Comments on: Is Sexual Tension Better Than Sex? http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/10/02/is-sexual-tension-better-than-sex/ Twanna is a sex, dating and relationships writer in New York City. She's funky. She has brown skin. And, she's a chick. FUNKYBROWNCHICK® chronicles her life. Fri, 25 May 2012 13:37:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: husband of flirting wife http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/10/02/is-sexual-tension-better-than-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-275242 husband of flirting wife Fri, 07 Jan 2011 01:56:37 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=2495#comment-275242 Hey!  Wait a minute!  What does the wife of office flirt and the husband of office flirtee think about this TOTALLY hot interoffice tension??   Cerebrus' mental screwing of his co-worker might make his wife feel a bit cheated or at least unappreciated...  Shouldn't he be stirring up tension with the old lady? Hey!  Wait a minute!  What does the wife of office flirt and the husband of office flirtee think about this TOTALLY hot interoffice tension??   Cerebrus’ mental screwing of his co-worker might make his wife feel a bit cheated or at least unappreciated…  Shouldn’t he be stirring up tension with the old lady?

]]> By: cerebus http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/10/02/is-sexual-tension-better-than-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-132293 cerebus Tue, 29 Dec 2009 18:25:32 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=2495#comment-132293 Sexual tension can not only be a great prelude to sex, but can be pretty intense when sex is not an option. I am married male and exchanged subtle flirts with a married female coworker for an extended period. While there was no way we could ever hook up, the teasing and flirting got us both aroused. It was unforced and could sometimes be a week or two between interludes. It was such a turn on to me to know i could get her so wet and horny. Sexual tension can not only be a great prelude to sex, but can be pretty intense when sex is not an option. I am married male and exchanged subtle flirts with a married female coworker for an extended period. While there was no way we could ever hook up, the teasing and flirting got us both aroused. It was unforced and could sometimes be a week or two between interludes.
It was such a turn on to me to know i could get her so wet and horny.

]]> By: Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/10/02/is-sexual-tension-better-than-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-122431 Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com Thu, 15 Oct 2009 11:47:10 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=2495#comment-122431 <strong>lamesabassman</strong> and <strong>dkzone</strong>: Teeth?<strong> Jazzie</strong>: Sexual tension can be intense. lamesabassman and dkzone: Teeth?

Jazzie: Sexual tension can be intense.

]]> By: Jazzie http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/10/02/is-sexual-tension-better-than-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-121998 Jazzie Sun, 11 Oct 2009 01:56:28 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=2495#comment-121998 This is a great question. This is a great Web Site, too! I just started following you not too long ago. Anywho, is sexual tension better than sex?” I wish I knew the answer! I am in the middle of something at work, I believe it is mutual but not 100% sure, but it sure feels like it is. It has been going on for over a year. She is like my full time fantasy and I guess I like it like that. She is also unavailable so it really doesn't matter what I think. When we are in a room alone together there is no place I would rather be but the tension is a bit much at times - too much actually. There are times when I would just rather avoid her (and I do) so I don't have to deal with it. This is a great question. This is a great Web Site, too! I just started following you not too long ago. Anywho, is sexual tension better than sex?” I wish I knew the answer!

I am in the middle of something at work, I believe it is mutual but not 100% sure, but it sure feels like it is. It has been going on for over a year. She is like my full time fantasy and I guess I like it like that. She is also unavailable so it really doesn’t matter what I think.

When we are in a room alone together there is no place I would rather be but the tension is a bit much at times – too much actually. There are times when I would just rather avoid her (and I do) so I don’t have to deal with it.

]]> By: lamesabassman...... http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/10/02/is-sexual-tension-better-than-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-121695 lamesabassman...... Thu, 08 Oct 2009 20:45:25 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=2495#comment-121695 good one, dkzone...... teeth are no fun..... but on a real tip.... once dated a lady that was able to remove her teeth before she went bobbing.... yeah, that went thru my mind 2, G but..... about after 5 sec. .... lamesabassman.....  I could'nt remember a thing....  square biz.... it was hellacool.... good one, dkzone…… teeth are no fun….. but on a real tip…. once dated a lady that was able to remove her teeth before she went bobbing…. yeah, that went thru my mind 2, G
but….. about after 5 sec. ….

lamesabassman…..  I could’nt remember a thing….  square biz…. it was hellacool….

]]> By: dkzone http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/10/02/is-sexual-tension-better-than-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-121682 dkzone Thu, 08 Oct 2009 17:15:42 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=2495#comment-121682 It can be. Like there's nothing worse than flirting with a chick and then you kiss her and its the " whackness....ooozing whackosity all over your face......" Or you find out her aproach to giving head is " TEETH.....lots of TEETH" or her list of "don'ts" leaves you with only having sex in one whackass way, that doesn't get you off at all...... It can be. Like there’s nothing worse than flirting with a chick and then you kiss her and its the ” whackness….ooozing whackosity all over your face……” Or you find out her aproach to giving head is ” TEETH…..lots of TEETH” or her list of “don’ts” leaves you with only having sex in one whackass way, that doesn’t get you off at all……

]]> By: Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/10/02/is-sexual-tension-better-than-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-121404 Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com Mon, 05 Oct 2009 15:53:13 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=2495#comment-121404 <strong>Horton</strong>:  Hmmm, I guess that's debatable. Sexual tension could include foreplay or not depending on your perspective. <strong> bwill</strong>: Ooh, another vote for sexual tension. :)<strong> mydria</strong>: I've TOTALLY felt unrequited tension with dudes.<strong> 3b</strong>: That's a VERY good analogy about window shopping. You're hinting at "sexual tension vs. teasing."<strong> lamesabassman</strong>: :) Horton:  Hmmm, I guess that’s debatable. Sexual tension could include foreplay or not depending on your perspective.

bwill: Ooh, another vote for sexual tension. :)

mydria: I’ve TOTALLY felt unrequited tension with dudes.

3b: That’s a VERY good analogy about window shopping. You’re hinting at “sexual tension vs. teasing.”

lamesabassman: :)

]]> By: lamesabassman...... http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/10/02/is-sexual-tension-better-than-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-121352 lamesabassman...... Sun, 04 Oct 2009 19:02:24 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=2495#comment-121352 yes..... for it makes the end game more fun..... lamesabassman..... if you believe in the hereafter... then, you know what I'm here.. after... yes….. for it makes the end game more fun…..

lamesabassman….. if you believe in the hereafter… then, you know what I’m here.. after…

]]> By: 3bchick http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/10/02/is-sexual-tension-better-than-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-121288 3bchick Sat, 03 Oct 2009 17:03:45 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=2495#comment-121288 I HATE sexual tension.  Really, it just drives me insane.  Makes it hard to think.  Then again, I'm not a window shopper.  If I can't have it, I don't want to look at it.   I mean, don't get me wrong, I like a little build up - but I have to be certain I'm going to get it - and soon.  I hate dragging things out. Also, I think sexual tension can make average sex REALLY bad.  You know, the tension is building for so long that you expect the sex to be mind-blowing and when it turns out to just be average, it's such a HUGE disappointment that it makes it seem like the sex is awful.  Without the tension it would have been so much better. I've been in situations where I've told men that dragging it out like that bodes badly for them because they'll never be able to live up to the anticipation they're creating - and they almost never do. I HATE sexual tension.  Really, it just drives me insane.  Makes it hard to think.  Then again, I’m not a window shopper.  If I can’t have it, I don’t want to look at it.   I mean, don’t get me wrong, I like a little build up – but I have to be certain I’m going to get it – and soon.  I hate dragging things out.

Also, I think sexual tension can make average sex REALLY bad.  You know, the tension is building for so long that you expect the sex to be mind-blowing and when it turns out to just be average, it’s such a HUGE disappointment that it makes it seem like the sex is awful.  Without the tension it would have been so much better.

I’ve been in situations where I’ve told men that dragging it out like that bodes badly for them because they’ll never be able to live up to the anticipation they’re creating – and they almost never do.

]]> By: mydria http://funkybrownchick.com/2009/10/02/is-sexual-tension-better-than-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-121257 mydria Sat, 03 Oct 2009 04:43:05 +0000 http://funkybrownchick.com/?p=2495#comment-121257 this may be a dumb question, but does sexual tension have to be mutual, as in both parties are attracted to each other? or can, for example, a woman be attracted to a man who is only sees her as a friend...creating a tense situation for the woman? this may be a dumb question, but does sexual tension have to be mutual, as in both parties are attracted to each other? or can, for example, a woman be attracted to a man who is only sees her as a friend…creating a tense situation for the woman?

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