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	<title>Comments on: Bad Sex with Others or Good Sex Alone?</title>
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		<title>By: Webcam Design</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/01/23/bad-sex-with-others-or-good-sex-alone/comment-page-1/#comment-136359</link>
		<dc:creator>Webcam Design</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 07:22:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just believe in good sex with my husband not with other....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just believe in good sex with my husband not with other&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: madan</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/01/23/bad-sex-with-others-or-good-sex-alone/comment-page-1/#comment-130004</link>
		<dc:creator>madan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2009 11:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i want married lady any marrieed lady</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i want married lady any marrieed lady</p>
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		<title>By: My Matchmaker&#8217;s Observation About Men &#124; Twanna A. Hines @ FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com &#124; sex. dating. relationships.</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/01/23/bad-sex-with-others-or-good-sex-alone/comment-page-1/#comment-113137</link>
		<dc:creator>My Matchmaker&#8217;s Observation About Men &#124; Twanna A. Hines @ FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com &#124; sex. dating. relationships.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2009 01:23:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] are the most important qualities in a mate; (2) what are my dealbreakers; and (3) how important is sex in a relationship? Granted, I wouldn&#8217;t go out of my way to bring any of this stuff up during a first date. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] are the most important qualities in a mate; (2) what are my dealbreakers; and (3) how important is sex in a relationship? Granted, I wouldn&#8217;t go out of my way to bring any of this stuff up during a first date. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: aok</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/01/23/bad-sex-with-others-or-good-sex-alone/comment-page-1/#comment-105487</link>
		<dc:creator>aok</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 02:44:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What about oral sex. you can&#039;t get that from your hand and if the person does it right your head would spin for days. I&#039;ve really only had sex with one person but I will tell you that the nut from sex is sooooooo much better than that from masturbating. But I can&#039;t really say I&#039;ve had bad sex before. But Im sure those days may come.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What about oral sex. you can&#8217;t get that from your hand and if the person does it right your head would spin for days. I&#8217;ve really only had sex with one person but I will tell you that the nut from sex is sooooooo much better than that from masturbating. But I can&#8217;t really say I&#8217;ve had bad sex before. But Im sure those days may come.</p>
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		<title>By: anonimous</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/01/23/bad-sex-with-others-or-good-sex-alone/comment-page-1/#comment-96231</link>
		<dc:creator>anonimous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 15:33:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i find it fun to put a finger up my arse any one got some good self sex tips or tricks</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i find it fun to put a finger up my arse any one got some good self sex tips or tricks</p>
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		<title>By: DaHerb</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/01/23/bad-sex-with-others-or-good-sex-alone/comment-page-1/#comment-87512</link>
		<dc:creator>DaHerb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 18:09:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, I&#039;ve been single and living out here inn Denver more than I want to think about.   I&#039;m getting to the point where sex with myself is becoming more of the norm than I care to admit.  I have been longing for those east coast days where I would have/find a partner and I’m beginning to think that maybe I&#039;m getting to old for the dating thing and its time to settle down.  But why settle???
Taking myself in hand is better than some of the folks I&#039;ve met out here.  And intimacy is more improtant than sex anyday.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, I&#8217;ve been single and living out here inn Denver more than I want to think about.   I&#8217;m getting to the point where sex with myself is becoming more of the norm than I care to admit.  I have been longing for those east coast days where I would have/find a partner and I’m beginning to think that maybe I&#8217;m getting to old for the dating thing and its time to settle down.  But why settle???<br />
Taking myself in hand is better than some of the folks I&#8217;ve met out here.  And intimacy is more improtant than sex anyday.</p>
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		<title>By: lamesabassman......</title>
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		<dc:creator>lamesabassman......</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2009 08:24:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I second that emotion........

lamesabassman.......  it&#039;s gettin&#039; Smokey up in here......</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I second that emotion&#8230;&#8230;..</p>
<p>lamesabassman&#8230;&#8230;.  it&#8217;s gettin&#8217; Smokey up in here&#8230;&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Getting Single</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/01/23/bad-sex-with-others-or-good-sex-alone/comment-page-1/#comment-85753</link>
		<dc:creator>Getting Single</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2009 07:18:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Having been on every side of coin you&#039;re tossing (married with bad sex/no sex) meaningless trysts, fuck buddies, over-flowing &quot;goodie drawers&quot; and finally amazing sex with an amazing partner (to whom I&#039;m lucky enough to now be married)I agree with your sentiments 100%.

Every time I had a one night stand or sex with somebody that I just wasn&#039;t that into, the sex sucked. And it took me a while to realize why that was. Sex for sex&#039;s sake is just too much work that it takes the fun out of it. You&#039;re busy being self-conscious if what you&#039;re doing is right, wondering what the hell he&#039;s up to down there, and frankly, if I had to work that hard to get off, I&#039;d rather whip out the rabbit, nubby G or watch some porn and get off myself. I know what I like and how to get myself off. Guaranteed win all around.

Vibrating/Plastic friends don&#039;t replace that male body, and neither does a stranger. Intimacy with a partner is very different than just having sex and I&#039;d say that&#039;s the part your craving. Not just sex but true intimacy with a body you know and that knows yours.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Having been on every side of coin you&#8217;re tossing (married with bad sex/no sex) meaningless trysts, fuck buddies, over-flowing &#8220;goodie drawers&#8221; and finally amazing sex with an amazing partner (to whom I&#8217;m lucky enough to now be married)I agree with your sentiments 100%.</p>
<p>Every time I had a one night stand or sex with somebody that I just wasn&#8217;t that into, the sex sucked. And it took me a while to realize why that was. Sex for sex&#8217;s sake is just too much work that it takes the fun out of it. You&#8217;re busy being self-conscious if what you&#8217;re doing is right, wondering what the hell he&#8217;s up to down there, and frankly, if I had to work that hard to get off, I&#8217;d rather whip out the rabbit, nubby G or watch some porn and get off myself. I know what I like and how to get myself off. Guaranteed win all around.</p>
<p>Vibrating/Plastic friends don&#8217;t replace that male body, and neither does a stranger. Intimacy with a partner is very different than just having sex and I&#8217;d say that&#8217;s the part your craving. Not just sex but true intimacy with a body you know and that knows yours.</p>
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		<title>By: lamesabassman......</title>
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		<dc:creator>lamesabassman......</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2009 01:14:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>he will be back before you even know he&#039;s been gone that long...

lamesabassman..... he surely knows what he is missing.... and that he is missed..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>he will be back before you even know he&#8217;s been gone that long&#8230;</p>
<p>lamesabassman&#8230;.. he surely knows what he is missing&#8230;. and that he is missed..</p>
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		<title>By: Mahoganydymond™</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/01/23/bad-sex-with-others-or-good-sex-alone/comment-page-1/#comment-85645</link>
		<dc:creator>Mahoganydymond™</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Jan 2009 22:51:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I used to be like that.. Have sex with random guys that I dated. Then I ended up with a boyfriend that made me see colorful clouds every time we had sex. We were together for close to 6 years. So when I tried to date someone else the sex sucked.. So I prefer now to have good sex alone. Sometimes I pray that Acid Dick would come back into my life...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I used to be like that.. Have sex with random guys that I dated. Then I ended up with a boyfriend that made me see colorful clouds every time we had sex. We were together for close to 6 years. So when I tried to date someone else the sex sucked.. So I prefer now to have good sex alone. Sometimes I pray that Acid Dick would come back into my life&#8230;</p>
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