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	<title>Comments on: A Good Breakup Song: Before the Hatred</title>
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		<title>By: Twanna A. Hines</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/05/a-beautiful-breakup-song-before-the-hatred/comment-page-1/#comment-321432</link>
		<dc:creator>Twanna A. Hines</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jul 2011 02:05:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;:)&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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		<title>By: Buddha</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/05/a-beautiful-breakup-song-before-the-hatred/comment-page-1/#comment-321219</link>
		<dc:creator>Buddha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jul 2011 05:30:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It definitely hurts worse.  So easy to walk away when there&#039;s good reason to (cheating, abuse, falling out of love).  What do you do, though, when you love them... but you&#039;re almost positive that it won&#039;t work?  Do you stay, give it a chance, and see it through?  Do you walk away, knowing they&#039;ll find someone better for them... even though it kills you?  Yeah... I agree. I think it hurts much worse when the reason isn&#039;t black/white.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It definitely hurts worse.  So easy to walk away when there&#8217;s good reason to (cheating, abuse, falling out of love).  What do you do, though, when you love them&#8230; but you&#8217;re almost positive that it won&#8217;t work?  Do you stay, give it a chance, and see it through?  Do you walk away, knowing they&#8217;ll find someone better for them&#8230; even though it kills you?  Yeah&#8230; I agree. I think it hurts much worse when the reason isn&#8217;t black/white.</p>
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		<title>By: Buddha</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/05/a-beautiful-breakup-song-before-the-hatred/comment-page-1/#comment-321218</link>
		<dc:creator>Buddha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jul 2011 05:07:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s the one! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s the one! :)</p>
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		<title>By: Twanna A. Hines</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/05/a-beautiful-breakup-song-before-the-hatred/comment-page-1/#comment-321214</link>
		<dc:creator>Twanna A. Hines</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jul 2011 04:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;HEARTBREAKER!! :)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;iframe width=&quot;450&quot; height=&quot;286&quot; src=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/embed/1WCVzEAa38c?rel=0&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>HEARTBREAKER!! :)</p>
<p><iframe width="450" height="286" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/1WCVzEAa38c?rel=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe></p>
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		<title>By: Buddha</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/05/a-beautiful-breakup-song-before-the-hatred/comment-page-1/#comment-321208</link>
		<dc:creator>Buddha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jul 2011 03:34:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Pretty song.  I&#039;ve seen him before... some French movie with Johnny Depp&#039;s wife.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pretty song.  I&#8217;ve seen him before&#8230; some French movie with Johnny Depp&#8217;s wife.</p>
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		<title>By: Delly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Delly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 May 2011 23:26:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for sarinhg. Always good to find a real expert.</description>
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		<title>By: jubinell</title>
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		<dc:creator>jubinell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Feb 2011 15:08:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting story you got there...however I think in the movie Dans Paris the song is meant to be that there is no need to break up yet, because &quot;mais je t&#039;embrasse, et ca passe...on ne se debarasse pas de moi comme ca&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting story you got there&#8230;however I think in the movie Dans Paris the song is meant to be that there is no need to break up yet, because &#8220;mais je t&#8217;embrasse, et ca passe&#8230;on ne se debarasse pas de moi comme ca&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Twanna A. Hines &#124; FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/05/a-beautiful-breakup-song-before-the-hatred/comment-page-1/#comment-102265</link>
		<dc:creator>Twanna A. Hines &#124; FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 10:27:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;dkzone&lt;/strong&gt;: Sounds like you made the right decision. Even if the woman said it was okay to use her, she would&#039;ve resented you if you did.

&lt;strong&gt;Cynthia&lt;/strong&gt;: One of my most serious relationships ever had a very anti-climatic ending. It was kind of like. Oh, okay, so it&#039;s really not going to work is it? It&#039;s really over? It was kind of sad.

&lt;strong&gt;lamesabassman&lt;/strong&gt;: It&#039;s almost always messy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>dkzone</strong>: Sounds like you made the right decision. Even if the woman said it was okay to use her, she would&#8217;ve resented you if you did.</p>
<p><strong>Cynthia</strong>: One of my most serious relationships ever had a very anti-climatic ending. It was kind of like. Oh, okay, so it&#8217;s really not going to work is it? It&#8217;s really over? It was kind of sad.</p>
<p><strong>lamesabassman</strong>: It&#8217;s almost always messy.</p>
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		<title>By: lamesabassman......</title>
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		<dc:creator>lamesabassman......</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Jun 2009 03:46:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>P.S.  ... ma petit..... what does&#039;nt kill you.... makes you stronger..... you tell us what gets you thru the the nite..... but when the lights go down low..... you still got company....
and that&#039;s hellcool &#039;cause you have been there... and you do know which way is up....
so,since you do give you&#039;re all .. they seem to be dropping the ball.... it ain&#039;t you... it&#039;s 
them and their mind set..... at times ... we are all one... some know you and attempt to 
bypass your inner self ... which is always on point.... and this you see .... hello... so if they 
can&#039;t hang.... it&#039;s on them .... and it ain&#039;t on you.... by just standing still and taking a good look at you.... those boyo&#039;s in question would see what&#039;s in front of them already....


lamesabassman...... and if they don&#039;t..... it&#039;s their loss.... don&#039;t dwell.... it&#039;s usually messy..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>P.S.  &#8230; ma petit&#8230;.. what does&#8217;nt kill you&#8230;. makes you stronger&#8230;.. you tell us what gets you thru the the nite&#8230;.. but when the lights go down low&#8230;.. you still got company&#8230;.<br />
and that&#8217;s hellcool &#8217;cause you have been there&#8230; and you do know which way is up&#8230;.<br />
so,since you do give you&#8217;re all .. they seem to be dropping the ball&#8230;. it ain&#8217;t you&#8230; it&#8217;s <br />
them and their mind set&#8230;.. at times &#8230; we are all one&#8230; some know you and attempt to <br />
bypass your inner self &#8230; which is always on point&#8230;. and this you see &#8230;. hello&#8230; so if they <br />
can&#8217;t hang&#8230;. it&#8217;s on them &#8230;. and it ain&#8217;t on you&#8230;. by just standing still and taking a good look at you&#8230;. those boyo&#8217;s in question would see what&#8217;s in front of them already&#8230;.</p>
<p>lamesabassman&#8230;&#8230; and if they don&#8217;t&#8230;.. it&#8217;s their loss&#8230;. don&#8217;t dwell&#8230;. it&#8217;s usually messy..</p>
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		<title>By: lamesabassman......</title>
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		<dc:creator>lamesabassman......</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Jun 2009 03:31:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>who wants to be the first to say goodbye........ Dang.... that&#039;s a serious move.... just how deep the thoughts of what was and what will never be .. don&#039;t you really go for the moments..
or does that person really curl your toes... or are they filling a want.. not a need nor desire..
a want.... you know going in just how long this gig &#039;s gonna last .... if the perp&#039;s a keeper...
or a sleeper.... and ... just how deep is the itch..... when the Dawn comes ... may common
sense arise with it.... just how you wish to be... and with whom.... &#039;cause you do know the first thing you see in the morning is ... yourself..... just how do you wish to remember your
odd night out..... does lightening strike twice..... or.... will you wonder what was on your mind
when you walked down this street.... or did it feel good or did it leave you.... wanting....


lamesabassman...... just a thought....



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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>who wants to be the first to say goodbye&#8230;&#8230;.. Dang&#8230;. that&#8217;s a serious move&#8230;. just how deep the thoughts of what was and what will never be .. don&#8217;t you really go for the moments..<br />
or does that person really curl your toes&#8230; or are they filling a want.. not a need nor desire..<br />
a want&#8230;. you know going in just how long this gig &#8216;s gonna last &#8230;. if the perp&#8217;s a keeper&#8230;<br />
or a sleeper&#8230;. and &#8230; just how deep is the itch&#8230;.. when the Dawn comes &#8230; may common<br />
sense arise with it&#8230;. just how you wish to be&#8230; and with whom&#8230;. &#8217;cause you do know the first thing you see in the morning is &#8230; yourself&#8230;.. just how do you wish to remember your<br />
odd night out&#8230;.. does lightening strike twice&#8230;.. or&#8230;. will you wonder what was on your mind<br />
when you walked down this street&#8230;. or did it feel good or did it leave you&#8230;. wanting&#8230;.</p>
<p>lamesabassman&#8230;&#8230; just a thought&#8230;.</p>
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