like the tallest man in the room, not BE him. The answer to that is ‘personality.’
The way to a woman’s heart and admiration is through her laugh. My suggestions to short guys:
- Watch lots and lots of stand up comedy: Learn how comedy is funny, how to deliver it, and how to improvise in social situations.
- Animate yourself: Don’t be afraid to be a little ‘out there.’ Though it may seem counter-intuitive, you will find that women LOVE men who can keep their interest.
- Take a Time Machine: Oddly, anything that was funny in 5th grade, is funny as an adult. I still do all the same little goofy things and women tend to find it entertaining. But don’t go overboard, you still have to act like an adult.
- Entertain, don’t interrogate: Women hate to be asked a million questions. In fact, I don’t even ask a woman’s name before I try getting her to laugh. Eventually, she’ll ask for yours. Then you know she’s at least interested in learning more about you. Let her ask the questions and only answer them about 60% of the time. Women LOVE mystery, and if you can keep a small sense of mystery, you’ll have much more fun talking to this woman.
- Don’t be an ‘Entertainer:’ I know… I just said the opposite above. What this means is don’t be a clown, or a ‘trained monkey.’ Learn how to incorporate being entertaining into your everyday personality.
Now I’m not advocating ‘gaming’ anyone. That, to me, is disingenuous and is not fair to the person you’re gaming. Be 100% honest. Don’t use lines or tricks. Just learn how to be an interesting character and let that be a part of WHO you are. Women are very, very, very intuitive. If you are interesting, trust me, they will see it.
That’s just a few pointers…. Maybe I should start my own blog. lol
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