How to Use Lube (PRODUCT REVIEW: KY – Intense Arousal Gel for Her)
I’ve been given an advanced sample of “KY INTENSE Arousal Gel for Her.” I love lubricant. I didn’t start experimenting with sex toys, lube and other adult playthings until I was in grad school. But, it’s kind of like that jingle: Once You Pop [The Sex Toy Chest], You Can’t Stop. ;) Anyway, so, I’m a big fan of sexual health and getting to know my body — whether on my own or with partner(s). So, when the lovely free sample of INTENSE arrived, I actually got kind of excited about giving it a go. In case you’d like to try it out for yourself, here’s my step-by-step approach to getting down and greasy:
- UNDERSTAND LE BODY. It took me a while to figure it out. Condoms often give me yeast infections and make sex uncomfortable. So, I used to always use lube to make everything flow easier. BUT … After a couple gynie visits, my doctor and I figured out the spermicidal lube on the condoms irritated my skin more than the condoms themselves. So, I sometimes buy other varieties when/if I feel like playing around with that stuff. And, sometimes I just don’t use it at all.
- MAKE MY PARTNER WORK HARDER. If I’m with a guy and I’m not self-lubing, it could be because I’m not wet. If I’m not wet, it’s likely my partner (or me) isn’t doing enough to get me aroused. In those cases, fuck lube — I just get a bit more vocal in bed. “Baby, touch me here like this instead.” Then I begin manual instruction or, if desired, a self demonstration.
- TEST SHIT OUT ON MY HAND FIRST. INTENSE is a tiny 0.34 FL OZ / 10 ML black bottle with “20 uses in pump.” Because I’d never used the product before, I squirted a bit on my hand and massaged it in. (1 down, 19 17 to go.) As I’ve mentioned before, I have sensitive skin. Everywhere. I’d rather go to my doctor with an inflamed hand than an inflamed hooha. You’ll be happy to know INTENSE, inflamed neither. ;) It’s actually a pretty nice product. Not at all sticky, very smooth. Because of its name, I think I expected it to burn / over warm (like that icy-hot stuff they stick on athletes) when I applied it, but it didn’t.
- KNOW WHAT’S IN IT. Sex toys are products. Products are made of chemicals. A Chinese toy recall was instituted for the younguns’ playthings, right? Um, where are many vibrators are made? Ding, ding, ding. China! And, of course, US and other factories aren’t above tainted chemicals either. (Sidenote: Learn about phthalates.) Before I rub anything on or insert it into my horny bits, I search online about for details about the products’ chemicals. For example, KY INTENSE Arousal Gel for Her contains propylene glycol, ethylene glycol, PEG-8, hydroxypropyl cellulose, tocopherol and niacin. Thankfully, all relatively safe. If you’re curious about organic options, I think the calendar party gift bags contained Sliquid. They may or may not be organic; I’ve gotta look into that a bit more to find out.
So, there you have it! If any of you are interested in trying out KY INTENSE Arousal Gel for Her, stay tuned. I might have a lube “Pleasure Giveaway” on Funky Brown Chick soon. Very very soon.
March 21st, 2009 at 2:04 am
But did you like it? Did it last long? Get sticky? Any details about this particular lube itself?
March 21st, 2009 at 2:39 am
That is good advice for testing out a new lube. In addition to being careful with your skin, you should be careful which toys you use it with, as some lube can be bad when mixed with certain toys.
I also want to recommend that people who are interested in this topic look at Metis Black's site. She is a toy manufacturer, but she also writes a lot of articles about sexual health issues. There are there articles about lube on her site:
silicone lube, Got lube (part 1), and Got lube (part 2).
March 21st, 2009 at 10:26 am
Yeah, you went through a whole dissertation about how to evaluate a new product and didn't say much about how it worked when you tried it. I mean hey, the name of the stuff is “Intense Arousal Gel” – did it intensely arouse you? When you used it, did you see a brilliant light and hear a chorus of angels singing? Did it make YOU “sing” like a chorus of angels? C'mon, inquiring minds wanna know!
March 22nd, 2009 at 4:54 am
Sex toys are good when you can not find partners. Especially when you have STDs. As I know many members of STD dating site POZGROUP dot com use sex toys.
March 22nd, 2009 at 8:30 am
duhhh …… yeah…. do I put this on me ….. her…. or ….. fry fish with it……
lamesabassman….. and does it come in chocolate….. pun intended….. smile..
March 22nd, 2009 at 9:46 pm
Good questions! Tried it and liked it, and I also uploaded the post to include more details. Wasn't super how “hands on” and “detailed” to get. When I started writing it the first time, it read a bit “porny.” :)
March 22nd, 2009 at 9:50 pm
Great comment; awesome you included links w/ additional info about lube! :) Love it.
March 22nd, 2009 at 9:55 pm
Would you like me to post a video? ;)
March 22nd, 2009 at 10:07 pm
Yes. Yes we would. :)
March 22nd, 2009 at 10:19 pm
Si….. please…..
lamesabassman…… and…. what about the frying fish bit….
March 22nd, 2009 at 10:23 pm
just left that site…… and …. WOWZERS…..
lamesabassman….. excuse me … I must return…..
March 23rd, 2009 at 2:06 pm
I must admit that I too was hoping for a personal testomonial video…..
=D
March 23rd, 2009 at 6:42 pm
me too….
lamesabassman….. but … this is a family joint and FBC may not have fire insurance ……..
March 25th, 2009 at 11:05 am
Whoa, I think I counted something like 20+ comments from you in the last few days. I love love love the feedback but slow your roll, young man :)
March 25th, 2009 at 8:51 pm
yes, ma'am…… am going to do a U.S.O. gig …. going to the sandbox for a week…..
am hoping to come back….. but …. if I didnt
lamesabassman……. just wanted to let ya know that there was a smile out there that you gave life to…… me…. see ya on the flip side……
December 29th, 2009 at 3:52 pm
KY INTENSE Arousal Gel for Her contains propylene glycol, ethylene glycol, PEG-8, hydroxypropyl cellulose, tocopherol and niacin.
PG – non-toxic chemical lubricant
EG – toxic chemical used in Anti-freeze (cheaper than PG)
Peg-8 – more slipery stuff – Polyethylene glycol
HPC – thickener so lube stays put
Tocopherol – simply Vitamin E
Niacin – a B vitamin
Do NOT see anything that is going to put women over the moon!