CHOOSE: No Underwear or Sexy Panties?
Whether it’s women who have sex strictly for recreation, dudes who wear thongs, Australian men’s droolworthy factor or whatever, reading what you guys write in the “comments” section is one of my favorite parts of this site. So, I recently (um, like, yesterday) scrapped the old comment system and I’m trying out Disqus (pronounced: discuss) because it’s easier to use. You’ve probably already seen the format on Gawker, Mashable, HuffPo and other places. Basically, I made the change because I got annoyed with scrolling up and down and replying en masse to 20 comments with a long list of “@ @ @” stuff. The new system works for me, but I want to know if it you like it too. To try it out, answer this quick & easy question: Which is a bigger turn on — secretly wearing NO underwear (i.e. vajayjay al fresco) on a date or dressing up in a pretty, matching bra and panty set? Ready? Set? Try out the new comment section!
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By the way, more changes to my site are coming up. I’m going to upload the new logo Mariana designed sometime today or tomorrow morning. I design my site myself and I’m soooo not a web designer / web developer / whatever, so it takes me a bit longer to do this stuff than it should.
March 15th, 2009 at 8:17 am
Walking around al fresco makes me giggle to myself, kinda like I gotta naughty little secret and no one else knows. Pretty panty & bra for me.
March 15th, 2009 at 8:57 am
Can I vote for wearing comfortable cotton panties? I've never liked lace scratching in intimate parts, and if you wear no underwear, there's a risk of damp spots if you start to get very excited.
March 15th, 2009 at 10:48 am
nothing comes between my 501's and me…… nothing….
lamesabassman…. but when wearing suits,am wearing as briefly as possible…..
March 15th, 2009 at 10:52 am
I love the mystery of knowing what's underneath a guys pants. Since I also love fabric, I love silk boxers. They are so soft, and to feel an erection underneath is an added bonus. Boxer briefs are also sexy because they cling to a man's body so you can see the curve of all his muscles. [I think I need a shower about now.]
As for myself, matching bra and panties. Red, pink or black lace, please. Of course, good ole fashion cotton, bikini cut are also my fav.
March 15th, 2009 at 11:01 am
Both. It depends on how I'm feeling that day. Sometimes I just want to feel skin against my outer clothes. Other times, the feel of fine lace or smooth silk just can't be beat! I always wear bras because I have large breasts; it's not an option for me. But they don't bother me because I spend money on quality lingerie (ie NOT Victoria's Secret).
March 15th, 2009 at 11:20 am
I like to dress up my bits, but usually go the comfort route. And really, nothing's sexier that straight-up plain white cotton undies.
March 15th, 2009 at 11:39 am
On my woman, I like sexy panties and bra. Nothing too kinky please. Forget Fredricks of Hollywood. That stuff is so cheesy. Victoria's secret is ok for everyday cotton, but I always buy my lady undies from special shop in west village. It is a classy place for classy women. Boy shorts panties are soo sexy. Mix match those with a bra from same shop. Mmmm, Mmmm delicious. As for me, bikini briefs almost always. Occaissionally I will free-ball in the summer, rarely though.
March 15th, 2009 at 1:24 pm
Vajayjay al fresco is the way to go… On the low low though, don't tell me – let me find out on my own. lol…
March 15th, 2009 at 1:43 pm
I've actually found that VS underwear is not bad (although they stopped making the one I liked a few years ago–it was a low-cut cotton bikini brief), but I would never consider their bras. Not only are they poorly made, they don't even make them in larger cups.
March 15th, 2009 at 1:46 pm
I gotta agree here. I love a well dress vajajay but some sleek black cotton panties mixed with a basic black bra can be equally super sexy
March 15th, 2009 at 4:07 pm
Plain bras (meaning with no print) and sexy panties for me because it's all about unwrapping. Also, sexy panties help you get through a day at work because then you get to think to yourself, “Dude, I'm wearing sexy panties!” every now and then.
“No panties” only goes for when you know there will be kinky play later on.
March 15th, 2009 at 4:43 pm
no undies hands down hahah
March 15th, 2009 at 4:59 pm
TOTALLY agree. I don't do it all the time, but I do it more than not. :)
March 15th, 2009 at 5:00 pm
I like lace panties with cotton fabric strategically included in all the right places. :)
March 15th, 2009 at 7:31 pm
i'm old school i guess…i need to be comfortable and i'm fine with cotton panties, but sexy panties definitely spice up the day…not into going commando…i worry about leakage…:)
March 15th, 2009 at 8:15 pm
I love it and yes it does feel like a secret, but it also feels free, and natural!!
Aint nothin like it!!!
[ Vajayjay al fresco, its so nice to say in a spanish accent] haha
March 15th, 2009 at 8:19 pm
hmmmm….sexy bra and panties always gets me….but I guess it depends on the outfit. Panties are always a must but sometimes the bra doesn't RSVP to the party….
March 15th, 2009 at 8:55 pm
being a man. I always wear boxer briefs…just the right amount of control and freedom.
I tried the “al fresco ” thing…lets just say that zippers are not a mans friend…unless he has to pee really bad and is wearing buttonfly.
I LOVE women that go commando……I love the thought of women going ” vajayjay al fresco”
I love it for several reasons.
1. I like to drive and fondle.
2. if I know she “might” be pantyless, really turns me on.
March 15th, 2009 at 10:01 pm
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YK2VZgJ4AoM
March 15th, 2009 at 10:07 pm
men in boxers = meh
men in boxer briefs = YUM
March 16th, 2009 at 7:36 am
I prefer wearing nothing. I feel so sexy and I love thinking “they don't even know…!” lol. But for practicality I usually wear a thong and a cute bra. The pantie set on that Babeland ad (on the right) is cute on ads but I think its too cookie cutter.
March 16th, 2009 at 7:42 am
A friends told me that he goes commando, and he has a theory about why. I will get the scoop later today.
March 16th, 2009 at 9:57 am
Love my lacy bottoms with the cotton strategically located. Its the best and a total turn on for my man.
March 16th, 2009 at 11:45 am
I have smaller breasts (a very FULL “A” cup), but I always wear a bra too. The padding fills me out. ;)
March 16th, 2009 at 12:57 pm
I hate thongs. I'd rather go al fresco than wearing a thong. So, If I cant bear a boyshort line disturbing the flow of my ensemble I will wear no underwear. Its usually a simple lace pantie or boyshort (usually black) for me and a simple black bra.
March 16th, 2009 at 1:15 pm
I can't cover or uncover my vajayjay, because I don't have one. And I wouldn't dare reveal the intimate preferences of Mrs. Doodlius in such a public forum. I'm much too discrete.
By the by, nice new site graphic! I believe you made the right choice. (It was the one I voted for. WOOHOO!)
March 16th, 2009 at 2:42 pm
Well personally if I was trying to impress someone I'd probably weal some nice boxer briefs…but if the sole purpose was to get to the goodies I go commando…
But on a woman, I prefer the sexiness of a matching bra & underwear set…it just looks so nice and I'm sure they will look just as nice beside my bed…
now that i'm getting ready to get married I'm lucky to get anything to match, LOL…ahh the good ol days of dating…LOL
March 16th, 2009 at 4:36 pm
A nice matching pair is pleasing to the eye, nothing underneath blows the mind away.
March 16th, 2009 at 7:40 pm
dkzone……. that's why I only roll with 501's…… button-fly forever…….. 'cause it cuts down
on zipper crash…..
lamesabassman……. hate zipper crash….
March 16th, 2009 at 7:42 pm
FBC…. went to the site….. Dang ….. has it been that long…..
lamesabassman….. ” a very full ” A ” ……” Dang …. another sleepless nite…..
March 16th, 2009 at 7:46 pm
letinstar…… define ” leakage….” as in ” pop goes the weasel ” or … ” I cant stand the rain”
lamesabassman….. am from B'klyn….. and nosy…….
March 17th, 2009 at 8:58 am
I tried button fly once.
when you run in to the bathroom and REALLY have to go….
Those buttons are painfully frustrating
LOL
March 17th, 2009 at 9:04 am
one must plan ahead…….
lamesabassman…….. practice….. smile….
March 17th, 2009 at 5:41 pm
lamesabassman…let's just say moisture occurs on occassion…;)
March 18th, 2009 at 6:26 am
Go on, tell us where to get the best QUALITY underwear — especially for woman (unlike me) with really big boobies. Throw some links up so big-booby people will know where to go for resources!!
March 18th, 2009 at 6:55 am
Sexiest underwear choice for men = boxer briefs. :)
March 18th, 2009 at 9:21 am
K….. that sounds like a fact finding road trip all points magical mystery tour…..
lamesabassman…… sign me up……
March 18th, 2009 at 5:54 pm
so, no lie.. im not even ashamed I gotta go with the al fresco except for during the obviously uncomfortable times.. but yea.. on guys i don't really mind.. i dont really have a preference for guys. clean is all i need =]
September 12th, 2009 at 7:16 pm
I think I have an undie fetish. OK, I know I do. For my gf, I love her in whatever she wears – she is so incredibly sexy. Different moods for different days. sometimes, when she is in cotton bikini it drives me wild, other times it is a thong, other times when she is undie free.
For me, I love all types of undies. I even started wearing panties. Girls panties come in so my cuter colors and styles than guys. My favorite, thought are guys thongs. I love the way thongs feel and I think they are super cute. Plus, my gf loves it when I wear a thong. Plus, I think they just fit better.
So, al fresco, bikinis, thongs, it just depends on our mood.