Comments on: I Keep Men At a Distance So They Can’t Danger My Heart

By: The Hooker Chronicles

The Hooker Chronicles — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 03:20:43 +0000

Having a defense mechanism isn’t necessarily a bad thing. besides, you’re a friendly and likeable woman so the right man in the universe will eventually find you.

By: Robin

Robin — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 23:51:46 +0000

Your friend is brilliant. I really do believe that we seek out what we don’t have or feel we can’t give to ourselves (thus, opposites attract). Sometimes it’s a great thing; if we’re ready for it. Other times, it’s just us avoiding something we need to work on.
Great piece.

By: Buddha

Buddha — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 20:51:27 +0000

One question… just exactly what kind of panties are we talking about? :)

Hello, my dear…

By: puma73

puma73 — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 03:12:26 +0000

There is nothing like having a friend who will tell you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear. When Mr. Right comes along, you will feel it in the pit of your stomach. I’ve only been in love twice in my life, so I know there is such a thing as finding “The One.” But there can be more than one soul mate in a lifetime and I’m experiencing that right now.

By: Baba Doodlius

Baba Doodlius — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 18:56:04 +0000

Anybody else here have the sudden urge to check this cool dating Chat Line? No?

By: Pink_Thursday

Pink_Thursday — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 17:48:18 +0000

Two thoughts.
1) You don’t give yourself and your heart enough credit. You’ve survived a lot of heartaches in your short time on this earth and have lived to tell the tale. So perhaps your heart doesn’t need you to protect it. It’s strong enough and it will survive. So, love with reckless abandonment knowing that you have friends who love you and will help you pick up the pieces if the need arise.

2) Your friend is totally on the right track, I think. You are looking for those guys to provide you something that you are missing yourself (both the crazy and the stable ones). What if you cultivate those things in yourself and find a dude who YOU WANT TO GIVE/SHARE those qualities with. When you find the guy, give with reckless abandonment w/out expecting anything in return.

By: Rochelle

Rochelle — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 15:03:17 +0000

Good post, but why do you have to ever settle down? If you’re living life on your own terms, continue to “do you,” and date the men who interest you most.

By: Lisa

Lisa — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 06:50:48 +0000

I suggest you do not punish yourself with others fault. Be brave, there will be more happiness in your love life than sadness. Those positive people even keep seeking their loved one at niche dating community like PozRomance dot com. You should not give up love.

By: Panty Buns

Panty Buns — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 23:39:41 +0000

You and all the emotions, feelings and questions you have all seem seem very normal to me. Thank you for the intimate glimpses into your life and mind. Please forgive me for having to try so hard to get past the delicious image of you in your T-shirt and panties at 2 AM. As an aside, I loved that short unscripted one take video of you on YouTube about your having kissed a boy. It was sweet and adorable.

By: alicia

alicia — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 21:35:05 +0000

She is a real true friend. You are blessed to call her one.And she is right when you are ready to settle down you will date accordingly.