Comments on: How to Date a Black Woman

By: lynn

lynn — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 01:50:53 +0000

Swm in greenville looking for a nice thin to med built black woman to date for love and companionship! Age open from 31 to 61, prefer nice brest! I’m looking for a good loveing woman!

By: just a guy

just a guy — Tue, 24 May 2011 13:33:08 +0000

as a white male who has been married to a beautiful, unique, and strong, black woman for over 28 years;
I would like to suggest that all people foget the hell about race and just see each person as individuals.
Do you have common interests? Common values?
The fact is that (sadly), that a majority of men in this day and age, choose to be selfish in one way or another. Now it seems that women are trying to play catch up.
The most powerful person in the world is a black man ( Pres. Obama)
The second most powerful person in the world is a black woman ( Oprah)
Can we just please celebrate that this is the beginning of an opportunity to just see people as people?
What we need is grown men of all races to teach their young men to respect women of all races.
Let the combined wisdom of all cultures and both sexes work together to make this world what it can possibly be.
Sorry for the intrusion.

By: LoveMyBestFriend

LoveMyBestFriend — Sun, 19 Sep 2010 02:55:22 +0000

I am a Black highschool girl and actually more than one of my white guy friends have busted out in a rap to try and impress me but oddly enough, my favorite genre isn’t rap [It was almost comical how shocked he was =) ] I love every form of music that includes TI, Eminem and Beyonce but I love Three Days Grace, Radiohead, Fall Out Boy, Owl City, David Hayes, My Chemical Romance… .I hate to say that some guys of other races do need a guide (my best friend from Asia is by no means included in that, he’s an absolute sweetheart <3 ) but a list of don’ts is very necessary for the other ones. I don’t know if its because of nerves or what but this guy is extremely sweet but maybe it’s just a matter of putting his foot in his mouth.

By: Ken

Ken — Sat, 28 Aug 2010 17:21:06 +0000

I have dated black women for some time now, and about three years ago I met my soulmate online and we were married a year ago. Our relationship does not have any problems, but our cultural differences are creating an issue. I am from NC and she is from NY. She is in her late forties and I am in early fifties. We truly love each other get along great. We have no problem going anywhere we desire and do not have problems when others stare (that is their problem). Our only problem is she has a large house in the city and I have a moderate house in the subburbs and we can’t get this issue worked out, as of yet. My comment is that I married the WOMAN I love and she just happened to be black. Life is too short not to follow the desires of your heart.

By: whiteguywithblackGF

whiteguywithblackGF — Sun, 22 Aug 2010 17:53:50 +0000

lol, why would anyone need a guide to date a specific race hahah, just supports the idea of races being certain ways i.e racism. just treat them like any other girl you wish to date because thats what they are. im white, my GF is a beautiful dark brown ebony goddess and im going to marry her and we gonna be happy in spite of all the dissaproval from her family

By: Afua Boahene

Afua Boahene — Sat, 14 Aug 2010 19:54:26 +0000

Twanna–Thanks for this article. I think there are so many misconceptions that people have of what it is like to date a black woman or any other woman of color. Yes, we’re all individuals but too often people assume certain things about women of a certain race. It always annoys me when people ask me would I ever date someone who is white. Of course my answer is YES but why is is that they automatically assume that wouldn’t. The better question might be would a white guy consider dating me. I think we are starting to see more evidence that they would which is an encouraging sign for black women. Hopefully, your post will give white men and black women more liberty to approach each other in the dating game. Again, thanks for sharing your thoughts. Currently, I am blogging about women of color, relationships, dating, love and romance and I would love to get your feedback. Could you please check out my blog site at http://smelodydiva.wordpress.com. I look forward to hearing from you.–Afua

By: Joey Brenner

Joey Brenner — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 02:44:12 +0000

“Dont Bring Home A White Boy” by: Karyn Langhorne Folan
Any thoughts on this book and its author?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtQPFVFUezI
http://www.blackfemaleinterracialmarriage.com/2010/03/bfim-gazette-karyn-langhorne-folans-interview-with-russia-today-support-and-reciprocity.html

By: gingerj

gingerj — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 16:01:51 +0000

This is so stupid for anyone i mean to be honest why does it matter what color, race, religious background you follow as for me i dont care though it brings up a question for me why is it being a red head and white seem like and makes women of any color believe that i find them inferior or just objects becuase that is a lie from society and i hate being looked at and having people go “he is just an asshole” when i am not i am very caring, thoughtful, loving, and i respect women and treat as a tresure of this earth they are more precious the diamonds and i cant understand why its hard for women to believe of me when i say this seeing as ive never tried or plan on just having a woman in bed thats not how i am i want a real relationship were the man and woman both support each others decisions and ideals and build trust im not a man that would boss my girlfriend or wife around its not right. you women of this world have voices and opions that mean just as much as men i listen to them and respect them as they should be

By: FunkyBrownChick : My GF Sez

FunkyBrownChick : My GF Sez — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 02:20:26 +0000

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By: wayne

wayne — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 11:13:28 +0000

I have dated only black women for many years and have found out that love has no color. My first true to whom I was to marry was my soulmate and we just loved to be together. So everyone, if u do not want to be together for love and friendship, just do not date for any other reason!! White, Black..are we not just men and women!!