The Best of 2008 Manly Mondays
Oh, the pressure. The pressure!! If this is your first time getting down with the funky brown, Manly Mondays are weekly celebrations of everything wonderful about M-E-N. Sometimes we drool over a particular guy; however, more often than not, we gab about general testosterone-related subjects of the day. I wasn’t sure who should be the first Manly Monday pick for 2009. Barack Obama would be an obvious choice, but I’m saving that delicious nibble of a man until inauguration because I’m going to DC for the festivities. In the spirit of “closing” last year, here’s a round up of some of my — and, based on comments, your — favorite 2008 Manly Monday picks. Enjoy!
The Brown Chick Who Sometimes Dates White Dudes
I like my milk like I like my men. White with no fat.
Are Good Guys Drawn to Bad Girls?
Is it true that good guys are drawn to “bad girl” girlfriends, but they settle down with women they think would make “good girl” wives? (For the flipside, is it true that good girls are drawn to “bad boy” boyfriends, but they settle down with men they think would make “good” husbands?) BONUS: For my views on the “good girl” vs. “bad girl” bullshit, read: Twanna, The Madonna Whore.
How to Hide an Erection
Funny, informational video that provides excellent tips for concealing unexpected boners.
Manly, Hot, Asian-American Men
“[S]tatistics show that ‘Asian man/black woman’ is the least common of all interracial combinations, representing less than 0.01 percent of all marriages in the United States — a total of just 6,000 couples across the entire country.” Change starts at home; I’m ready to be part of the solution.
Top 10 Hottest DILFs (Dads I’d Like To Fuck)
Men with children have never been hot … until now.
A Guy’s Perspective on Thr33somes
ROYAL YOUNG: While discussing fine wines with Twanna at an East Village loft after party for a reading at Gramercy Park National Arts Club, she told me she had just had a thr33some. “I’m writing about my thr33some!” I exclaimed. Being a dude, I was eager to hear it from a ladies’ perspective, especially since the two ladies involved in mine had jilted me.
Penises: Cut vs. Uncut
Light-hearted discussion about the relative merits of circumcision.
Who’s Responsible for Orgasms? Men or Women?
When two people are in bed together, are both entitled to an orgasm if each desires (and is able to have) one?
How to Buy Men’s Sex Toys
Learn more about (or purchase) the toys.
H-A-W-T!!!! Jon Yongfook
Fuck. Look at him. God, he’s gorgeous, isn’t he? In his own words, Yongfook hails from “Her Majesties United Kingdom of Great Britain Scones Tea Cricket Beer.” Beauty *and* a sense of humor?!?! Somebody dip this man in honey and bring him to me so I can lick him!!
Men Who Like BBW Sex
I think a blogger named Mollena hit the nail on the head when she said: “I do not think that there is a correlation between sexual activity and weight.”
Does Size Matter?
I could espouse the joys of being with a big guy. At the same time, I’ve certainly had thrilling “Os” with little guys who really knew how to work their magic and please women. Does size matter? Or, is technique more important?
January 5th, 2009 at 7:34 pm
Hey girl!
I’m one of those lurkers you’ve written about in a previous post, so I’ve decided to come out from the shadows. I just love your blog, which I found a few years back on ‘Nerve.’ You are beyond awesome!
Sincerely,
Dianne
January 5th, 2009 at 8:38 pm
I made it! You rock my world T, see you this side of ‘09
January 5th, 2009 at 11:21 pm
I love your blog and would like to help(free) with your website. I find your blogs funny, upbeat, and mind blogging. I hate to blog but read others to get thru my gruesome days.
I am a sistah and never dated a white guy. (small town) Why don’t you date brothas? Just wondering, based on the statement ” I like my milk like I like my men. White with no fat.(nothing wrong with your choices). But why, have you ever dated a brotha and had a bad experience.
I would love to date white men, but again live in small town USA and noticed white men looking in my direction. Any suggestions. and I don’t do bars…
January 6th, 2009 at 12:01 am
@ Dianne: Hey Dianne! THANKS for commenting and delurking. I love it when people do that. :)
@ Royal: See you Wednesday!!
@ MsTallDark: Free? Help! My God do I need it. I write the post, respond to comments *AND* I do all the back-end shit, too (i.e. php programming, routine backups, design template modifications, server stuff, etc.) :) For the record, yes, I have (and do) date black men … and latinos … and anyone else I think is attractive. The “milk” excerpt was from that specific post … kinda like the “I’m ready to be part of the solution” comment isn’t meant to imply I only want to date Asian men no). :) Hmmm … Might write another post about race + dating. If you have questions. I have answers. :)