Comments on: How Do You Know If You’re ‘Good in Bed’?

By: Sam

Sam — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 18:15:56 +0000

He should:
1. Hold me so tight. Make me feel his manhood.
2. Moan… gently, like he’s enjoying it.
3. Suck on my breasts/ nipples like a starving person.
4. Squeeze my bum so hard.. until it hurts.. not to the point where it bruises though.
5. Be so into it, wouldn’t even remember all the tiny details the next day.
6. Kiss passionately while his dick is inside: still holding on my boob and ass when I’m on top.
7. Have the ability to repeat. Not give in to sex right away after the 1st sex session.
8. Moan when being given a head.
9. Sniff and kiss my neck… leave love-bite marks on.
Hmmmmm…. Men like that are not easy to find. Unfortunately, I only got to experience this ONCE on a one-night stand!

By: roxy

roxy — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 18:49:22 +0000

I think being a good lover really depends on what satisfies you, what you are looking for. For some women, maybe just a big hard dick will satisfy, for some a certain body type, for some sweet and soft love making, for some rough love making….. I guess the list could go on and on …………
For me, I have to feel that person and know that he feels me too. I would have to be attracted to him. I absolutely love a great kisser, cause I have my phd in kissing (smile). Next love making…… he should have an imagination of making me feel good… know where to touch, how to touch it, how long to touch it, when to give and when to hold (making me want more). He should be able to use his lips like magic, he should know how to whisper those sweet stuff in my ears that makes me flow like a river. And when we join…….. ihis manhood should be adequate (not too small- sorry guys with small ones), and he should know how and when to work it. After he has brought me to the point of ecstasy, I should feel like I had an outer body experience, like I levitated, like my body just raised off the bed, even I am still on it (smile).
And just as I am happy about receiving good sweet mind blowing loving, I am just as happy to give it.

By: dkzone

dkzone — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 18:59:15 +0000

How do you know you’re good in bed?…..

they ask for seconds
;)

By: Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com

Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 14:55:09 +0000

dkzone: :)

Puma73: I’m with you re: nerds!

By: Puma73

Puma73 — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 19:37:37 +0000

To Twanna: I agree about nerds. It’s always the guy you underestimate that can surprise you the most. I just think that being willing to do things that most people won’t and not having that many limitations makes a good lover. There is nothing worse than being with someone who has this 10 page list of what they won’t do. I like to be open to doing it all. Being with someone that shares this view makes it even better.

By: dkzone

dkzone — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 15:17:25 +0000

It’s ok….you can overshare all over me anytime you want.

;)

By: Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com

Twanna A. Hines | FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com — Sat, 28 Nov 2009 22:52:58 +0000

Baba Doodlius: Nerds are EXCELLENT in the sack! Mikowrites: Definitely an interesting take: "you got it or you don’t." And, in some ways, I totally agree with you --> Yes people can improve (or have an "off" night). That said, there is a basic level of skill that's either there or not. indigodiamond: You said "not the type I typically go for physically." I used to write guys off by saying, "He's not my type" until one friend told me "Yeah, but look how good your 'type' has worked out for you so far!" Horton: Congrats on your anniversary! :) Ryan: Yes, in many ways, education is GOOD :) Royster: It's hard to tell. Two thoughts: (1) In sexual desire, sometimes, nothing is a good as the thing you want but can't have. (2) It's often hard to return to a "place." We meet people at specific times and place. Time passes. Things change. I used to date (and after we broke that off, hook up) with a guy friend who was a really good lover. Hooking up again years later wasn't any good. We were in different places emotionally and the whole thing felt flat and contrived. I used to be TOTALLY under his spell. Now, I see him (and what we had) for what it was. Anyway. Long response to basically say: Who knows what it would be like if you went down that road again. Could be even better because of the forbidden fruit factor. Could be worse because of the guilt. In any case, it's at least a little bit likely to be "different" than you both remember. AnthonyB: Okay, so what's you're saying is this: You're a tease! ;) Skye Blue: Yep. And, self confidence weighs in very heavily as well. Buddha: When does the next flight leave? ;) By the way, you said: "The neighbors will hate you … what with you screaming and all." Um, yeah ... Funny you mention this because, already, I soooo can't look my neighbors in the eye. They can tell you EXACTLY how many times I've had sex this year. lamesabassman: Happy Thanksgiving to you, too!!! :) TeacherMan: Good you mentioned foreplay. You should weigh in on: Is Sexual Tension Better Than Sex?. dkzone: I almost had an overshare moment, but I stopped myself. bwill: You said, "aint nothing like fucking somebody that you're sexually in tune with, it makes explosive sex, makes u climax hard and heavy, whew!!!" YES, YES, YES!!!! :)

By: bwill

bwill — Sat, 28 Nov 2009 06:32:47 +0000

Wow, great post…i agree whole heartedly with quality over quanity baby, cause aint nothing like fucking somebody that your sexually in tune with, it makes explosive sex, makes u climax hard and heavy, whew!!!

As far as your brown body aching for all those things, i like to thing i can cure that for given the opportunity!!!

By: dkzone

dkzone — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 16:40:50 +0000

well lets see….

I like to kiss…so full lips are a must.

also must be confident enough to walk across the room completely naked

By: Baba Doodlius

Baba Doodlius — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 16:18:34 +0000

lamesabassman: Once again I survived the bird-munch. People usually say they don’t want me because of my skinny legs, but I think it’s because I show them my loaded AK-47 as soon as they start towards me with the axe.