Comments on: Bad Sex with Others or Good Sex Alone?

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Wed, 05 Aug 2009 01:23:21 +0000

[...] are the most important qualities in a mate; (2) what are my dealbreakers; and (3) how important is sex in a relationship? Granted, I wouldn’t go out of my way to bring any of this stuff up during a first date. [...]

By: aok

aok — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 02:44:01 +0000

What about oral sex. you can’t get that from your hand and if the person does it right your head would spin for days. I’ve really only had sex with one person but I will tell you that the nut from sex is sooooooo much better than that from masturbating. But I can’t really say I’ve had bad sex before. But Im sure those days may come.

By: anonimous

anonimous — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 15:33:22 +0000

i find it fun to put a finger up my arse any one got some good self sex tips or tricks

By: DaHerb

DaHerb — Mon, 02 Feb 2009 18:09:21 +0000

Wow, I’ve been single and living out here inn Denver more than I want to think about. I’m getting to the point where sex with myself is becoming more of the norm than I care to admit. I have been longing for those east coast days where I would have/find a partner and I’m beginning to think that maybe I’m getting to old for the dating thing and its time to settle down. But why settle???
Taking myself in hand is better than some of the folks I’ve met out here. And intimacy is more improtant than sex anyday.

By: lamesabassman......

lamesabassman...... — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 08:24:59 +0000

I second that emotion……..

lamesabassman……. it’s gettin’ Smokey up in here……

By: Getting Single

Getting Single — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 07:18:39 +0000

Having been on every side of coin you’re tossing (married with bad sex/no sex) meaningless trysts, fuck buddies, over-flowing “goodie drawers” and finally amazing sex with an amazing partner (to whom I’m lucky enough to now be married)I agree with your sentiments 100%.

Every time I had a one night stand or sex with somebody that I just wasn’t that into, the sex sucked. And it took me a while to realize why that was. Sex for sex’s sake is just too much work that it takes the fun out of it. You’re busy being self-conscious if what you’re doing is right, wondering what the hell he’s up to down there, and frankly, if I had to work that hard to get off, I’d rather whip out the rabbit, nubby G or watch some porn and get off myself. I know what I like and how to get myself off. Guaranteed win all around.

Vibrating/Plastic friends don’t replace that male body, and neither does a stranger. Intimacy with a partner is very different than just having sex and I’d say that’s the part your craving. Not just sex but true intimacy with a body you know and that knows yours.

By: lamesabassman......

lamesabassman...... — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 01:14:56 +0000

he will be back before you even know he’s been gone that long…

lamesabassman….. he surely knows what he is missing…. and that he is missed..

By: Mahoganydymond™

Mahoganydymond™ — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 22:51:28 +0000

I used to be like that.. Have sex with random guys that I dated. Then I ended up with a boyfriend that made me see colorful clouds every time we had sex. We were together for close to 6 years. So when I tried to date someone else the sex sucked.. So I prefer now to have good sex alone. Sometimes I pray that Acid Dick would come back into my life…

By: zuelapooh

zuelapooh — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 10:05:38 +0000

I definitely disagree with the poster. Sex with yourself is always better. Bad sex with others often inspires great sex with yourself anyways so why waste your time with others?

I loved your blunt honestly in the first paragraph… captured my attention instantly. Dry spells are hard to survive… you will appreciate each kiss and touch even more when it happens. Shame it has to be that way though. I do agree with your married friend…. marriage doesn’t equal regular sex…. hell, having a live-in boyfriend doesn’t either.

Thank goodness for vibrators, dildos and digits.

Be patient and do you! It works… and is emotionally safe.

By: zuelapooh

zuelapooh — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 10:05:37 +0000

I definitely disagree with the poster. Sex with yourself is always better. Bad sex with others often inspires great sex with yourself anyways so why waste your time with others?

Thank goodness for vibrators, dildos and digits.

Be patient and do you! It works… and is emotionally safe.