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	<description>Twanna is a sex, dating and relationships writer in New York City. She&#039;s funky. She has brown skin. And, she&#039;s a chick. FUNKYBROWNCHICK® chronicles her life.</description>
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		<title>By: Twanna A. Hines &#124; FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com</title>
		<link>http://funkybrownchick.com/2010/03/01/open-letter-to-the-person-who-called-me-a-skank/comment-page-1/#comment-221202</link>
		<dc:creator>Twanna A. Hines &#124; FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jun 2010 12:59:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Barabara! Yep, I&#039;m on Twitter: &lt;a href=&quot;http://twitter.com/funkybrownchick&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://twitter.com/funkybrownchick&lt;/a&gt;.  Videos &quot;to keep the visitors more interested&quot; :) I&#039;d like to think my visitors are already interested; hence, they&#039;re here ;) That said, I&#039;ve posted a few videos on the site here &amp; you can also find me on YouTube: &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/funkybrownchick&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://youtube.com/funkybrownchick&lt;/a&gt;. I don&#039;t do as many videos as I&#039;d like, but that&#039;s mostly because of bandwidth (working, writing freelance articles, pitching the book, maintaining time for friends &amp; family, etc.) As time permits, expect additional videos. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Barabara! Yep, I&#8217;m on Twitter: <a href="http://twitter.com/funkybrownchick" rel="nofollow">http://twitter.com/funkybrownchick</a>.  Videos &#8220;to keep the visitors more interested&#8221; :) I&#8217;d like to think my visitors are already interested; hence, they&#8217;re here ;) That said, I&#8217;ve posted a few videos on the site here &amp; you can also find me on YouTube: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/funkybrownchick" rel="nofollow">http://youtube.com/funkybrownchick</a>. I don&#8217;t do as many videos as I&#8217;d like, but that&#8217;s mostly because of bandwidth (working, writing freelance articles, pitching the book, maintaining time for friends &amp; family, etc.) As time permits, expect additional videos. :)</p>
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		<title>By: Barabara Chaffer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barabara Chaffer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jun 2010 04:17:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi,Great article dude! i am Tired of using RSS feeds and do you use twitter?so i can follow you there:D. 
PS:Have you thought to be putting video to your blog to keep the visitors more interested?I think it works.Yours, Barabara Chaffer</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi,Great article dude! i am Tired of using RSS feeds and do you use twitter?so i can follow you there:D.<br />
PS:Have you thought to be putting video to your blog to keep the visitors more interested?I think it works.Yours, Barabara Chaffer</p>
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		<title>By: Robin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Apr 2010 20:58:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Look, I&#039;ve knowingly slept with a married man and the only that makes me is deeply sorry and- during the affair - terribly deluded.  But it takes two to Tango.  And though a responsible party in the affair, I was breaking &lt;strong&gt;NO&lt;/strong&gt; marriage vows.  But somehow, to his wife, he was the husband deeply in love with only her &quot;lead astray by the wiles of a loose, slutty, skanky woman&quot;.  Uhhhh, you console yourself with that , sweetie, when he does it again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Look, I&#8217;ve knowingly slept with a married man and the only that makes me is deeply sorry and- during the affair &#8211; terribly deluded.  But it takes two to Tango.  And though a responsible party in the affair, I was breaking <strong>NO</strong> marriage vows.  But somehow, to his wife, he was the husband deeply in love with only her &#8220;lead astray by the wiles of a loose, slutty, skanky woman&#8221;.  Uhhhh, you console yourself with that , sweetie, when he does it again.</p>
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		<title>By: Mr. Q.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mr. Q.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 04:26:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice cross stitch, but I would probably think about going with a satin stitch for the lettering and question mark (or perhaps even leaving the question mark out completely).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice cross stitch, but I would probably think about going with a satin stitch for the lettering and question mark (or perhaps even leaving the question mark out completely).</p>
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		<title>By: ladytee</title>
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		<dc:creator>ladytee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 07:16:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OMG!!! I am soooo glad 2 have stumbled onto this site!!! I am LOVING it!!! Your just so witty &amp; fun!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OMG!!! I am soooo glad 2 have stumbled onto this site!!! I am LOVING it!!! Your just so witty &amp; fun!</p>
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		<title>By: Mr. Q</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mr. Q</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 20:38:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Enough about my problems.  The skull is not a major as I can cover it (and much of the surgical scarring) with a bandanna.  This is a site for responding to Twanna&#039;s postings, not for eliciting sympathy for me.  We all must play the hands that are dealt us, so no more about me, OK?  No more frowny faces, please (unless they are attached to very naked, very attractive women, anyway).  I am sorry that I made the original posting now.  I had intended it as a warning about how dangerous our society has become (due in large part to the proliferation of all the liars and con artists).

I shall probably not be posting here much more for a while as I must go back into hospital soon (hopefully for the last time).   My thanks to you all for your support and sympathy.  Just try to remember that people who are physically mangled are NOT necessarily bad.

Enough of Twanna&#039;s space has been wasted on this nonsense.  I am truly sorry, Twanna, but it does not look like I shall be able to keep our date in New York.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Enough about my problems.  The skull is not a major as I can cover it (and much of the surgical scarring) with a bandanna.  This is a site for responding to Twanna&#8217;s postings, not for eliciting sympathy for me.  We all must play the hands that are dealt us, so no more about me, OK?  No more frowny faces, please (unless they are attached to very naked, very attractive women, anyway).  I am sorry that I made the original posting now.  I had intended it as a warning about how dangerous our society has become (due in large part to the proliferation of all the liars and con artists).</p>
<p>I shall probably not be posting here much more for a while as I must go back into hospital soon (hopefully for the last time).   My thanks to you all for your support and sympathy.  Just try to remember that people who are physically mangled are NOT necessarily bad.</p>
<p>Enough of Twanna&#8217;s space has been wasted on this nonsense.  I am truly sorry, Twanna, but it does not look like I shall be able to keep our date in New York.</p>
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		<title>By: Twanna A. Hines &#124; FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Twanna A. Hines &#124; FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 17:08:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Mr. Q: &lt;/strong&gt;Sorry to hear about the skull. :(

&lt;strong&gt;Lauren V.: &lt;/strong&gt;Thank you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Mr. Q: </strong>Sorry to hear about the skull. :(</p>
<p><strong>Lauren V.: </strong>Thank you!</p>
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		<title>By: Lauren V.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lauren V.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 14:36:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And I love you! get em&#039;!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And I love you! get em&#8217;!</p>
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		<title>By: Mr. Q</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mr. Q</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 09:13:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yep, serious about the eye (along with a dent in the side of my skull big enough to put your fist into.  So what?  It doesn&#039;t make a bad guy or anything like that, just one who is not as pretty as everyone else would like for me to be.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yep, serious about the eye (along with a dent in the side of my skull big enough to put your fist into.  So what?  It doesn&#8217;t make a bad guy or anything like that, just one who is not as pretty as everyone else would like for me to be.</p>
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		<title>By: Twanna A. Hines &#124; FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Twanna A. Hines &#124; FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Miss Pam&lt;/strong&gt;: I wondered if that was the motivation: It&#039;s a woman whose husbandn cheated on her.&lt;strong&gt;

The Original Bro&lt;/strong&gt;: Ooh, I like it even better abbreviated G.I.F.T. &quot;Hey, babe, take a walk on the skanky side ...&quot;

&lt;strong&gt;puma73&lt;/strong&gt;: Thanks you!

&lt;strong&gt;A&lt;/strong&gt;: Interestingly, I too thought it was a woman. Then, when I wrote the post, I realized he/she never specified gender. My original post title was going to be: &quot;Open Letter to The the Woman ...&quot; but I changed it to &quot;Open Letter to The Person ...&quot; and kept it gender-neutral throughout. Good catch on the skank / sinner double standard, by the way! I missed that the first time I read his/her comment.&lt;strong&gt;

Mr. Q&lt;/strong&gt;: Are you serious about being shot in the eye? And, yeah, I typically soooo don&#039;t care about grammatical errors because I&#039;m one big walking typo. BUT, when someone leaves a shitty, antagonistic comment on my site, you can bet your ass I&#039;ll point out stuff like that :)&lt;strong&gt;

&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.rochellespencer.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Rochelle&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;: Yeah, I giggled at the &quot;reap what you &lt;strong&gt;sew&lt;/strong&gt;&quot; thing.&lt;strong&gt;

&lt;a href=&quot;http://lalibertine.blogspot.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Aspasia&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;: You said, &quot;most of the time, it is a woman who calls another woman a skank or slut or whore, especially when the subject is about marriage and cheating.&quot; So true. Woman are much worse to each other than men are to women. And, yeah, I agree with you and A: misogyny can come from either gender.

&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://xoxotara.wordpress.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Tara Melissa&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;: Good point. Though, they&#039;re always funny to read and write about.
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;strong&gt;
dkzone&lt;/strong&gt;: Couldn&#039;t agree with you more! :)

&lt;strong&gt;Mr. Q&lt;/strong&gt;: So, you&#039;re not joking about the eye? Actually, my friend Anna-Scarlet says that all the time: She won&#039;t mess with anyone&#039;s man because you don&#039;t know how crazy the other woman will be! Would love to get together in New York; that said, to be fair, as it is, I feel like I barely have time to see my friends and people I know -- let alone people I don&#039;t yet.&lt;strong&gt;

Jon&lt;/strong&gt;: Ooooh, how I sooo agree with your statement: &quot;Whatever happened to the idea that what occurs between consenting adults in the privacy of their own home(s) is their business and no one else’s.&quot;
&lt;strong&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.thewritingbuddha.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Buddha&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;: Unfortunately, that&#039;s soooo true!

&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://thehookerchronicles.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Hooker Chronicles&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;: I&#039;m gonna &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YHTk4RTp04g&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;keep on trucking&lt;/a&gt;!! :) 

&lt;strong&gt;letinstar&lt;/strong&gt;: :)

&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.kalisia.net/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Kali&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;: Wait, wait. Let me get a drink. I&#039;ll drink with you :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Miss Pam</strong>: I wondered if that was the motivation: It&#8217;s a woman whose husbandn cheated on her.<strong></p>
<p>The Original Bro</strong>: Ooh, I like it even better abbreviated G.I.F.T. &#8220;Hey, babe, take a walk on the skanky side &#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>puma73</strong>: Thanks you!</p>
<p><strong>A</strong>: Interestingly, I too thought it was a woman. Then, when I wrote the post, I realized he/she never specified gender. My original post title was going to be: &#8220;Open Letter to The the Woman &#8230;&#8221; but I changed it to &#8220;Open Letter to The Person &#8230;&#8221; and kept it gender-neutral throughout. Good catch on the skank / sinner double standard, by the way! I missed that the first time I read his/her comment.<strong></p>
<p>Mr. Q</strong>: Are you serious about being shot in the eye? And, yeah, I typically soooo don&#8217;t care about grammatical errors because I&#8217;m one big walking typo. BUT, when someone leaves a shitty, antagonistic comment on my site, you can bet your ass I&#8217;ll point out stuff like that :)<strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.rochellespencer.com/" rel="nofollow">Rochelle</a></strong>: Yeah, I giggled at the &#8220;reap what you <strong>sew</strong>&#8221; thing.<strong></p>
<p><a href="http://lalibertine.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Aspasia</a></strong>: You said, &#8220;most of the time, it is a woman who calls another woman a skank or slut or whore, especially when the subject is about marriage and cheating.&#8221; So true. Woman are much worse to each other than men are to women. And, yeah, I agree with you and A: misogyny can come from either gender.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://xoxotara.wordpress.com/" rel="nofollow">Tara Melissa</a></strong>: Good point. Though, they&#8217;re always funny to read and write about.<br />
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dkzone</strong>: Couldn&#8217;t agree with you more! :)</p>
<p><strong>Mr. Q</strong>: So, you&#8217;re not joking about the eye? Actually, my friend Anna-Scarlet says that all the time: She won&#8217;t mess with anyone&#8217;s man because you don&#8217;t know how crazy the other woman will be! Would love to get together in New York; that said, to be fair, as it is, I feel like I barely have time to see my friends and people I know &#8212; let alone people I don&#8217;t yet.<strong></p>
<p>Jon</strong>: Ooooh, how I sooo agree with your statement: &#8220;Whatever happened to the idea that what occurs between consenting adults in the privacy of their own home(s) is their business and no one else’s.&#8221;<br />
<strong><br />
<a href="http://www.thewritingbuddha.com/" rel="nofollow">Buddha</a></strong>: Unfortunately, that&#8217;s soooo true!</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://thehookerchronicles.com/" rel="nofollow">The Hooker Chronicles</a></strong>: I&#8217;m gonna <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YHTk4RTp04g" rel="nofollow">keep on trucking</a>!! :) </p>
<p><strong>letinstar</strong>: :)</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.kalisia.net/" rel="nofollow">Kali</a></strong>: Wait, wait. Let me get a drink. I&#8217;ll drink with you :)</p>
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