Comments on: A Good Breakup Song: Before the Hatred http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/05/a-beautiful-breakup-song-before-the-hatred/ Twanna is a sex, dating and relationships writer in New York City. She's funky. She has brown skin. And, she's a chick. FUNKYBROWNCHICK™ chronicles her life. Fri, 19 Mar 2010 02:01:27 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/05/a-beautiful-breakup-song-before-the-hatred/comment-page-1/#comment-102265 Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com Mon, 08 Jun 2009 10:27:39 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1888#comment-102265 <strong>dkzone</strong>: Sounds like you made the right decision. Even if the woman said it was okay to use her, she would've resented you if you did. <strong>Cynthia</strong>: One of my most serious relationships ever had a very anti-climatic ending. It was kind of like. Oh, okay, so it's really not going to work is it? It's really over? It was kind of sad. <strong>lamesabassman</strong>: It's almost always messy. dkzone: Sounds like you made the right decision. Even if the woman said it was okay to use her, she would’ve resented you if you did.

Cynthia: One of my most serious relationships ever had a very anti-climatic ending. It was kind of like. Oh, okay, so it’s really not going to work is it? It’s really over? It was kind of sad.

lamesabassman: It’s almost always messy.

]]> By: lamesabassman...... http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/05/a-beautiful-breakup-song-before-the-hatred/comment-page-1/#comment-102068 lamesabassman...... Sat, 06 Jun 2009 03:46:04 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1888#comment-102068 P.S.  ... ma petit..... what does'nt kill you.... makes you stronger..... you tell us what gets you thru the the nite..... but when the lights go down low..... you still got company.... and that's hellcool 'cause you have been there... and you do know which way is up.... so,since you do give you're all .. they seem to be dropping the ball.... it ain't you... it's  them and their mind set..... at times ... we are all one... some know you and attempt to  bypass your inner self ... which is always on point.... and this you see .... hello... so if they  can't hang.... it's on them .... and it ain't on you.... by just standing still and taking a good look at you.... those boyo's in question would see what's in front of them already.... lamesabassman...... and if they don't..... it's their loss.... don't dwell.... it's usually messy.. P.S.  … ma petit….. what does’nt kill you…. makes you stronger….. you tell us what gets you thru the the nite….. but when the lights go down low….. you still got company….
and that’s hellcool ’cause you have been there… and you do know which way is up….
so,since you do give you’re all .. they seem to be dropping the ball…. it ain’t you… it’s 
them and their mind set….. at times … we are all one… some know you and attempt to 
bypass your inner self … which is always on point…. and this you see …. hello… so if they 
can’t hang…. it’s on them …. and it ain’t on you…. by just standing still and taking a good look at you…. those boyo’s in question would see what’s in front of them already….

lamesabassman…… and if they don’t….. it’s their loss…. don’t dwell…. it’s usually messy..

]]> By: lamesabassman...... http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/05/a-beautiful-breakup-song-before-the-hatred/comment-page-1/#comment-102066 lamesabassman...... Sat, 06 Jun 2009 03:31:47 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1888#comment-102066 who wants to be the first to say goodbye........ Dang.... that's a serious move.... just how deep the thoughts of what was and what will never be .. don't you really go for the moments.. or does that person really curl your toes... or are they filling a want.. not a need nor desire.. a want.... you know going in just how long this gig 's gonna last .... if the perp's a keeper... or a sleeper.... and ... just how deep is the itch..... when the Dawn comes ... may common sense arise with it.... just how you wish to be... and with whom.... 'cause you do know the first thing you see in the morning is ... yourself..... just how do you wish to remember your odd night out..... does lightening strike twice..... or.... will you wonder what was on your mind when you walked down this street.... or did it feel good or did it leave you.... wanting.... lamesabassman...... just a thought.... who wants to be the first to say goodbye…….. Dang…. that’s a serious move…. just how deep the thoughts of what was and what will never be .. don’t you really go for the moments..
or does that person really curl your toes… or are they filling a want.. not a need nor desire..
a want…. you know going in just how long this gig ’s gonna last …. if the perp’s a keeper…
or a sleeper…. and … just how deep is the itch….. when the Dawn comes … may common
sense arise with it…. just how you wish to be… and with whom…. ’cause you do know the first thing you see in the morning is … yourself….. just how do you wish to remember your
odd night out….. does lightening strike twice….. or…. will you wonder what was on your mind
when you walked down this street…. or did it feel good or did it leave you…. wanting….

lamesabassman…… just a thought….

]]> By: Cynthia http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/05/a-beautiful-breakup-song-before-the-hatred/comment-page-1/#comment-102049 Cynthia Sat, 06 Jun 2009 00:50:58 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1888#comment-102049 Sometimes I wish for the bad ending at least you knew why it had to dissipate. I think it's harder the other way...I got emotional watching the video NOT because of the situation but I know I bad those two must have felt while singing the song to each other. I think it hurts worse. Sometimes I wish for the bad ending at least you knew why it had to dissipate. I think it’s harder the other way…I got emotional watching the video NOT because of the situation but I know I bad those two must have felt while singing the song to each other. I think it hurts worse.

]]> By: dkzone http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/05/a-beautiful-breakup-song-before-the-hatred/comment-page-1/#comment-101981 dkzone Fri, 05 Jun 2009 14:17:25 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1888#comment-101981 Breaking up sucks...there's no two ways about it. But I think there's a kind of nobility in breaking up with someone so that they may find the right person. Otherwise, you're just "shoplifting the pootie" I've looked into the eyes of women and basicaly told them " It's time to go, I don't want to be that person that uses you. " On more than one occassion, I got the " It's ok.....use me... Really I don't mind. " And while that may have been true from their standpoint. I minded. Now I'll be real, there may have been some goodbye sex.......booty is a helluva drug. But in the end I think I've made the right decisions. Breaking up sucks…there’s no two ways about it.

But I think there’s a kind of nobility in breaking up with someone so that they may find the right person. Otherwise, you’re just “shoplifting the pootie”

I’ve looked into the eyes of women and basicaly told them ” It’s time to go, I don’t want to be that person that uses you. ” On more than one occassion, I got the ” It’s ok…..use me… Really I don’t mind. ” And while that may have been true from their standpoint. I minded.

Now I’ll be real, there may have been some goodbye sex…….booty is a helluva drug.

But in the end I think I’ve made the right decisions.

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