“Don’t date, hook up with, or marry assholes. You’ll feel more alone than if you were single. That said, even when you find a great lover, tough times eventually come and you must work through them.” Lovers, pick up my latest METRO sex column from newsstands in New York City, Philadelphia and Boston today. Find out about the F-Word in your sex life: Fighting. If you don’t live in any of those cities, you can also read my stuff online:

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I mention you shouldn’t put up with abuse. If you wanna know what that looks like, read How I Steer Clear of Crazy, Rage-Filled Lovers which includes the story about an ex who said: “This is the worst it’s going to get, Twanna. I mean, it’s not like I’m going to hit you!”