lamesabassman…. and going all the way never entered my mind…. is it April yet… smile..

Nelle: Everyone says that’s true.

Skye Blue: You never know how life’s going to turn out :)

bwillz: Yeah, I hear that from a lot of people. But, honestly, right now I’m not even sure if I’m in the right “place” for a relationship. I expect a lot of changes in 2010. Lot’s of new things coming up. By the way, glad to hear you’d like to be on the list :) I’ll take that as a compliment.

Alex: You’re certainly not alone. I know several people in the same boat.

Horton: It’s not mine, but I LOVE that bed.

dkzone:  I do that often, and I soooooo get turned on by men sitting alone at cafes, bookstores and restaurants quietly reading. I probably read more into it that what’s actually there, but those guys always seem so confident and at peace with themselves.

Teresa: I’m getting it! :)

indigodiamond: I think sex is natural, and there’s no such thing as a “normal” amount of it. Everyone’s individual sex drives are different. I don’t think the desire to have sex is a “crazed obsession” or “psychological disorder.” I mean, yeah, sure, if you’re having it so much that it impedes with your ability to have a healthy, functioning life — i.e. not ever sleeping, eating, seeing friends or going to work — that’s probably a problem. But, if you’re just having sex … just, you know, sex like human beings are programmed to do … I don’t see how that’s not a good thing. :)

Turns out I actually pulled off ” The man of mystery”. I wasn’t some guy at the bar swilling beer in a football jersey hittin on the chicks. I was a guy who was comfortable in himself enough to eat his meal in peace by himself, savoring a drink on the rocks.

It also freed me to go to the movies ” by myself”. Now I must preface this with, I really like to go to the movies and see alot of movies ” on the big screen” that most people would gladly wait for on dvd. But going to the movies on a week day by yourself for a matinee is a wonderful thing. the only thing directing you is your own whim of what you, in fact, find entertaining. There’s no whinning from somebody else that they don’t feel like going to see “that”.

the reality of it is that there is enough of ” me” to fill the empty void that other people call a ” significant other” It stopped being a need at that point and became a luxury that I could totally decide to spend my time on or not.