Comments on: “How Many People Have You Slept With?” http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/09/have-many-people-have-you-slept-with/ Twanna is a sex, dating and relationships writer in New York City. She's funky. She has brown skin. And, she's a chick. FUNKYBROWNCHICK® chronicles her life. Fri, 25 May 2012 13:37:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/09/have-many-people-have-you-slept-with/comment-page-1/#comment-103911 Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com Fri, 19 Jun 2009 11:38:50 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1951#comment-103911 Rachel: To each their own. :) I see nothing wrong with it. Rachel: To each their own. :) I see nothing wrong with it.

]]> By: rachel http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/09/have-many-people-have-you-slept-with/comment-page-1/#comment-103871 rachel Fri, 19 Jun 2009 06:57:03 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1951#comment-103871 Complete side question: what do you think about couples who have threesomes? Complete side question: what do you think about couples who have threesomes?

]]> By: lamesabassman...... http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/09/have-many-people-have-you-slept-with/comment-page-1/#comment-103694 lamesabassman...... Thu, 18 Jun 2009 13:19:57 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1951#comment-103694 me 2..... I just think it rather than say it ..... being from BKLYN,NYC.... to say something the wrong way to the wrong person... well, you either packed some heat or ran a track meet I did my share of standing and running but in doing so re-learned the fine art of talking to defuse any and all situations.... you would be surprised how you could call someone a low life in an elegant way..... and leave their heads spinning for days.... lamesabassman..... but, yeah, asshole is a great word to use in a pinch..... me 2….. I just think it rather than say it ….. being from BKLYN,NYC…. to say something
the wrong way to the wrong person… well, you either packed some heat or ran a track meet
I did my share of standing and running but in doing so re-learned the fine art of talking to defuse any and all situations…. you would be surprised how you could call someone a low life
in an elegant way….. and leave their heads spinning for days….

lamesabassman….. but, yeah, asshole is a great word to use in a pinch…..

]]> By: Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/09/have-many-people-have-you-slept-with/comment-page-1/#comment-103270 Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com Tue, 16 Jun 2009 01:13:17 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1951#comment-103270 <strong><a href="http://doodlius.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Baba Doodlius</a></strong>: I'm a fan of the word "asshole" too!! :) Baba Doodlius: I’m a fan of the word “asshole” too!! :)

]]> By: lamesabassman...... http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/09/have-many-people-have-you-slept-with/comment-page-1/#comment-102551 lamesabassman...... Thu, 11 Jun 2009 01:17:36 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1951#comment-102551 and ... yes .... I do mimosas in the AM.... great way to face the day.... chicken and waffles.. plus mimosas.... lamesabassman..... priceless... and … yes …. I do mimosas in the AM…. great way to face the day…. chicken and waffles..
plus mimosas….

lamesabassman….. priceless…

]]> By: lamesabassman...... http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/09/have-many-people-have-you-slept-with/comment-page-1/#comment-102550 lamesabassman...... Thu, 11 Jun 2009 01:15:25 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1951#comment-102550 let me clarify .... am in the gym early in the AM .... do my workout,then get a massage, some steam,shower then face the day.... either IHOP or Roscoe's for breakfast then on to work.. does'nt everybody do the gym early in NYC.... it just cant be a Cali thang..... didnt mean to creep you out.... I do the Gym 6 days a week.... Sunday .... I rest.... and the name thing..... I dont do that.... dont call anybody anything that I dont wish to be  called... bitch... slut... punk or asshole.....  I will just say "Dude " and chill.... anything else is very bad karma... and Mr. D .... you are right on the money.... if a woman or man was creepin' on their partner... you could say that they were just using their options of choice very badly... and you will be called on it.... lamesabassman.... sorry FBC.... I will expand in the future.... let me clarify …. am in the gym early in the AM …. do my workout,then get a massage, some steam,shower then face the day…. either IHOP or Roscoe’s for breakfast then on to work.. does’nt everybody do the gym early in NYC…. it just cant be a Cali thang….. didnt
mean to creep you out…. I do the Gym 6 days a week…. Sunday …. I rest….

and the name thing….. I dont do that…. dont call anybody anything that I dont wish to be 
called… bitch… slut… punk or asshole…..  I will just say “Dude ” and chill…. anything else
is very bad karma…

and Mr. D …. you are right on the money…. if a woman or man was creepin’ on their
partner… you could say that they were just using their options of choice very badly…
and you will be called on it….

lamesabassman…. sorry FBC…. I will expand in the future….

]]> By: Baba Doodlius http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/09/have-many-people-have-you-slept-with/comment-page-1/#comment-102514 Baba Doodlius Wed, 10 Jun 2009 18:53:50 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1951#comment-102514 thepopculturist:  Were I referring strictly to a man, I would have said ""That's not a slut. That's a dick."  "Asshole" is an equal opportunity epithet. thepopculturist:  Were I referring strictly to a man, I would have said “”That’s not a slut. That’s a dick.”  “Asshole” is an equal opportunity epithet.

]]> By: @thepopculturist http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/09/have-many-people-have-you-slept-with/comment-page-1/#comment-102510 @thepopculturist Wed, 10 Jun 2009 17:26:22 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1951#comment-102510 Baba Doodlius: correct me if I'm wrong, but you're assuming I'm talking about a man. I've rarely heard anyone refer to a female using the word "asshole". That term seems to be reserved only for men. The female equivalent, and again correct if I'm wrong, is usually "bitch" "slut" or "whore" - Which is messed up in itself because I find those words much more degrading than the word asshole yet they're not often used to describe men. Men aren't called whores or sluts - they're called players or dogs or "philanderers". The only words that are truly degrading to men is to be called a "bitch" "punk" or a "fag" which all basically mean that he's not acting like a man which in essence means he's acting like a woman. But I digress..So if a woman was creepin on her boyfriend or husband with all these different men behind his back - what would you call her? A desperate housewife? A horrible person? A typical Hollywood celebrity? My guess is that you and most other people would call her a bitch and/or a slut and/or a whore. Baba Doodlius: correct me if I’m wrong, but you’re assuming I’m talking about a man. I’ve rarely heard anyone refer to a female using the word “asshole”. That term seems to be reserved only for men. The female equivalent, and again correct if I’m wrong, is usually “bitch” “slut” or “whore” – Which is messed up in itself because I find those words much more degrading than the word asshole yet they’re not often used to describe men. Men aren’t called whores or sluts – they’re called players or dogs or “philanderers”. The only words that are truly degrading to men is to be called a “bitch” “punk” or a “fag” which all basically mean that he’s not acting like a man which in essence means he’s acting like a woman.
But I digress..So if a woman was creepin on her boyfriend or husband with all these different men behind his back – what would you call her? A desperate housewife? A horrible person? A typical Hollywood celebrity?

My guess is that you and most other people would call her a bitch and/or a slut and/or a whore.

]]> By: Baba Doodlius http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/09/have-many-people-have-you-slept-with/comment-page-1/#comment-102507 Baba Doodlius Wed, 10 Jun 2009 16:47:31 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1951#comment-102507 thepopculturist:  "You’re married or in a committed relationship with someone and you’re conducting repeated sexual escapades with multiple partners behind their back". That's not a slut.  That's an asshole. thepopculturist:  “You’re married or in a committed relationship with someone and you’re conducting repeated sexual escapades with multiple partners behind their back”.

That’s not a slut.  That’s an asshole.

]]> By: @thepopculturist http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/06/09/have-many-people-have-you-slept-with/comment-page-1/#comment-102504 @thepopculturist Wed, 10 Jun 2009 15:45:38 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=1951#comment-102504 Well I think the term slut is just BS in general, because I don't think there should be any stigma associated with enjoying sex and having multiple partners. But if I were to define a "slut" that's how I would define it however there are some additional caveats that should have accompanied it: 1. You're having sex with multiple people and not using protection. 2. You're married or in a committed relationship with someone and you're conducting repeated sexual escapades with multiple partners behind their back and with no regard to your commitment. This is even worse if there are kids in the picture (Cheating happens but once or twice is one thing but to be a serial cheater is another) 3. You frequently mislead people in thinking that you want something more from them when you are only interested in sex. Now if you have two (or more) people who are prudent and consenting adults who wanna fuck just to fuck or to fulfill some fantasy or fetish and people are open and honest about their expectations and they're using protection and no ones getting hurt in the process, by all means go for it! Well I think the term slut is just BS in general, because I don’t think there should be any stigma associated with enjoying sex and having multiple partners. But if I were to define a “slut” that’s how I would define it however there are some additional caveats that should have accompanied it:

1. You’re having sex with multiple people and not using protection.

2. You’re married or in a committed relationship with someone and you’re conducting repeated sexual escapades with multiple partners behind their back and with no regard to your commitment. This is even worse if there are kids in the picture (Cheating happens but once or twice is one thing but to be a serial cheater is another)

3. You frequently mislead people in thinking that you want something more from them when you are only interested in sex.

Now if you have two (or more) people who are prudent and consenting adults who wanna fuck just to fuck or to fulfill some fantasy or fetish and people are open and honest about their expectations and they’re using protection and no ones getting hurt in the process, by all means go for it!

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