Comments on: What Men Want

By: Art J

Art J — Mon, 02 Feb 2009 02:34:59 +0000

As a man, who is a father and has been married and divorced, and has seen behind the wizard’s mask, All I really want is a neat single malt scotch, a great cigar, my Harley, and a woman who will make me happy (What ever the hell that means). At this stage I don’t want marriage, I don’t want drama, I don’t want problem women. I don’t want baby’s mama’s, with all their drama. I want “ME”. I want a sexual partner who is good to go, home after we’re done.

Been living other people’s drama for too many years to saddle up and ride that nag again. For now, after a while I will be ready to hitch up again.

By: lamesabassman......

lamesabassman...... — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 18:36:24 +0000

the naked part is easy…. the beer part….. is getting kinda hard…. it’s the carbs…

lamesabassman….. sometimes… ya gotta look good… to get it….

By: dan-E

dan-E — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 18:28:25 +0000

this reminds me of some humor emails i get every once in a while that’s a huge laundry list of what women want from men, with over a hundred items. finally it gets to what men want from women and it’s two things:

1. show up naked.
2. bring beer.

not always, but sometimes it is that easy.

By: SMH

SMH — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 00:40:34 +0000

Armando G and DKZone said it all except make it a bourbon and coke instead of a beer – sounds like what women want as well.

By: Powder Room Girl

Powder Room Girl — Tue, 27 Jan 2009 02:50:37 +0000

Hey Aenn I think you were, isn’t it funny that when you don’t care to get involved with men that’s when most of them seek you? I think when you show less interest for something you are pushed on that direction?

Armando G, I like how said it. I think we tend to generalize and underestimate men. I think, even though we tend to be the ones to give things too much thought and over analyze, in the end we don’t really understand man. We focus on the bad & the ugly and overlook what you guys are really about.

I told myself recently that I’m gonna relax and take things easy and just let things unfold like men do. I love your last paragraph, I wish we could learn to just sit back and just enjoy the feeling of contentment :)

By: Armando G

Armando G — Tue, 27 Jan 2009 02:23:33 +0000

Funny how this post has not gotten a lot of responses. Men are expected to be simple creatures, the candy bar to the woman’s chocolate box. Enough of that…

(Most) Men want to be able to grow up. They want to have friends who respect them when they develop emotionally and diminish physically. They want guidance for the things they could not possibly know. However, we need to know that the people we love count on us, also. We want to be respected for what we offer and not so quickly corrected. Disagree, but let it be.

And when you ask what is on our minds, and we say “nothing”, that means that nothing is wrong, nothing is lacking, nothing needs to be mended, and we were in a tranquil place enjoying that lazy hazy elusive peace that comes from contentment.

And a beer. An ice cold beer.

By: lamesabassman......

lamesabassman...... — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 22:05:40 +0000

and a few cupcakes would’nt hoit……

lamesabassman…… and no 2% milk…..

By: lamesabassman......

lamesabassman...... — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 22:04:09 +0000

what do men want…… the ability to be free enough to have and to hold …. to not
be afraid to admit to have fear…. love…. an opinion …. to talk and be heard….
date dutch treat without being called cheap….. or a pimp….. to share thoughts freely without being called a nerd….. to have a point of view…..
what do guys want…… to not be treated like a sex toy/boy toy….. to want women
to be real enough to say wants on their mind….. what they desire and if they just
want a one night stand just say so….. and not an affair just linger on ….

lamesabassman…… guys want what woman want….. warmth and faith….

By: Aenn

Aenn — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 20:41:48 +0000

@dkzone – Most of the men I’ve been involved with didn’t like sports, or at most had one sport that they liked to watch (formula one, wrestling).

@Powder Room Girl – Maybe I was meeting your men. When I was out looking for a good time and had no regard for men’s emotions, I only encountered men who wanted relationships.

By: Powder Room Girl

Powder Room Girl — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 18:58:05 +0000

I agree that men and women pretty much want the same things. When I was younger and more out there on the dating scene I always generalize all men based on the few men I met who were just looking for a good time and had no regard for a woman’s emotions. I think we just meet people at different stages i their life; in my previous bad luck I met men when they still didn’t know what they want. Today, I’m meeting men who want the same thing we want, I guess the games and flings get old and eventually we all want stability and that one.

I think in the end men want a more to stimulate them, pamper them, and give them great sex! As a matter of fact, I want that too! :)