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to cuddle, one must be on one accord with one’s self….. for, to embrace space is to put on the line every piece of your heart and soul and pray that the one you are cuddling with is so
very in tune with what you are sharing that there are no walls between you….
lamesabassman….. just the warmth of each other’s heart,will do fine….
I love to cuddle!!
But there are like rules for Naked vs. clothed
1. Naked cuddling is great!! Post coitus is even better. But at some point who gets the wetspot becomes a bone of contention. I say the person who came the hardest gets the wetspot. It’s like a consolation prize for the other person that they get to keep their ass dry.
2. Clothed cuddling is fantastic too. I highly recommend it when watching movies. Flannel Pj’s and a comforter….yes even in summertime….should be required. If it gets too hot….just strip off the pj’s and see rule #1. The downside is the lure of popcorn…we all like popcorn and when watching a movie it seems like the perfect thing right?!…..WRONG!!!!….How “in the mood” will you be if the other person;
 a. spills the popcorn on your rug
 b. puts salty, greasey butter prints on your couch or comforter
 c. Heaven forbid…they hogg the popcorn!!
try something light and creative…like cheese and crackers…..sure you’ll have to deal with crumbs….but everything has its trade-offs
3. Naked cuddling should not be done on bootycalls….. here’s why. Do you really want to feign interest in conversation or feelings that have no place in a ” bootycall” ? of course not. Naked cuddling should only be done with people you have a real connection with. Except, in the case, where someone is trying to parlay the one nightstand/bootycall into something more. Then the use of playful funny banter ” post coitus” may be used. Otherwise….hit the bricks, before the awkward silence hits, and everyone will be happy.
4. Clothed cuddling….I suggest Uncomplicated cotten clothing….sweats are fantastic for this… comfortable, non intimadating, easily removed……ever cuddle with someone in a corset or guirdle?!……You have to be a safecracker…..
just a few thoughts
Get the rotten tomatoes ready to toss at me because I’m one of the VERY RARE folks who just isn’t into cuddling. I like my space. I THRIVE ON SPACE! Yet, I’ll share the same quilt w/you provided it’s big enough to reach your “side” and hell! You can have the popcorn all to yourself, but to be glued to eachother like Siamese twins, having to adjust my heartbeat to match yours and trying to catch your count w/out losing breath is just too much and OVERRATED (in my humble opinion) NOW DON’T GET ME WRONG! I’m pretty damn hammy, if I might say so myself, when it comes to great displays of affection and during the flick will reach over, kiss you, whisper I love you babe in your ear AND IF YOU’VE BEEN REALLY SWELL THIS DAY, I’ll massage your back w/my feet (HE SO DIGS THIS SHIT!). BUT FOR THE LOVE OF GAWWWD PLEASE DON’T EXPECT ME TO CUDDLE W/YOU!
You may now commence the tomato tossing.
yo…dkzone… do Jello shots make da’ cut…….
lamesabassman…… or …honey….
say…LovEMuffinS………” please…. baby …baby… please.. baby .. baby… please….”
lamesabassman……. killer piece of mind…. ya know ya dont reallllllly roll that way.. but it’s cool like that….. yeah… you + cuddle= priceless…..
jello shots?….
of course…but i would recommend only durring naked cuddling
;)
@Lame… you got it!! And a few hundred babies and he still don’t get it… I think start the physicals. Like nudging him ACCIDENTALLY in the eye, or ACCIDENTALLY elbowing him in the boy marbles… ya’ know? All in lieu of cutting out the cudding shit! LMAO!
“The Hound’s afoot…….”
lamesabassman……… ” make him an offer he cannot refuse…..”
Dang….. Does dkzone short for  ” deep int da’ kill zone…..
lamesabassman….” for the future of MANKIND… floats on the balance of your answer….”
actually it started out on aol ( do people still even use aol?) as I tried to find a username with my initials and i had to keep adding stuff until I found something that was unused. LOL
although, I will say ” I know what I like”….and women seem to like it too. ;)
smooth……
lamesabassman….. and hellacool…..
lamesabassman: Interesting.
dkzone: Man, who DOESN’T love to cuddle?!?! :)
**LovEMuffinS: Not sure why your comments come through in bold :( And, yes, tomato tossing indeed!! :) Did you live in a warm climate? When I lived down south, I didn’t like cuddling as much because it always felt hot, sweaty and sticky. Cuddling under blankets in cold weather is more fun.
As a woman, I usually like to cuddle, whether it is just watching tv or relaxing together or the post coital one. But after awhile, I’m going to need to go to sleep and I want my space!