@ Royal: See you Wednesday!!

@ MsTallDark: Free? Help! My God do I need it. I write the post, respond to comments *AND* I do all the back-end shit, too (i.e. php programming, routine backups, design template modifications, server stuff, etc.) :) For the record, yes, I have (and do) date black men … and latinos … and anyone else I think is attractive. The “milk” excerpt was from that specific post … kinda like the “I’m ready to be part of the solution” comment isn’t meant to imply I only want to date Asian men no). :) Hmmm … Might write another post about race + dating. If you have questions. I have answers. :)

I am a sistah and never dated a white guy. (small town) Why don’t you date brothas? Just wondering, based on the statement ” I like my milk like I like my men. White with no fat.(nothing wrong with your choices). But why, have you ever dated a brotha and had a bad experience.

I would love to date white men, but again live in small town USA and noticed white men looking in my direction. Any suggestions. and I don’t do bars…

I’m one of those lurkers you’ve written about in a previous post, so I’ve decided to come out from the shadows. I just love your blog, which I found a few years back on ‘Nerve.’ You are beyond awesome!

Sincerely,
Dianne