Comments on: The Garbage Collector: Redux (GUEST POST)

By: **LovEMuffinS

**LovEMuffinS — Wed, 05 Aug 2009 01:01:50 +0000

Good blog thread! (do they call them threads or is this only used for MSN done-away-with groupls?) Anyhoo… I’ve done exactly what Mr. Z has stated IN MOST ASPECTS my life, including amore`. I’ve even managed to keep a few of the old boyfriends, good guys, assholes, ex’s, etc as “friends” if nothing more. Of course, there are those I wish to hell, but very few.

I’ve dated quite a bit in my past life (I’m engaged for the 2nd time) and have felt much heartache (and for the LOVE OF MIKE would somebody tell me why love has to hurt?), however, I turned it around and although I made new and improved mistakes, I’ve never made the same ones! I mean experience is supposed to be for us to learn from and I use the old saying, ” Once is twice on you, twice is shame on me’ and GOD only knows it keeps me from going backward.

Overall, love doesn’t haven’t to hurt, finances do (a bit of humor), but not the love part. I now only know this because for the 41 yrs I’ve lived on planet earth (20 yrs invested into relationships *sigh*) and due to experiences, loving and living.. it’s smooth sailing if you’re handed out a good deck of cards to play with! So, I’ve taken the lemons and made sweet lemonade out of all of them!

By: lamesabassman......

lamesabassman...... — Sun, 26 Jul 2009 20:19:47 +0000

that’s…….

lamesabassman…… priceless……….

By: Baba Doodlius

Baba Doodlius — Sat, 25 Jul 2009 22:43:02 +0000

Maybe you can’t dump people, but I took a dump once that looked like an ex-girlfriend.

By: lamesabassman......

lamesabassman...... — Sat, 25 Jul 2009 08:18:11 +0000

forward ever,backwards never……. what’s past is past….. when you intro anyone, it’s …
” this is Adam and Adam this is ….. ” and so on ….. if you wish to publish to the world
your bad choices… then, do you at your own peril ….. for ’tis no one’s biz but yours….
if I am with you…. I am with you ….. and if I am not….. then it is what it is…..

lamesabassman…. Time is way too short for maybes …… go for the gusto…..

By: mydria

mydria — Sat, 25 Jul 2009 06:17:48 +0000

interesting posting. on a similar note, i have a problem using the word “ex.” instead of saying “my ex-husband” i say “my son’s father.” i also call ex-boyfriends “old boyfriends.” i’d be interested in seeing your take on that, Twanna.

By: The Jaded NYer

The Jaded NYer — Fri, 24 Jul 2009 16:35:38 +0000

none of you will ever know how desperately I needed to read this and have it sink into my brain right now, and I thank you for it.

hopefully the beauty to come from my current ugliness will be so spectacular I’ll wonder why I ever doubted it.

Thank you!