Comments on: This Is Why We Have Sex …

By: Constance M.

Constance M. — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 09:57:03 +0000

I LOVE having sex. Completely. I am a 22 year old female with what I think to be a healthy sex drive, and I give it a good workout whenever I can. And I also have no problem being selfless; when it’s “that time of the month” you can believe my man does not go without. Mm, blowjobs… but that’s a different post entirely. =D

By: Jimmy

Jimmy — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 12:34:59 +0000

Just discovered this blog. It’s brilliant. Love the honesty. From one dating/love life blogger to another, respect.

By: Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com

Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 15:58:38 +0000

DKZONE: Thanks for the comment :) To quote Sir George Michael (not knighted yet, but I’m sure it’s coming): “Sex is natural, sex is fun.” :) Here’s raising my glass & wishing all Funky Brown Chick reader many days, afternoons and nights of pleasure.

By: dkzone

dkzone — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 18:44:54 +0000

I’m married and I think my wife and I feel an obligation to each other to have sex. bottom line is …..we’re happier people when well fucked.

Sometimes we just have sex because it makes for a good nights sleep.

By: Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com

Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 16:03:07 +0000

bwill: Good point; it's best when it's beneficial for both parties. mydria: Although I don't necessarily agree that most singles need to sexually keep up with with the rest of their peers, I think you're right about singles feeling obligations. One of the week said, "he bought dinner" or something like that. A: You and Horton make great points; it's possible to be put you in the mood -- even if you weren't originally aroused. Smokie: Thanks for the clarification :) justaguy: Thanks for your honesty!! J: Hopefully that's what she meant. Though, she didn't say it -- nor did her dude :(

By: J

Mon, 05 Oct 2009 14:51:37 +0000

A 26-year-old heterosexual woman wrote, “When I was single, I had sex for my own personal pleasure. Now that I am married, I have sex to please my husband. My own pleasure doesn’t seem as important as his. I believe he feels the same way.

I, personally, interpreted this in a very positive way: “I think his pleasure is more important than mine — and he thinks mine is more important than his.” Which is actually kind of awesome in a lot of ways…

By: justaguy

justaguy — Sun, 04 Oct 2009 03:50:44 +0000

Sex when you want? I can’t remember the last time i was able to do that. I’ll be forty in a couple of months and can honestly say that there isn’t a woman on the planet that has thought that way about me in years. More than five years, at least. I’ve resigned myself to think that I’ll probably never get the opportunity to be with a woman again for the rest of my life.

Don’t take it for granted…

By: Smokie

Smokie — Sat, 03 Oct 2009 17:35:11 +0000

Clarification: I’m just lazy about it in the PLANNING stage, not during the do! LOL

By: Smokie

Smokie — Sat, 03 Oct 2009 17:34:15 +0000

I’m married. 37. YES YES YES you feel a greater sense of obligation to have sex when you’re married than when you’re single. I had sex, for the most part, ONLY when I wanted to when I was single. If I wanted to go a year without, a month without, however long without I could and did! I felt no sense of guilt.
I love making love with my husband but I’d be happy with once a week, hell, sometimes once every two weeks! But, he’s so sweet and good to me… I know he needs it more, so I feel like I have to give it to him. And, actually, once we start I’m into it just as much as he is. I am just lazy about it.

By: A

Sat, 03 Oct 2009 09:33:27 +0000

I wouldn’t have sex if I wasn’t in the mood. However, it’s quite rare that I can’t be put in the mood. I’d expect the same from a partner.