Comments on: A Few Words About Oral

By: Twanna // FUNKY BROWN CHICK

Twanna // FUNKY BROWN CHICK — Mon, 01 Sep 2008 12:59:38 +0000

Good point, Carolina! Nothing’s foolproof. There is no safe sex (vaginal, oral, anal, etc.); only safer sex.

By: lamesabassman......

lamesabassman...... — Mon, 01 Sep 2008 06:14:19 +0000

just about anything between two adults …. is sex…. one President talked about
having lust in his heart…… while another one put his lust where it counted the most….. this has been the most talked about topic that I’ve ever seen anywhere
and that I’ve been….. around this world about 4 times as a musician …. and a soldier …. sex is everything….. from the way we eat,sleep,talk,look,dress and eventually … die….. if it’s just you and yours… then ….. holding hands can go to
hugs…. deep kisses …… Roman hands and Russian fingers…… the undressing of the eyes….. then the disrobe and then the full body massage ….. with the brain
being the most sexual organ we have that the mere thought about another person
male or female in any way fit could be counted as a sex act or one leading to..
whether oral or anal…. or any and all in between … whether you like it or dont
it’s all sex….. and it could be good,bad or indifferent …. if it gets your Ya-Ya’s out….. it’s sex….. and if we are looking for Mr.Goodbar or the Tooth Fairy …
then it’s not about sex…. it’s about a way out not a way in…. it’s lust….and lust
has put more people in the ground than one would ever care to ponder….
just think before you do…. or it might be the end…. of you….

lamesabassman……. ” Life… tell it like it is… for you may have to die
before you live….” Sly knew, why didn’t you…

By: carolina pereira

carolina pereira — Sun, 31 Aug 2008 06:59:12 +0000

oral is still sex. actually, i found it more intimate than vaginal sex. there’s no safe oral sex, that’s why i never do it with one night stands.

By: Peggy b.

Peggy b. — Fri, 15 Aug 2008 11:27:47 +0000

No, please don’t mistake my comment as an attack on any reader. But I suppose you’re right–people can and do disagree because they do. It’s that scholar in me that’s always looking for the *other reason* behind it. And sometimes, that can get me into trouble!

By: Twanna // FUNKY BROWN CHICK

Twanna // FUNKY BROWN CHICK — Fri, 15 Aug 2008 11:23:37 +0000

@ lamesabassman: Desiree rocks. :)

@ dkzone: And, yeah, you’re too much! :)

@ Peggy b.: Oh gaaawd! :) I wouldn’t say it’s naivety or a “conscious delusion” at all. Sometimes people disagree because they just disagree. And, I wouldn’t generalize Desiree’s “virtuous” comment to the other various responses either. :) Desiree is a woman like no other! She’s great.

By: Peggy b.

Peggy b. — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 21:22:09 +0000

Yup, just as I suspected. This conscious delusion (and I mean this) is merely (at least for those who are honest enough to say so) a coverup so they don’t feel like they are more sexually active than…others(?), supposedly. Reading various responses, I see that it’s a personal *need* to think oneself as more “virtuous”.

Whatever helps people sleep at night, I guess. I just didn’t know we were still so uncomfortable about our sexual needs/desires vs. what society will think of us.

Maybe that’s just too naive of me.

By: lamesabassman......

lamesabassman...... — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 15:37:36 +0000

dkzone…… hmmm…. K….. am trained for this….. cover me… I’m going in…

lamesabassman……… tastes like chicken broth…..

By: dkzone

dkzone — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 15:23:28 +0000

C’mon….you got to let the g-spot orgasm go to finality….just once…

You have nothing to lose….except money for laundry. LOL

I’ve actually taken a few female squirts to the face….honestly its like water…..thats it. keep a towel and glass of orange juice handy ;)

By: lamesabassman......

lamesabassman...... — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 03:54:25 +0000

Desiree…… The Choir Boy is thinking ….. Virtuous…. cool…

but, The Altar Boy is thinking….. Virtuoso…… hellacool……

but,I digress…. to swallow means that she is soooo into you,that she wont let
any part of you go to waste….

to not swallow means….. next time…. spring for Nobu…..

By: Twanna // FUNKY BROWN CHICK

Twanna // FUNKY BROWN CHICK — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 22:05:06 +0000

@ Desiree: HIGH FIVE for the honesty!!! :)

@ dkzone: You said, “whatever jumped off between karen and myself would remain between us.” I like that! :) And, ooooh, you bring up such juicy questions re: The Big “O” and the spit vs. swallow. I might dedicate an entire post to one or both of these. By the way, you know I bedroom-tested “O” advice for Glamour magazine, right? Results are on page 3 ( http://www.glamour.com/sexmen/articles/2008/04/orgasms ) and the graph is here ( http://www.glamour.com/sexmen/articles/2008/04/normal_orgasm ). :)