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“Unlike sex, when it comes to credit cards, I don’t remember my first.” That’s the opener to Rachel’s piece It Happened to Me: I Declared Bankruptcy. Speaking of firsts, in case you missed it, from the show Fourplay TV, here’s a clip about the first time I came. It includes tips for female vaginal orgasms. Hint: Buy a sex toy.
If that fails, the delicious cocktail The Orgasm, is quite delicious, too! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm_%28cocktail%29
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I have always felt (perhaps incorrectly) that a woman’s failure to achieve orgasm during normal intercourse is probably due to her failure to choose a man who is devoted entirely to her needs. Foreplay should always last at least 45 minutes to an hour and provide about 80% of what she needs to ‘attain nirvana.’
On the other hand, I am a man and what the (bleep) do I know about what a woman needs?
Mr. Q….can I just say, ‘LOVE YOU’! I hope there is some lucky person who is benefiting from that 45 minutes to an hour of foreplay that you speak of. :)
Thank you so very VERY much, Chezzy. Unfortunately, most women cannot get past the disfiguring surgical scarring on my head and face. Oh well, I guess that shallow people will simply live shallow unfulfilling lives.
Besides which, after my last round of chemo, I have been so cranky that I do not even want to tolerate myself, much less anyone else (and I cannot even guarantee that my *ahem* will even stand up properly for the final fireworks that most women demand).
I can say that, to achieve orgasm, role playing is one key. You should also do some adventure, like going to a trip and have sex in the places you go. Feel every minute and don’t force yourself to do some things that you don’t feel doing.