Dear lovelies:

Relationship advice book Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay sells well because — without dealbreakers as abuse, infidelity, or other unhealthy aspects — it’s seldom a clear-cut case that a couple’s breakup should be imminent. Shared memories, friends, experiences, lives, and emotions complicate the decision to say goodbye to a lover for good.

Because the New Year always offers time for reflection, this week’s love letter is about change. Coming. Going. Leaving. Arriving. Whatever your lot in life, I wish you success today and always. And, now, here’s the rest of the regular Friday “Love Letter” to keep you in the loop of sexy things you should know, see, read, and do …