Comments on: This is What Heartbreak Sounds Like http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/02/10/this-is-what-heartbreak-sounds-like/ Twanna is a sex, dating and relationships writer in New York City. She's funky. She has brown skin. And, she's a chick. FUNKYBROWNCHICK™ chronicles her life. Sat, 20 Mar 2010 16:01:09 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Ithxsmir http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/02/10/this-is-what-heartbreak-sounds-like/comment-page-1/#comment-120816 Ithxsmir Tue, 29 Sep 2009 07:23:10 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1574#comment-120816 The sound of heartbreak is the sound just out of ears reach that can only be felt reverberating through out ones being.  The sound that plays every time you see the person who's caused it in pain and realize you cannot do anything about it anymore. The sound that you feel when you realize that smile you used to love to coax out of them is no longer for you.  The sound that exists to remind you of what was and will never be again. There are other fish in the sea as the saying goes, but like snowflakes they are all different. That something special two people have once broken, can never be regained, never recreated in the same way. The sound of heartbreak is the sound just out of ears reach that can only be felt reverberating through out ones being. 

The sound that plays every time you see the person who’s caused it in pain and realize you cannot do anything about it anymore.

The sound that you feel when you realize that smile you used to love to coax out of them is no longer for you. 

The sound that exists to remind you of what was and will never be again.

There are other fish in the sea as the saying goes, but like snowflakes they are all different. That something special two people have once broken, can never be regained, never recreated in the same way.

]]> By: lamesabassman...... http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/02/10/this-is-what-heartbreak-sounds-like/comment-page-1/#comment-89249 lamesabassman...... Thu, 12 Feb 2009 07:32:43 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1574#comment-89249 dkzone..... you are on the money.... lamesabassman..... can't touch that..... dkzone….. you are on the money….

lamesabassman….. can’t touch that…..

]]> By: dan-E http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/02/10/this-is-what-heartbreak-sounds-like/comment-page-1/#comment-89241 dan-E Thu, 12 Feb 2009 06:29:41 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1574#comment-89241 what makes it memorable is that you can learn what you need in a relationship and what you need from the other person, as well as certain negative qualities that are future dealbreakers. also, ideally you also learn from your own mistakes so you don't fuck it up next time. what makes it memorable is that you can learn what you need in a relationship and what you need from the other person, as well as certain negative qualities that are future dealbreakers.

also, ideally you also learn from your own mistakes so you don’t fuck it up next time.

]]> By: Brenz http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/02/10/this-is-what-heartbreak-sounds-like/comment-page-1/#comment-89192 Brenz Wed, 11 Feb 2009 20:38:47 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1574#comment-89192 Also: my gym's near there. So on the off-chance I do 100 tasks tonight and can spare the time, maybe I'll swing by. Also: my gym’s near there. So on the off-chance I do 100 tasks tonight and can spare the time, maybe I’ll swing by.

]]> By: Brenz http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/02/10/this-is-what-heartbreak-sounds-like/comment-page-1/#comment-89191 Brenz Wed, 11 Feb 2009 20:38:19 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1574#comment-89191 Heartbreak? It doesn't make a noise. You're sitting at your desk, not doing anything. Something new stabs you in the gut. "Oh," you realize after a moment. "I haven't eaten since yesterday morning." You don't get up. Heartbreak? It doesn’t make a noise. You’re sitting at your desk, not doing anything. Something new stabs you in the gut. “Oh,” you realize after a moment. “I haven’t eaten since yesterday morning.”

You don’t get up.

]]> By: dkzone http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/02/10/this-is-what-heartbreak-sounds-like/comment-page-1/#comment-89179 dkzone Wed, 11 Feb 2009 19:08:20 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1574#comment-89179 Its 2 am Your sitting on your couch. Its pitch black The only sounds are George Michaels " listen without prejudice " cd playing and the occasional sigh. tears don't make noise when they hit the carpet. Its 2 am

Your sitting on your couch.

Its pitch black

The only sounds are George Michaels ” listen without prejudice ” cd playing and the occasional sigh.

tears don’t make noise when they hit the carpet.

]]> By: lamesabassman...... http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/02/10/this-is-what-heartbreak-sounds-like/comment-page-1/#comment-89166 lamesabassman...... Wed, 11 Feb 2009 17:17:47 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1574#comment-89166 the one thing that one should never hear is those sad and hurtful words which simply put.. says please just disappear to spend so much time with the one,your first love only to find out soon too soon like a bolt from above that to them you never mattered and your heart tossed your faith in yourself and others... lost you ache for now but soon you'll be fine until the next one comes to you with that all consuming line I love you..... I love you not.... lamesabassman..... may St. Valentine's Day be kind to your mind.... the one thing that one should never hear
is those sad and hurtful words
which simply put.. says please just disappear
to spend so much time
with the one,your first love
only to find out
soon too soon like a bolt from above
that to them you never mattered
and your heart tossed
your faith in yourself and others… lost
you ache for now
but soon you’ll be fine
until the next one comes to you
with that all consuming line
I love you….. I love you not….

lamesabassman….. may St. Valentine’s Day be kind to your mind….

]]> By: Buddha http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/02/10/this-is-what-heartbreak-sounds-like/comment-page-1/#comment-89040 Buddha Tue, 10 Feb 2009 20:53:01 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1574#comment-89040 I've never had anyone break up with me, but I did like a girl who wasn't interested. I would think, though, that I would define the idea of heartbreak as ... a deep source of frustration. The part of you that loved that person or wanted them ... will always feel cheated or ... there will be a sense that you've wasted your time. As for what makes it so "memorable"... probably the fact that the emotions were so strong (good and bad) that it's embedded forever. I’ve never had anyone break up with me, but I did like a girl who wasn’t interested. I would think, though, that I would define the idea of heartbreak as … a deep source of frustration. The part of you that loved that person or wanted them … will always feel cheated or … there will be a sense that you’ve wasted your time.

As for what makes it so “memorable”… probably the fact that the emotions were so strong (good and bad) that it’s embedded forever.

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